"Do You Miss the Build-Up, or Are You a 'Skip to the Good Part' Guy?"

So here's my question, gentlemen (and curious lurkers):
Are you the type who lives for the long tease—the glances, the playful banter, the brush of a thigh in passing...
Or do you prefer to cut to the chase and dive right into the heat of things?

I ask because, as someone who enjoys both—depending on the mood—I sometimes wonder which moments really linger with you after a visit.
Is it the way she looked at you when the door opened? The sound she made when you kissed her neck?
Or is it that second round that wasn’t planned but couldn’t be helped?

I’ll share mine if you share yours…
(Also, hi. I’m Anastasia.)

I enjoy the build-up. I'm usually a one shot guy, so the longer i am sexually aroused the longer I like it. I am also one of those guys who shortly after they cum get that "where's the door?" look in their eye.

Go for the jugular please

Both, depends on different factors , the person , etc.w

Outcall, usually within minutes of meeting a Provider I can get a vibe if I want to get them naked and complete the transaction or treat them like a GF and offer a beverage and some conversation before getting down to business.

When I get that awkward pause then it's a que that they want you to STFU and complete the transaction. Especially if they decline the offer of a beverage.

Hotel interactions are usually me getting naked as soon as I enter the room and conversation comes at the end.

So here's my question, gentlemen (and curious lurkers):
Are you the type who lives for the long tease—the glances, the playful banter, the brush of a thigh in passing...
Or do you prefer to cut to the chase and dive right into the heat of things? Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

Both, depending on the mood. Once the “business” starts, ideally, I like to start sensual, slow, kissing, licking, and then work my way down her, around the vulva, not directly attacking her clit, until she is ready and can’t wait anymore. After I see her moan and cum, I want this process be reciprocated by her on me. Then we can transition into the frenzy mode.

I ask because, as someone who enjoys both—depending on the mood—I sometimes wonder which moments really linger with you after a visit.
Is it the way she looked at you when the door opened? The sound she made when you kissed her neck?
Or is it that second round that wasn’t planned but couldn’t be helped?

I’ll share mine if you share yours…
(Also, hi. I’m Anastasia.) Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

What lingers with me after?

(a) It’s the enthusiasm and the sound of a woman in ecstasy (no “on” but “in, if you know what I mean). Not over the top sounds—but more natural/real ones. I understand it might be IOP, but it has to look authentic.
(b) This moaning combined with the visual of flushing (sexual) up of the skin, the erect nipples, a juicy pussy, and the ballooning of the vaginal canal behind the ridge (my fingers will know it), will linger with me. The last bit (ballooning) is an unmistakable sign of true arousal vs. IOP, IMO.

I’ll help the process immensely of course and shoot for the ideal, but will settle for a convincing IOP at the very least.

For one hour, I found that spending 10 to 15 minutes of licking and 69 gives adequate time for fucking and 10 minutes to cool down and talk. The time it takes to reach an orgasm varies, but lately it’s been under 10 minutes. So, I figure I am doing the provider a favor. Not as young as I used to be

I’ve always believed the most memorable moments aren't just about the act, but the energy between the acts. That electricity that lingers after the kiss and pops up at 2pm on a tuesday, or the ache that builds when someone takes their time. The moments that do linger in my mind end up in my blog.

THE WAY SHE TREATS ME
is she in hurry up mode?
Am i just another client?
Is she a time waster?
Am i just another ATM?
is her body language positive or negative?

Totally dependant on the mood, or maybe I should say horeny...prefer some buildup and teasing...but others let's just get to ot.

I enjoy both, and it depends on how my day is going. I have been with a few providers that try to draw things out, and not in a fun way, to burn time. I am not a quick guy, which is maddening sometimes, and when they burned the clock thinking I can be done in 10 or 15 min I end up leaving frustrated.


CKJAmore pretty much nailed my style:

Both, depending on the mood. Once the “business” starts, ideally, I like to start sensual, slow, kissing, licking, and then work my way down her, around the vulva, not directly attacking her clit, until she is ready and can’t wait anymore. After I see her moan and cum, I want this process be reciprocated by her on me. Then we can transition into the frenzy mode.

I love seeing the surrender to orgasm on a woman's face prior to starting in earnest on my end. Is it a selfish act for me? Yup. The enthusiasm is typically a few notches higher from the lady.

I used to be strictly a buildup guy, but have more recently grown an appreciation for a woman who jumps my bones as soon as I walk in.

Getting the business out of the way first makes for some really nice pillow talk afterwards, and the buildup to a possoble second round is fun

I am not one to waste any time when anyone walks in my door..lol!!
I like to be freshly showered of course and wrapped in a towel so you can unwrap me asap..lol!!

I like a slow hand touch giving and getting .. but I can just bust it out if need be , if he needs to be in & out'
If you like to take your time i'm good for the buildup and love it .

While I certainly appreciate this (and have)

I am not one to waste any time when anyone walks in my door..lol!!
I like to be freshly showered of course and wrapped in a towel so you can unwrap me asap..lol!! Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

I also have to say, sometimes foreplay, petting, and makeout can also be severely underrated.

I like a slow hand touch giving and getting .. but I can just bust it out if need be , if he needs to be in & out'
If you like to take your time i'm good for the buildup and love it . Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF