This is getting to be too much...

Its so frustrating that half of the ads say "No AA" and the other half that I do contact ghost me as soon as they ask for race and age and I tell them. I am honestly stuck and don't know what to do. Why is it like this? any provider I have seen in the past has never had a problem with me and I show nothing but respect. I may be the only one in here with this problem but if anyone else goes through this, can you please explain how to actually see the providers that you want without scaring them off through text?

also for the ladies, is there a reason you don't see AA? I totally get preference, but I feel like 8/10 times its not that at all and honestly, its discouraging and draining. I've seen girls say AA friendly but then ghost me when I tell them race smh. Maybe this is the wrong city for me.

thank you for any feedback

I find this extremely perplexing too. Years back, when I first started out I was shocked to see AA female ads saying they didn't see those clients. Since I absolutely love seeing AA providers I would as tactfully as I could ask why. I got a variety of answers. The most common one was they were more afraid of being robbed or hurt by AA clients. Which I had a time trying to wrap my head around.

Their pimps are AA. That’s why. They’re keeping the other roosters out.

A lot of providers ghost everyone unfortunately

I see ALL colors in the crayon box!! My only “ no aa” policy is no arrogant assholes!!

As long as ya got refs,it’s all gonna be hell yeahhhh good!!

I'll tell you and probably take heat for it, but here's what providers have told me. Hope no one is offended my views are different.
Black guys are trying to bargain on donations and just giving them a lot of trouble. They were to much trouble to deal with.
That's even the ones that don't have black pimps.

Try using your past provider references and that will help.

I'm sure you're a good man, so use those past references.

Sorry Man but this is the Truth as I've been told.

Dallas is a Good one.