Hard getting starting in the hobby.

Rollensmoke's Avatar
Well I never thought it would be so hard to start out in the hobby. I have tried to make appointments with the Providers that I feel best suits me most. Ok.. I think they are hot as hell. But they all turn me down due to no references. I will keep trying. But Please, a mam has to start with one of you. Please help me out here.
TestSpin's Avatar
You might try p411 for a first level of verification, then find a newbie friendly provider (maybe a traveling one) to get an ok on p411, then work your way up to the number of ok's required by the providers you have your eyes on. Nothing good comes easy.
What he said ^
I feel your pain bro!
hey there rollensmoke there is some of us that are newbie friendly here so go ahead and check out my showcase and send me a pm and we can see what we can do to get you underway so until then ill be looking to hear from you

smooches the mysterious mandi
Rollensmoke – While I am not newbie-friendly myself, I do have several provider friends that are. With any 2 of their references, I can see you.

Of course, even my newbie-friendly provider friends have requirements – most of them feel better if you have a preferred411.com account, & provide them with a little bit of personal information.

I know getting started can seem daunting – but really, it only hurts in the beginning!
TestSpin is right, P411 helped ease my pain a lot. There are a few ways to join P411. If you will go to their website you can IM them and find out which way is the best for you. You don't have to be a member to IM them.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
All good advise, here is more helpful info
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...tives+hobbying

Good luck and have fun!




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uca479's Avatar
Early on I saw newbie friendly providers from P411 that weren't necessarily my cup of tea just to get a couple of OK's. Once I had a couple of OK's and ultimately their references, it made seeing top tier talent easier.

So if your hobby dollars can support it, see a couple of providers that are less than your perfect match just to get started... Then you can start being more selective once you are verifiable.
All good advise, here is more helpful info
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...tives+hobbying Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
That's an excellent thread, SNL!

In fact, I'm going to save the link and send it to all my backpage inquiries that do not have references!
I have seen over 10 providers in cities all over America, none in central arkansas because i am too concerned for my privacy and have never been able to see any around here because it is too hard to see the ones I want to see :> Easier to just wait and spend my money in other cities when i am there..
shortblkguy's Avatar
I agree with you scottprestons and uca479. I have been tempted to register with P411 and may in the future as I believe it does provide value, but NWA is not the target rich environment I am accustomed and would rather save my funds for my trips to Dallas where I have ladies who I have an established relationships. P411 is your best bet IMHO and be patient.
Rollensmoke's Avatar
Thanks for the nice info all. It's just that NWA has such a fine group of ladies that I want to get to know.
Congrats Rollensmoke! I see you posted your first review. I had my first official visit Friday.
Rollensmoke's Avatar
Thank you LesGrossman I had a real nice time too.