Was I just being paranoid?????

I went on BP recently and saw an ad for a provider that I couldnt pass up on. The ad basically said all the things I wanted to read, and the pics were awesome. I do the basic 2 call action, I call her, I call again when I'm closeby, yada, yada, yada. However, when I drive up to the hotel, I notice someone in the parking lot just sitting in the car, which wouldn't be a problem except that he couldn't keep his eyes off me. He was eyeballing me the entire time. I got kinda nervous so I drove around the parking lot just to see what he would do and, again, he continued to eyeball me. Finally, I say to hell with this and I begin to drive off the lot. When I do that, it looks like he was talking on a radio while still eyeballing me. Now, was I being paranoid or did I dodge a bullet? I called the girl and told her I wasn't coming and at first she didn't know what I was talking about, THEN she said the guy was a friend of a friend of hers and that everything was cool. Obviously, I stayed away. Good move or did I possibly miss out?

Always go with your gut! If something feels weird why chance it?

+1 with Kendra ...You did the right thing, better safe than sorry

SUB you did the right thing. If your gut is twitching and things don't look and feel right move on to plan b if you had a plan b. No need to get caught up in something unexpected. She telling you, oh it was a friend of hers could have been a ploy. Especially working the bp girls, kinda like Forrest Gump said "you never know what you're gonna get". I stick with the eccie ladies with plenty of reviews or ones I've known to be a reliable provider. Good move on your part IMHO. Be careful out there!

I'd say you dodged a bullet. Friend or no, the last thing you want is someone to watch you. Well done.

I have a problem with her admitting the guy in the car was a friend of a friend. What the hell would he be doing out there in the first place. It may not have been LE, maybe a Robbery setup though. If you would have gone up to her room, when you got there, she would have been on the phone with that dude. Before you would've gotten started much past the donation. This dude would've showed up and kicked ya out of the room. Something to that affect. Yeah you may have dodged a bullet. Oh, and just to ease any regrets. The hot chick in the add, she wasn't up there. I am willing to bet.

i agree it could have been a setup of undercovers or it could have been a setup robbery maybe her pimp or someone involved.. its better to go with your gut feeling

YEA I AGREE YOU HAD TO GO WITH YOUR GUT ON THAT 1 BUT YOU ALSO HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT WE HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THE PARKING LOTS IN THE HOTELS SAME TOKEN WAS SHE A REVIEW PROVIDER ?

I agreed. Don't second guess your own gut feeling. I don't need anyone to watch me either. Well done move.
Be safe than sorry!
Kat

When you don't go with your gut it hurts twice as much.

Do guys google the ladies number if he sees her off backpage?? That's the 1 question I ask a guy if he comes to see me, just to see if he does his homework like I do.. We all have to be safe at what we do..

And you made the right decision hun, I would have taken off too...

Stay safe everyone!!

i always google them, multiple reviews make it seem safer, and i wont to know what to expect when i get there without having to ask questions. it's only a problem with the lady changes her pricing or services offered.

Do guys google the ladies number if he sees her off backpage?? That's the 1 question I ask a guy if he comes to see me, just to see if he does his homework like I do.. We all have to be safe at what we do..

And you made the right decision hun, I would have taken off too...

Stay safe everyone!! Originally Posted by SpinnerSarah619

Of course, and run all the pics through TinEye.com too. That will find many of the fake pics and where they stole them from.

Wow, I wish guys would call ME if they freak! Usually, it's just a no-show with no call or explanation. We all know how much fun THAT is!

Of course, and run all the pics through TinEye.com too. That will find many of the fake pics and where they stole them from. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

I agree, except I post my *own* pics on Xhamster. It would be a shame for some guy to think I was fake just because I put video samples & pictures on tube sites!