First time at the church

So I have seen a lot of mixed reviews, lately they’ve all been negative regarding ST james. I had never been and I was in the area, so I decided to check it out for myself on a Friday after work ended up going back Saturday and Sunday lol. Overall, it was mixed reviews for me, but I will say I was pleasantly surprised by a few dancers that make me wanna go back and explore potential extras. I’ll give you the complete rundown for those of you that want to know. Friday night I went and sat at the bar. I almost walked out after about 15 minutes because I still hadn’t been asked if I wanted to drink the main floor was really busy. I went and sat on that little table in the back by one of this Smaller stages they have on the side with the pole. Finally, a waitress came up and asked if I wanted to drink so I decided to stay a while longer finally this blonde with big double D’s came up and talk to me for a while. She was down to earth and was telling me how the VIP Isn’t really worth it. If I have the money she could have just as much fun with me in one of the rooms in the back, she also said I could buy in increments of time from her and pretty much said if I take care of her she’ll take care of me. It was 150 for 15 minutes. I did not take her up on it because as it was my first time there and she was the first one to talk to me. I really wanted to survey the scene and see all my options, but I was intrigued by her after talking to one or two other dancers, this hot chick whose name I do not remember came over all I remember is that she was Polish. I was feeling the vibe we go into the back room for some dances gave me some of the best few dances I have had at a club in a long time. That was what entice me to come back Saturday. She made me almost completely forget about the horrible service when I walked in and the bartender just completely ignoring me. So Saturday afternoon I go in talk to a couple dancers that I was not really into but this time the waitress was super cool and attentive, and made sure I was taken care of brought me drinks regularly and checked in on me the kind of service you expect so that was redeeming from the night before. I ended up getting a couple dances from a couple girls. They were cool. Then I met this one girl. Forgive me my memory is horrible. I do not remember her name, but I am going to go back soon and try to find her and this time I will remember so I can report back because I’m pretty sure she does extras based off my conversation with her, but I was just there for some hot dances and I don’t know about y’all, but this is never happened for me at a club, especially when I wasn’t paying anything above the normal dance prices s, but she actually kissed me a little bit., open mouth and all. I don’t know if that’s normal or gross for some of you, but I was into it. It was kind of hot , she gave me some very sensual dances, and I would definitely left pleased,then I went back on Sunday, now Sunday was a bust. Several of the girls ignored me and would walk past me and didn’t even check on me. There was this one really hot dancer that I was gonna try to get some dances with, but I noticed she was sitting next to the girl that I had turned away the night before, and I’m wondering if she told her friend that I was like some guy with no money which wasn’t the case I’m just picky and I would’ve loved to wasted some money on that one but. I’m weird so for me I like the dancers that also have the personalities. I don’t like the snoody ones that’s just not my thing if they take the time to actually come up and talk to me and they’re hot, then I give them my money. I finally got a couple dances from this one chick that did offer extras and she bit my dick through my pants softly and then asked me if I wanted head. I asked her how much and she was going to charge 3 Ben’s for that not even fs. I declined and as soon as the dance was over, she walked out of the room and went on her way, I think I offended her that I said no after she bit my dick. Finally this girl that came over from Cuba spoke broken English, but used her translator on her phone, she was a sweetheart. Said she used to be a doctor in Cuba. Because there was a slim pickings, even though she was new and hadn’t dance to any other clubs, I would normally steer clear because in my experience a lot of these newbies are just not as into it is the more experience girls. But I went ahead and got a couple dances from her and it was just all right she didn’t even take her top off. She didn’t let me touch much. She didn’t really turn towards me at all and I like tits in my face so that was disappointing wouldn’t probably see her again, but she was the only one that took the time to talk to me so at least she got something.. Excuse me for rambling, so in short, lol Friday started out bad ended good, Saturday was amazing and super hot Sunday was a bust and my final determination is that I am going to definitely go back and see what fun I can have on a busier night with more dancers.

what conversation topics do yall bring up when talking to these ladies?

I've had similar experiences at the church. It's hit or miss. I went on a Friday evening a couple of months ago and it cost 20$ to get in and 10$ for a beer. Then there was absolutely nothing going on inside. What a rip off.

Just shoot shit like you would anyone else:

How are things going — investments treating you well? And how are the kids doing? Do you see the baby daddies much or just rely on direct deposit from the state?

I heard some chatter — apparently Buck’s been having some health issues, something with his prostate. Tough stuff.

And Joe… sounds like he’s heading for another divorce? That’s number four, right?

Did you catch the Astros game? Or the high school football matchup this weekend — wild turnout.

Are you working more days lately or still splitting time? What did you think of the DJ the other night? Do you ever head into VIP, or prefer to keep it low-key?"**

I go to clubs to be chased. If am not chased, then am not spending but rest assured am not butt hurt. If I chase, I better get it for freem imagine begging for attention and then paying for it, ugh, never.