What Brings You Back?

What is it that brings you back to the same lady?

Ladies, what do you think brings the men back to you?

For me, it's

1. Attitude -- It's great to meet someone who likes their hobby.
2. Skills -- This almost goes without saying, but the lady needs to know what they are doing.
3. Kissing -- I like someone who enjoys the kissing experience.
4. Different -- It's nice to meet someone who brings something different to the table.
5. Location -- The lady's place needs to feel safe. It's hard to get hard when you are looking over your shoulder.
6. Conversation -- This doesn't mean the lady does all of the talk, but, rather, it's a intelligent two-way conversation.
7. Size and Age -- Size and age make no difference. I look for the other things.

All those things should be what every provider should strive for. Everyone has an off day, personal lives sometimes interfere with hobby life, it happens to all of us. Fortunately the ladies on this board are the best that can be found.
Also, all of those apply to the gents as well!

I would have to say a multitude of reasons bring them back. I don't have a big head so I can't pin point one things but I would have to say it may be my funny personality and my sensuality

Well, attitude, was probably the one factor in deciding a good expereince. E.com used to have a rating "It didn't feel like a service". I always liked a time with a provider that seemed to enjoy the time with me as much as I enjoyed being with her. The second thing was the activities. When I got DFK and DATY that really made for a good session. So if I ever get off the sidelines these are the two are the biggest factors for me.

Customer Service is key too... and a client with a great attitude, who respects my boundaries keeps me coming back. RESPECT over everything. Great Post!

For me there are a few reasons I repeat:

The main one is when the time spent was more than just a physical act. I need to feel like I am wanted to return and that she had some enjoyment from seeing me. My favorites always make me feel like a friend.

For me there are a few reasons I repeat:

The main one is when the time spent was more than just a physical act. I need to feel like I am wanted to return and that she had some enjoyment from seeing me. My favorites always make me feel like a friend. Originally Posted by Memaca

well said

I agree with everyone, and if the guy is easy to feel comfortable around . It makes for a great time for both of us ! Makes him call you back and you wanting him to !!! Have a safe and great week everyone !!
Kisses Ann

What makes me return to the same lady>>>The ability to be discreet and TRUST,TRUST,TRUST>>>>>>>>>>gda n

i wouldnt say i have an exact "what keeps me coming back".....

To be honest, which is my downfall, I prefer a woman of my own like age. They have wisdom, experiences and ideas they like to share (yeah i know, to some this is BS stuff). I like to talk!

I can really stick with someone who is genuine in their conversations, demeanor and presence. If that makes any sense to ya'll.

In the end, I like to come away with that "i met a great person" feeling. I like someone who is open (as they can be) and personable. Someone that has no premeditated inhibitions and is willing to "Visit" with you with no timeclock mentality. This may seem inappropriate and lame to some - bur for me, I really hold that close.

I do realize that in the scheme of life this may be roleplay to some, but for others i believe it is the same. We are all human and have things we gravitate too.

But to summarize:
1. Not a timeclock watcher (really likes to visit)
2. Into what she is willing to do and vice versa.
3. Someone who respects you and yours.
4. Genuine and honest.

I know this is a long post. But from my perspective, I am particular. I only stick with those who i feel the above connection in some way - although it may be different, the connection nonetheless.

Two come to mind (for me): Dakota and Mina - (DISCLAIMER: Order is irrelevant and does not denote preference).. LOL, dont read into it....

Although I 'm not a sampler kinda guy and have not been hobbying for very long, this is the way I'm built.....

Have a GREAT and SAFE time. ALWAYS, Watch your Six!

What makes me return to the same lady>>>The ability to be discreet and TRUST,TRUST,TRUST>>>>>>>>>>gda n Originally Posted by gdan55

Attitude
Kissing

I seldom see the same provider over and over again but when I do its usually because she is young with a firm tight body and nice tits. Guess I am shallow.

Thank you for all of your comments. I hope both ladies and gents will apply them as they meet.