When screening PAYS off...

Sydney Pure's Avatar
Ladies this incident still has me with chill bumps!!!

I want to Thank Amber Rain sooooooo Much for taking her time for ME!!!

I'm going to copy and paste the recent alert thread out of Dallas to help explain...

LADIES WE MUST COME TOGETHER AND SCREEN,SCREEN, AND CROSS SCREEN!!!!

IN THE WORDS OF AMBER....
On Saturday night at 9:55 p.m., I got a call from Sydney Pure.. (I have talked with her, it's ok to use her name) She was asking me for a reference on a gentleman that had said he had been with me on October 17th, 2011. he gave her an email for me that was Snowbunny2xs@ymail.com... (NOT CORRECT FOR ME>.. mines Snowbunny2xs@YAHOO.COM. He is not a member on here or on p411. That being said, I told her more than likely, I hadn't seen him, as I only take members from the site. She gave his email that he emailed her as Isar**Lop*zTX@rocketmail.com. She also forwarded all his correspondance with her thru that email to me this a.m. But at that time, I asked her to ask him specific questions about my incall.
1. What color are my couches?
2. Describe my apartment... etc.

I told her I was certain I didnt' recognize the name at all and his email address was not in the history of my yahoo account.

She did not see this guy THANK GOD. She called me this a.m. stating that at 10:22... she received an email from "ME" giving him the approval that he was good to go.. and was great to see. She said this a.m. that she didnt see him because she had already got the "NO" from me over the phone.. and the emails do not match. Obviously, this guy is creating Fake emails that a so similar to the providers actual email address that someone's small eye won't catch it. Since she took the time to call me.. and I took the time to actually talk to her and give her proper screening info... This saved this provider from somone that obviously goes to extreme measures to see a provider for some reason whether it be to get his rocks off.. or to rape and harm with no trace back to him.

Ladies, do not go just based on emails. Always call the provider being referenced. Always screen for yourself. Luckily, Sydney felt the need to screen... and luckily I am always reference friendly. Those of you that do not get back to other providers or want to offer the references out... please take this into consideration. Because of Sydney and my actual conversation over the phone... This possibly saved her LIFE.

We are the only protection we have against creeps like this. Let's watch each other's back. If someone calls you for a reference... get back to them... offer up specifics to verify with the hobbyist....

Key is screening.... let's screen and help each other stay safe. Could be you one day that needed a great reference from a horrible dangerous hobbyist... keep that in mind. Do unto others.....
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Keep in mind... I'm not the ONLY provider with an altered email that she received from him. He is doing this to get verification to see girls. NO real providers that were given as references to Sydney were able to verify this guy... and all emails were altered so specifically close to their actual emails... This guy is smart and trying to outsmart us to be seen. PLEASE SCREEN CLOSELY. Dont' just take an email from a "provider" as a verification unless you verify it's letter for letter her exact email address...

ex: fake used: Snowbunny2xs@ymail.
ex: Real Email: Snowbunny2xs@yahoo.

See the similarities.. and if not careful.. can be easily overlooked. Just screen by phone calls to the referenced provider. Only way to be safer is to call and hear the provider say "YES" or "NO".

Amber Rain
Thanks for the heads up sydney.
I have most of the providers I've used as references programmed in my phone under their screen names...with their phone numbers, emails, etc. It makes things so much easier.

Great job catching that, ladies.
Makayla of Missouri's Avatar
WOW.... That's absolutely NUTS!! Ali, Ginger.... ya'll know I love to screen and I am happy there are plenty of reference-friendly providers out there!! It was great speaking with you the other day, GD.... Maybe we will meet on one of my future tours through AR!

Hopefully some who hesitate for references will now be able to grasp the importance, and hopefully we can instill the patience needed to go through screening for gentlemen not-in-the-know. How many times have I heard, 'this is my first time. we can't meet right now?' Are you kidding me?? With a 'pick-up line' like that?? LMAO!
OKbud's Avatar
  • OKbud
  • 11-22-2011, 01:36 AM

Hopefully some who hesitate for references will now be able to grasp the importance, and hopefully we can instill the patience needed to go through screening for gentlemen not-in-the-know. How many times have I heard, 'this is my first time. we can't meet right now?' Are you kidding me?? With a 'pick-up line' like that?? LMAO! Originally Posted by thickgrlswag
Honestly, you would probably be surprised at how many hounds/providers that did not care to take the necessary precautions and are now either contemplating a not so good holiday or are relishing the get out of free jail card from monopoly for getting out early for turkey day..

gobble gobble...
Makayla of Missouri's Avatar
Honestly, you would probably be surprised at how many hounds/providers that did not care to take the necessary precautions and are now either contemplating a not so good holiday or are relishing the get out of free jail card from monopoly for getting out early for turkey day..

gobble gobble... Originally Posted by OKbud
Lol! Yes, I was there once! It took ONE TIME for me to learn what the business is and to stick to it!! Now I am sooooo happy when a new friend contacts me and has verification/references at the ready and contacts me early enough to complete the verification process.... I get soooo PO'd when people call at 10pm expecting to be seen immediately.... grrrrr! lol
ambersilk's Avatar
Thanks for this info. I also agree we have to stick together. Im always Reference Friendly!! Call me anytime Ladies!!
mssassy's Avatar
thanks for the info everyone be safe
Way to catch him Syd!! Good screening. The majority of us keep all reputable provider info stored in our phones because of situations like these. Actually SPEAKING to the provider used as a reference is the only way to do things anymore!! Thanks for the heads up dollface!!