I am just saying!

So I am visiting your great state with a client / friend.
I met him in West Texas cause he works in the oil field but lives out here in Arkansas at the huge Hot Springs Village. He works alot and when he is off he loves to spend his money on women. He wanted women that offer more than I do.
His normal activity is to look on back page and his chances of finding a NON-RIP OFF is about 75/25 LOL.. I told him NO WORRIES I will show you a couple of sites and help you become a member and we WILL FIND A WOMAN MADE TO ORDER OF YOUR LIKING.... NO PROBLEM REALLY ..
I put a ISO... I had referells from new clients here tell me who to call. I called 4 ladies sent 3 p.m. and text IF ANY OF THOSE LADIES EVER COMPLAIN THEY DO NOT HAVE MONEY... There is a reason for that sweety LOOK IN THE MIRROR.
So on super bowl Sunday ok I understand had prior parties to attend but he could not get a lady on a Monday.?
He resorted to back page again it was faster and easier and he was willing to take a chance. I WOULD OF THOUGHT IT WOULD OF BEEN REAL SIMPLE TO FIND A LADY ON ECCIE AND P411 with me vouching for him and me being here. Guess not the one p.m. I did get back said he still needed 2 oks etc... really? the man never went on these sites before.
Oh Well I know 100 Dallas ladies that will jump all over this guy when we get their tonight. He just wanted a steady gal in his home state to spend money on 2 times a month. I was so confident I could find that for him while I was here thrue Eccie but boy was I wrong
Guess he/we will wait till Rayne gets back she was the only one that would speak to me on the phone and... if she was not in the warm State right now would of met him.
I PROMISE YOU ARE GOING TO THANK ME FOR INTRODUCING HIM TO YOU!
I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT OF TRAVELED 12 HOURS WITH A NON GENOUROUS MAN
To me if another lady has tasted the wine and offers me a glass saying the wine is good. I am not going to ask 1000 freaking questions that can not be answered. I see shes feeling good off the wine and hell I want to feel good too so I would take whats offered. I AM JUST SAYING! But hell I am just a cajun what do I know?

BUT FOR THE RECORD.....If any of you ladies are in my town and have a great client thats wants to just throw money at me to do what I do PLEASE CALL ME. It won't take but 30 minutes for me to tell you my scheldule and fit yall in I PROMISE

The first rule of thumb in Arkansas is--never assume anything.

Things are rather crazy here. I'm sure no personal offense was intended by any of the ladies that hesitated getting together with you and your friend, myself included. There is no such thing as being 'too careful' here. There's a reason we call our little neck of the woods "hobby hell."

2 references has always been my rule...and I don't deviate from that. Sorry.

Signed,

The Reference Nazi

WHOA HOBBY HELL that is too bad I was going to come back to Little Rock. But have no desire to be in Hell.. WOW THAT SUCKS!

We appreciate and luv the heck outa our reference nazi. Safe is sexy.

Thanks, Flyboy. It's nice to know I'm loved and appreciated, even though I'm a pain in the ass sometimes, lol.

There is a reason we have a community. When people know one another, there is safety. Unfortunately, or not so unfortunately this can make becoming acquainted problematic.
Once one has become acquainted, and made friends there is no shortage of opportunities for companionship. For these individuals Arkansas is far from Hooby Hell.
Just because one is a member of ECCIE from another state whether client or provider does not guarantee an acceptable measure of safety. It may be true that there are a number of ladies in other cities who will readily see an unscreened client on the word of an unknown provider, but then you are right back on Backpage with odds no better.

Just because one is a member of ECCIE from another state whether client or provider does not guarantee an acceptable measure of safety. It may be true that there are a number of ladies in other cities who will readily see an unscreened client on the word of an unknown provider, but then you are right back on Backpage with odds no better. Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

well I did not think he was unscreened since I have many reviews and I was their. I mean if you see a couple do you screen both husband and wife? Well after reading all the damn alerts and bust in Arkansas WOW... I understand..
But I promise I would never reffer someone who was not on the up and up for real. But yall do not know me here but Dallas girls do. So it does not mean they do not screen they do... Its just they know me and if i said its raining money they would all run out with bags...lol not ask a thousand questions cause they KNOW I WOULD NEVER RUIN MY GOOD REPUTATION FOR NO ONE! But after reading about all the girls who have went to jail hell I might run your damn prints off before seeing you..LOL
SHIT... so does that mean AR IS A CRIME FREE ZONE FOR DRUGS AND RAPES AND ROBBERIES that the law can spend so much time catching the pleasure seekers and givers of your state WOW,......
So Sad cause I really wanted to come hell I may still but have to read up on law and get my crystal ball out on seeing who is and who isnt the freaking BAD NEWS BEARS

Arkansas can be a slippery slope, however there have been a number of traveling ladies who did well here and were well serviced by the local patrons.
For better or worse, it just seems that we tend to favor the old adage:"better the devil you know..." than, " A prophet is not without honor except in his own country."

Lord.

So how does someone new to the hobby get references required to be able to meet quality providers?? I want to be safe and enjoy myself just as much as the providers and believe me I understand why refs required, Im just unsure how to get started??

So how does someone new to the hobby get references required to be able to meet quality providers?? I want to be safe and enjoy myself just as much as the providers and believe me I understand why refs required, Im just unsure how to get started?? Originally Posted by Mamatried

Het MT, P411 is a great way to start...https://www.preferred411.com/

Welcome to eccie and have fun!!

+1, SnL. Preferred411.com is definitely the way to go. Once you have that, more newbie friendly ladies will have the confidence to schedule with you. And once you have a reference or 2 from the newbie-friendly girls, Reference Nazi's like me (lol @ Flyboy, he gave me that moniker) will consider seeing you.

OK. I'll check out p411. I am not in a situation where I'll be able to spend time with you ladies very frequently. Its going to be quality not quantity for me. That is what I like about this site. Seems like a very high percentage of quality providers.

... That is what I like about this site. Seems like a very high percentage of quality providers. Originally Posted by Mamatried

Flattery will get you everywhere.

Well... flattery, coupled with good references and a thick white envelope. Lol

+1 ginger i couldnt have said it better myself!!