BBBJ

I'm going to get on my soapbox here for just a moment. I just had a session with a very well-known provider. And while I cannot complain that we didn't get the job done. There was no bbbj. I have found it increasingly difficult to find someone that can do it. Without being a jackhammer. Whatever happened to a slow and sensual bbbj? As I've gotten a little bit older, I have gotten to appreciate the build up more than I used to. But it's been increasingly difficult to find someone that is good.
Anyone have any thoughts or guidance on this?

You’re paying for it so tell her exactly how you want it . Take control of the situation and do not let providers control the session . Show them your the boss and they are an employee.