*sorry if this isn't allowed* new(ish) girl here

I've had my eccie account since 9/2024 but onl only began providing services in the last 45-60 days. when i began, and
still yet, i had/have no idea what the heck i should do to market myself and set myself apart from the other providers in a positive and memorable way, besides pretty obvious ideas like present myself in the best possible light and look after my physical appearance, don't ruin the fantasy aspect of the encounter, use discretion and just as importantly, operate discreetly at all times &
consider getting professional photos taken for my profile, which i still haven't gotten that done, btw but plan to if this becomes a successful endeavor or even provides a worthwhile supplemental income at some point lol~ i do work a square job 32 hours per week, i should add.

i established some personal requirements before putting myself out here * officially *... a few of these personal requirements are....: treat this hobby in the most professional way possible, communicate openly and clearly, maintain strong boundaries, ofc always be safe, do not ever drag any drama~ whether personal, work related or hobby related ~ into the dynamic with the gentlemen and certainly don't engage or participate in any of his drama, if ever presenueedact ofm⁹or other energy draining be good company, take care of my hygiene ofc lol, and do good business... accomodate as much as possible without compromising my own boundaries or comfort...and be trustworthy, discreet and treat everyone fairly. also i was of the mindset that i needed to as much as possible without being disingenuous, have fun with this endeavor and that will be clearly demonstrated in my behavior, because id venture that most or majority of other humans do not want to spend a lot of time or any $ on someone who is not also having a good time!

I'm patiently awaiting verification from other platforms... finding which ones are scammy or untrustworthy VS. which are reliable and/or utilized most often and will generate the most positive results has been tedious confusing and that's just that part... learning the verbiage and other things hasn't been simple either...


im just venting really, but this was a lot more difficult than i ever anticipated... and I've only seen 5 or 6 clients total in the 45 to 60 days I've been taking bookings... so many people text and bug about photos or just to say that they're considering booking... this is so annoying. how hard is it to just not do this stuff? as my friend who's a provider that's quite popular in my area said, you don't go into a hair salon and tell them, "I'm thinking about maybe getting my hair cut. can you show me what it's going to look like 1st?"

idk .. i feel like I'm not getting the business i desperately need and i don't think it's my behavior or results at the meetings I've had because I've I've kept it professional and always make sure that everyone's satisfied. i think my rates are low enough to be affordable. my body isn't perfect and i am not huge on naked photos therefore I don't feel like i am justified in asking for a sky high rate. and if I'm not booking at the current rate as much as I'd like then raising them certainly isn't the answer in my eyes.. I've been told "low" rates scare off the consumers... or the "best" or most desirable kind of consumers anyway...

i don't know if I'm looking for advice because I've scoured forums asked other providesr who are more experienced and also asked some clients.... most of whom are repeat visitors so that's another thing that makes me think the reason that I'm not getting many bookings are that I'm somehow not me not doing a good job during the time we spend together ... but i am open to constructive feedback of course. i just feel like I've asked around so much that I've heard damn near every theory out there as to why and what the solution is .

guess I'm kinda disappointed and down on myself right now.

if you made it this far you are a trooper and i appreciate your time ��

Where are you located? Do you have a g current ads running? If so, I would post a link here.

Baylee,
Check your messages.

While it may be frustrating I wouldn’t let it get you down too much. Sounds like you’re doing everything right and getting your footing.

I thoroughly believe if both clients and providers abide by the four simple “PDSC” rules it allows both to focus on the fun stuff and have a good time (Professionalism, Discretion, Safety, and Cleanliness)…and you’re doing just that.

Give it time, stay consistent, and continue being awesome.

Hope things start getting better. I know it's all about timing at 1st. Honestly then we are able to see who we want. I've personally been told things, I wish I didn't know, some of the details gents have said about me. It hurt my feelings then realized if we did reviews what would we say about them. Like I said soon you won't have to worry about all this. It can be stressful @ first

It would help if you would communicate. I messaged you in here and texted you yesterday and you haven’t responded. Meanwhile, I scheduled with someone else for 10a this morning. I was going to schedule with you.

It would help if you would communicate. I messaged you in here and texted you yesterday and you haven’t responded. Meanwhile, I scheduled with someone else for 10a this morning. I was going to schedule with you. Originally Posted by Sooner Ray

Exactly!

Gentlemen let’s stop the bashing

I personally don't see any bashing. She said," but i am open to constructive feedback of course". That's all that I see happening.

Hope things start getting better. I know it's all about timing at 1st. Honestly then we are able to see who we want. I've personally been told things, I wish I didn't know, some of the details gents have said about me. It hurt my feelings then realized if we did reviews what would we say about them. Like I said soon you won't have to worry about all this. It can be stressful @ first Originally Posted by Kiki7

I agree, give it time and you will be successful if you are patient. There will always be guys you don't want to see and not respond to. And they will bash you for that. All providers are selective of who they respond to. Especially if they feel the returning client treated them disrespectfully. Set up some good regulars and take care of them.

I second what HY said. Starting any type of business, it takes time to establish your brand and your clientele/customer base. Me personally, I'm into the girl next door/milf type who is GFE. Comes from my years of sugaring. Some guys like fake tits, fake lips and fake hair. Nothing wrong with that, not everyone likes the same cup of tea. Hang in there.

Gentlemen let’s stop the bashing Originally Posted by Dr-epg

I personally don't see any bashing. She said," but i am open to constructive feedback of course". That's all that I see happening. Originally Posted by 405Newguy

Gentlemen, let's stop over-reacting to The Good Doctor's over-reaction!!

Stay on the topic of providing feedback ("i am open to constructive feedback") that was requested by the OP.

Apparently instructions were ignored

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