I am not sure why some threads are closed and not just deleted.   
In a lot of ways this is an ugly business - especially in its current illegal and unregulated condition. 
But to forget that these women are human beings - many of whom are living with tragic challenges and addictions - is to completely lose your humanity.  
If you get ripped off by giving a deposit or lending money - really it is shame on you for being stupid.  Or it is just the cost of being in this hobby and you should move on. 
What happened to a provider recently is a tragedy for her, her family, and her child.   She is just a human being struggling to deal with her challenges.   That is not something to celebrate ever.
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
        
            I’ve never met that person but I hear you man. It’s one thing to just share news or share the story of what happened to you, so that others can be aware and not make mistakes like that: like getting involved with her mother/family, “loaning” money, like really? But to celebrate and gloat on a public forum? That’s taking it to a whole other level.
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
        
            It is a sad part of this business . The girls , even those high end ones that guys think dont have issues, troubles or something else going well THEY DO.  Someone cheering and happy for something bad just shows the level of humanity he lacks. Hope at some point they can turn things around not only for themselves but child and family
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
	
    
    
        
            We are all part of this eco-system.  For better or worse.
  But partially outing a provider w/ a child and celebrating their down fall is despicable.  
I sense the guys on this site who show some humanity and empathy have got much more pussy in their lifetime than those who don't.   Accompanied by zero insecurity and higher testosterone levels.    
And yes ..agreed.....Mods should have the ability to delete threads.
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
        
            As someone that doesn't regularly read every post can someone fill me in?
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
        
            
	
		
		
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            Warren - you are correct.  My question is why some of these post don't get deleted rather than just closed.  I am surprised by BS post here as he called it out in that post.  Anyway - I have a hard time fully understanding the moderation of this site sometimes.
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
        
            
	
		
		
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            Every provider is broken unfortunately as are we for chasing them   If you thinknfor one moment that they aren't you're only kidding yourself to make you feel better. A masters degree or selling real estate doesn't make her any different when she's had 3-5 guys a day or how many " ruby dub tugs a masseuse gives . We all enable them in one way or another . As far as calling guys on here " bottom feeders" you should look back into the past. Stay safe gents have fun and holidays are getting close.
        
        
        
     
	
    
    
        
            Haha. Just had dinner earlier tonight with the masseuse and boy is she in rough shape! She does tip 50% in cash. I’ll make sure to check in on her daily as she struggles to get by and keep the man who knows everything posted, even the ones he’s never met.