Incels

What are your thoughts on the whole incel subculture and if you didnt have this hobby, would have you gone that route? The incel problem is real as dating has gotten harder and harder. We get extremists like Elliot Rodger and Alek Minnissian who make a name for themselves blaming women and being denyed sex as a reason for their violent rampages. Then we get all these lonely horny young men who feel the same way and idolize these two mass killers, even referring to the latter as Saint Elliot. Then thanks to the internet, all these angry lonley rejected guys bond together and form the incel communities.

Sad reality not to get sucked if youre lonely and constantly rejected by women. This hobby can be a lifesaver to prevent guys from going down the incel path

This hobby can save a lot of lost souls!

This is a complex post in many ways. I think that this was maybe the first generation that totally grew up in a social media bubble. Bombarded daily by propaganda. I have a nephew who is brilliant. But he lives in the Joe Rogan bubble. No interest in girls and 100% he's straight. Couldn't handle living away from home during college. He literally spends every hour that he's not in school on social media.


Like many there is little ability to think outside that bubble. I don't know the answer but as a society and country I feel we're fucked. Maybe of our own making??

Because of their obsession with social media ... there are a lot of insecure men out there ... who are completely inept at schmoozing with a woman!
(Sweet-talking a woman is a unique skill set ... and is a well-practiced art form!)

Because of their obsession with social media ... there are a lot of insecure men out there ... who are completely inept at schmoozing with a woman!
(Sweet-talking a woman is a unique skill set ... and is a well-practiced art form!) Originally Posted by victoryformation

You're bombarded at an early age on what a hot woman should look like. It's mind control.


When we were kids you had the girls in the neighborhood as example. Yeah, I liked the hot ones but damn if I was going to be too picky when it came to getting laid. That said, I've had my fair share of 5's but hey it was all fun and I learned a very important lesson, dome of those 5's were damn good fucks.


Looking at hot models all day and thinking that that's what you should have has to be a huge let down and psychologically draining. It's unhealthy.


I'm OK with a 5 even today if the performance and sexiness is there. And to be honest with you some of most of the 10's I've bedded have been lame in bed. I always joke that some of them were doing their nails while I was giving my all.

I mean what should people expect? These girls dress slutty with their half shirts or bikini tops with daisy dukes or mini skirts. Then when guys hit on them they call sexual harassment (no thanks to the me too movement). So no wonder why incels are so angry

Go to a country concert at SPAC and you see all these girls walk around in slutty clothes with high boots or sandals, getting drunk and acting wild, squatting to pee right in the open etc etc

One thinks easy pick up. But no. If your a socially awkward or "weird" guy they dont want you and will cry sexual harassment or get one of their chad male friends to beat you up.

So this hobby is a last resort in which none of the providers care about us. They only want our money. If one of us had a financial emergency and became suddenly broke with no money in our name, all the providers even our regulars would dump us in a heartbeat

My advice is stop being a self loathing simp. Take classes and read books to educate yourself, eat healthy and exercise, start bettering yourself and respecting yourself. Work on self respect and self pride. All that helps with being confident in who you are and everything else will fall into place or keep thinking you’re a loser worth nothing and continue to be sad and surprised a real world girl won’t fuck you.

Valid points to be sure!
But if you become adept at playing this game and perfect the art of sweet-talking ... you can get some really good puusy and have some kickass fun!
(Being an incel ... is but one stage in a man's life!)
You graduate from that ... and move on!

I see that the OP is banned and well he should be. It's probably BB. But I want to say this in case anyone kinda/sorta agrees with some of the crap he said. Women can dress any way they want and their choice does not obligate them to fuck a guy just because he wants to. They can go to a concert, they can get drunk, flirt, wear sexy/tight/short clothes, and none of this obligates them in any way to anyone.

My advice is stop being a self loathing simp. Take classes and read books to educate yourself, eat healthy and exercise, start bettering yourself and respecting yourself. Work on self respect and self pride. All that helps with being confident in who you are and everything else will fall into place or keep thinking you’re a loser worth nothing and continue to be sad and surprised a real world girl won’t fuck you. Originally Posted by SouLkilla

Also, start seeing a therapist.

I have a feeling Scottie is one of those socially awkward weird guys.