WHAT IS THE MOST ATTRACTIVE FEATURE OF A MAN OR WOMAN??

I find that the most attractive feature of man or woman is a smile.
That is always the first thing I notice. You?
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Jessica

Smile is good. I first saw the woman I saw for almost four years on IG and was mesmerized by that smile. She had a lower tooth missing, and I noticed that maybe twice in the time we were together -- that's how beautiful her smile was.


Beyond that, it depends. What she's wearing has an effect on my perception. There's a teller at a bank I go to who's maybe 5-4 and 101 pounds (I heard her talking about her weight to someone else). Large As or Bs up top, but they look bigger because she wears tight tops that hug the curves and accentuate her flat stomach. She has a good smile, too.


It might be hair: long, flowing, shiny hair that catches the light just right and makes you want to run it through your fingers and smell it.


It might be a nice pair of jeans that draw attention to her butt and legs. (Lyle Lovett warning: She might be ugly from the front.)


But once she opens her mouth, personality rules, If you'd told me that I, someone who prefers petite Latinas, would be smitten with a woman taller and heavier than I for four years, I'd've said you were crazy. But it happened because she was everything I could ever want in a friend and a woman.. And another bank teller has a really nice, petite body, but she has some facial blemishes. But she's sharp, witty, caring, just good people. I wish I could, I wish I could.

The first thing that I tend to notice is the body type of a woman, if she is rules of 100 compliant. Or at least she is pretty close to that. I will notice that first before a smile or type of hair cut.

Broader than a smile I would say, would be her demeanor. That could include a smile, the bounce in her walk, the friendliness in her voice (both spoken and written)...yes, personality. But since that's hard to gauge at first glance, I would agree a smile is a great indicator of things to come.

That smile/personality does it for me EVERY time. I have BBW girls that I just adore, and I'm smitten with some that are soooo skinny.

It's the overall face. Eyes smile and that connection

Ass n thighs and height

eyes and smile

Nice styled clean hair, smiles, eyes and hygiene

Besides eyes and smile body wise is ass & thighs. The perfect combination is of a tiny ass/thigh gap!

Having met lot of ladies, in hobby world, of various looks, shape, attitude, ethnicity, personality etc, I will say looks can be overlooked, if attitude and personality are top notch.

But then again its a hobby, sometimes we are looking for something that will be out of reach for us in real world.....so looks do drive the fantasy aspect of it.

However, I can say that to me chin/neck tells a lot about her looks, overall health, nutrition, self-care, and sometimes a few personality traits.

I was going to say the same thing. It's face that catches my attention first. She can be a 10, but if her face doesn't do it for me, it's a no-go.

Now, if you ask me to describe what makes a face attractive, I can't do it. I just know it when I see it.

A strong mind. That's so hot.

Looks will only go so far. I connected with a lady that was so hot I thought I was looking at the exhaust of a jet engine. Things moved quickly at the bar. Long story short, her personality and engagement in bed were horrible.

So even from a hobby standpoint, I look for some connection and engagement. I am not expecting something super deep, but a bit of human connection. I understand that during session we are players on a stage, just don't go over the top.

I really like a woman who knows how to work the assets that she has. Do you have hips and fill out a pair of wranglers well? Awesome. Do you have deep pools for eyes, deeper than the Mariana Trench? Great, stop making me loose my train of thought.


With all that said, I guess I am echoing RM a bit. A great mind keeps me coming back.

Adding a bit more and semi hygiene related, but love a women who takes care of herself, make up , perfume , dresses decent, has nice nails ( not those fake ugly 3/4 inch one that look like shit), basically cares about appearance

Too many today who are unkept, fake everything and don’t give a crap about appearances

I check out his teeth first this tell's me a lot about a person and how well he takes care of himself and then I go for the zipper to see if he has a dick he can model for me lol

But I relly love a nice personality most of all!