Diasability question

had a few providers turn me away due to me only having one leg. I am a single leg amputee. So here is my question, Does every provider have a problem with a one legged man? And if you do not do you like the leg on or off.

Not everyone is shallow and some are very understanding when it comes to ones physical attributes and a loss of a limb etc.

To this day, I still have fond memories of a date (one that served our country and while serving) was burned on many areas of his body and lost an arm, and in it's place was a hook.
He was still a beautiful man in my eyes and a wonderful lover.

I do not mind... I like a man who has a great attitude that goes so far with me... muah..

????? I wonder what their reason would be to turn a guy with one leg away?
Does this mean the lady has to provide CG during the whole session? That would cause me to break a sweat!

I don't understand how some people can be so shallow. I don't mind at all as I never discriminate.

For reasons that:
A, They're shallow & vain. And physical appearance is their issue. (sad but true)
B, They might be of the belief that someone with loss of a limb might be incapable of intimacy and thus causing those poor gals to actually have to do something in the bedroom.(how little do those shallow gals know!!)

????? I wonder what their reason would be to turn a guy with one leg away?
Does this mean the lady has to provide CG during the whole session? That would cause me to break a sweat! Originally Posted by RandomBlkChick

Always makes me angry when I hear about people being that shitty. Theres obviously plenty of ladies on here that you can see, I hope you get your world rocked by them so you can forget this sad state of affairs.

It is no fun getting shot down for any reason. I'd be somewhat happy that they were up front & didn't just give you a bad experience. No experience is way better than an unsatisfying experience.

That being said, there are some truly wonderful ladies in our community that I have no doubt will take care of you.

not at all

I had a favorite client who only had one leg I don't discriminate at all

Well, some providers may jump to conclusions about other ladies being SHALLOW...I won't. No one has heard their side of the story. While I don't discriminate against hobbyists with disabilities...who am I to judge another provider's reason for not doing so?

Perhaps they have/had a SO or family member who was hurt or disabled...which causes them some level of discomfort. Really doesn't matter what the reason may be...until we all know the reasons WHY...who are we to judge or label someone?

I find it rather disturbing that some of you providers will be so quick to make judgements...and, the same ones...will throw another sister-provider under the bus just to make a quick buck!

I guess, ill be the *honest* oddball hear. :/
I dont mind seeing some one with a disability, or special needs, so long as theyre independent.
As in, they can wash/bathe, clothe themselves.
It may not be the popular *answer*,nor do I think im shallow in any way.
For me personally, they are just certain things im uncomfortable with...and undressing/dressing a man that cant do it himself, adds a whole new spin to things.
This is a sensitive topic, and my honesty about it may not be the popular choice. But I KNOW for a fact, im not the only one with the same feelings.

I work with individuals with disabilities, & I *choose* volunteer and spend my time primarily with children that have special needs. But being intimate with someone that has *certain* special needs, I can not do.

thank you Nikki and Nena for intelligent - well thought out replies....

luckyringwald ==> sorry to hear of your problems; however put those behind you and persevere onward. You are already a winner!!.

Thank you Dennis! BB, thank you for your honesty...I think most people can appreciate an honest answer.

And, to answer the OP's question about the leg being *on/off* doesn't matter to me either way. Do what makes you the most comfortable.

I'm nosey. How did you loose your leg?
And I would say off. Does it feel more comfortable on or off during sex?