Dancers Talk

Most here know this well, but it's worth the occasional reminder that dancers talk to each other, gossip-style. Sometimes, they talk about patrons to torpedo them, perhaps poisoning the well so they can have the only shot at that patron's funds. Other times, the talk is just misconception, spread like wildfire.
An example comes from Flash Dancer in Ft Worth. I had mentioned many moons ago that I had visited that club and been told by every dancer who asked me for a dance that all dances were "ONLY dance." This had seemed an odd mantra, especially since many reports on this site claimed extras were routine at that club. I surmised that the dancers must have made an assumption about me that involved LE. Well, I ventured back to that club in the meantime, and am now certain that was the way it happened. I had approached a tiny dancer on-stage to tip her. She invited me to dance in the VIP area. I accepted. She came and sat with me at my table, and she indicated rather bluntly that she was DTF. Then she looked past my shoulder toward the bar, and excused herself to go talk to another dancer there. She did not return to my table. Next time she was onstage, I tipped her again. She told me she had been teasing earlier, and of course did "only dance" in the VIP area. On a subsequent visit to that club, I saw her again and she asked me what I did for work. I told her what I did, and I also said she thought I did something else. Yes, she confirmed, she had been told I was LE, and that's why she didn't return to my table and why she changed her story.
That day's visit with her gets kinda funny, so I'll continue the tale: She was well convinced by this point that I was in fact NOT LE, so we did go to VIP. She indicated an interest in doing everything, but said she was about to get called on stage, so we should come back to the VIP after her next circuit to get busy. After her rounds on stage, she sat with me at my table, and was more friendly than ever. She told me she wanted to get married, and for me to put a beautiful ring on her left hand. This was peculiar, given our lack of time together, but she was certainly eager to finish what we started, so back we went... But, when we returned to the VIP area, she once again changed her mind. Knowing that this whiplash-style variance in her disposition was puzzling to me, she said she had just gotten her period. I left without getting a dance, and quite confused by her many moods.

Gee at my age if anything the dancers think I’m loaded & almost dead! Lol

lol that reminds me of a funny story. I once told a dancer I'm looking for someone to inherit and she fucked my brains out in the VIP. I took her digits and never saw her again. She wasn't special. Btw how many times did you end up keep going to VIP without getting a dance? I thought Flash had a upcharge to get into VIP as well

Early afternoon there's no fee for VIP (at least some days).

The games they play! Crazy times