We have many post about providers upset over no show no call. I respect that frustration but on the reverse side what about providers who agree to a time and day and and no show no response for several days.
I saw on P411 a provider i saw about 14 years ago now active and requested a meeting. We agreed and then something happened that we could not meet that day. This has happened now 5 times and usual response is I will make it up to you. This provider as i now recall in the past had trouble keeping appointments or no response. She is definitely hot but something about being disrespected kind of turns you off.
Interested in thoughts and what others would do.
Thanks
- charmingmark
- 08-31-2025, 01:02 PM
- nottoday
- 08-31-2025, 01:11 PM
its frustrating and usually causes me to just move on and quit reaching out to her
- FightFan
- 08-31-2025, 02:03 PM
Postponements / NCNS are a big issue for me . If the provider doesn't respect you enough to be punctual. Move on because you are going to be disappointed with her service anyway .
Sadly , Many providers and anyone involved in any service industry nowadays have more business than they need so a single customer / John is no importance . Find someone that respects your time and what you bring to the table .
I generally give everyone a second chance. I refuse to be struck out and have a 2 strike rule . If your stupid enough to give it a third shot. blame yourself. If you do not exude self respect , others will not give respect .
These repeated incidences prove they do not respect your time , money , their profession and anything you bring to the table .
I have had this conversation with many providers / SBs . 90 percent of the time if the first visit is cancelled . I will not give a second chance . Unless I believe there is a legitimate reason.
Hobbyists in Omaha have let providers dictate rates and quality of service. Most providers are overpriced with low quality service. The supply / demand issue .
There are too many Hobbyists in Omaha willing to overpay for low quality , unprofessional services . If there is a cancellation or NCNS assume the provider got a bigger better deal.
Sadly , Many providers and anyone involved in any service industry nowadays have more business than they need so a single customer / John is no importance . Find someone that respects your time and what you bring to the table .
I generally give everyone a second chance. I refuse to be struck out and have a 2 strike rule . If your stupid enough to give it a third shot. blame yourself. If you do not exude self respect , others will not give respect .
These repeated incidences prove they do not respect your time , money , their profession and anything you bring to the table .
I have had this conversation with many providers / SBs . 90 percent of the time if the first visit is cancelled . I will not give a second chance . Unless I believe there is a legitimate reason.
Hobbyists in Omaha have let providers dictate rates and quality of service. Most providers are overpriced with low quality service. The supply / demand issue .
There are too many Hobbyists in Omaha willing to overpay for low quality , unprofessional services . If there is a cancellation or NCNS assume the provider got a bigger better deal.
- Mclovin54
- 08-31-2025, 05:37 PM
Quit rewarding them by seeing them anyway hours after your agreed upon time. Tell them to pound sand and maybe they'll learn.
- victoryformation
- 08-31-2025, 06:22 PM
Quit rewarding them by seeing them anyway hours after your agreed upon time. Tell them to pound sand and maybe they'll learn. Originally Posted by Mclovin54
Amen 2 That!
Demand excellence from them ... every step of the way!
Don't let them play you out!
Show them ... you're not to be trifled with!
Show them ... you ain't playin'!
Demand they up their game!
Demand they play by the rules!
(I rendezvoused with My K-Girl ATF 78x ... she was never even a minute late!)