Menu's

Why do providers get upset when you ask about their menu's. It seems to be a fair question to know what we can expect. Hobbiest can post activities, so why do providers shy away from discussing menu"s. We get it, no one does bbfs and most do not do anal. But I enjoy passionate sessions and therefore limited to only seeing 2 or 3 providers that I know well. Love to hear back.
Cendell M's Avatar
Most providers have their menu posted in their ad

We don’t like to discuss those things for obvious reasons
Why do providers get upset when you ask about their menu's. It seems to be a fair question to know what we can expect. Hobbiest can post activities, so why do providers shy away from discussing menu"s. We get it, no one does bbfs and most do not do anal. But I enjoy passionate sessions and therefore limited to only seeing 2 or 3 providers that I know well. Love to hear back. Originally Posted by Jesse1
You have to really read reviews from reputable people. I read reviews from several people. Go over their history. At the donations now take your time. Do it in advance, when you are not horny and make a better decision. Reputable means hobbyists who dont kiss ass all the time. Anyone who always says ymmv well that review is immediately something that I disregard.

Asking women specific questions is something that's frowned upon. Once you get the hang of things you'll figure out who does what and yes you have legitimate concerns because this is expensive. Most women will provide menu once you are screened. Just dont be explicit. Basic questions like dfk, daty, Greek etc I've never had a problem getting answers. Just dont act weird and over text her. Ask the reviewer nicely through pm. Etc
Also the two providers you know have a network. Ask them also. Most providers understand and will help you out. Bottom line, get with Mona Lisa and you will never have any issues. Best decision i ever made. But yeah some, few, or hesitant to provide menu.
Ericka xoxo's Avatar
Security reasons. I know you guys know how to find the Menu's
Busty's Avatar
  • Busty
  • 07-22-2025, 12:43 PM

Example Menu-
Must have reservation
•No Greek Food
•Multiple Desserts
•kissing the Cook optional
•No quick snacks/rushing isn't fun
•covered utensils for sanitary safety, unsanitary consumers will be dismissed
• our recipes are top secret, don't divulge anything
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Why do providers get upset when you ask about their menu's. It seems to be a fair question to know what we can expect. Hobbiest can post activities, so why do providers shy away from discussing menu"s. We get it, no one does bbfs and most do not do anal. But I enjoy passionate sessions and therefore limited to only seeing 2 or 3 providers that I know well. Love to hear back. Originally Posted by Jesse1
Sir, it's shocking that you don't understand this! Outright admitting to any form of activities is illegal!

You also get a lot of timewasters out here as well as creeps who just want you to dirty talk/text with them and never actually schedule.

You have to read reviews to get a good sense of what kind of experience you may have with a particular provider. And always remember, no matter what, this hobby is fully ymmv.
Love the feedback. Busty most of all. Great menu.
Sir, it's shocking that you don't understand this! Outright admitting to any form of activities is illegal!

You also get a lot of timewasters out here as well as creeps who just want you to dirty talk/text with them and never actually schedule.

You have to read reviews to get a good sense of what kind of experience you may have with a particular provider. And always remember, no matter what, this hobby is fully ymmv. Originally Posted by Madison of Houston
I dont honestly understand ymmv. Perhaps it's because I just understand to take a shower before I leave the house and once I get there. Consistency is everything to me. I believe a lady as long as someone is clean, fresh breath, respectful......I believe the lady should consistently deliver her menu. There are ladies that consistently do. I dont understand why that's not considered the norm. I dont have an issue with ymmv. Just curious
Busty's Avatar
  • Busty
  • 07-22-2025, 02:23 PM
Thanks Jesse.
fine Dining is not fastfood.
Relax and enjoy
Love the feedback. Busty most of all. Great menu. Originally Posted by Jesse1
R.M.'s Avatar
  • R.M.
  • 07-22-2025, 02:58 PM
Why do providers get upset when you ask about their menu's. It seems to be a fair question to know what we can expect. Hobbiest can post activities, so why do providers shy away from discussing menu"s. We get it, no one does bbfs and most do not do anal. But I enjoy passionate sessions and therefore limited to only seeing 2 or 3 providers that I know well. Love to hear back. Originally Posted by Jesse1
You know what mine is by personal experience.
Busty needs to get that back fixed so we can dine. I know R.M's menu and it is fine dining at best. Need to dine with her again. Haven't seen her since she left West Texas.
Samcro84's Avatar
I ask following if I can’t find reviews. Usually after we are texting I get answer.
I like GFE with kissing. I that available.
Most respond with answer.
If they don’t or complain I move on.