hey gang! i'm a new guy to the community, as well as new to the game (well, there was this one time in brazil…), and i can't believe how lucky i feel to have stumbled onto the eccie community. as all of you who also live in west texas/eastern new mexico already know, there aren’t many resources out there for guys like us. i'm confident that eventually, participating in the community is going to net me the opportunity to meet some wonderful ladies and have some terrific experiences. however, after a week or so of digging through all this i'm feeling a little bummed. here's why: it almost seems like a bit of a rock and a hard place situation.
it appears that the reviews on eccie–which are fantastic–are all for well-established providers who more often than not are traveling. they come through towns like lubbock, midland, and amarillo only for a few days at a time, so unless you happen to be lucky enough to be in one of those places on those days, you're s.o.l. albuquerque may be the exception, but as i live in clovis, that's not a realistic option on a regular basis. and, btw, how is it that with cannon air force base right here so few of those girls stop in the area?
on the other hand, it seems like the only local girls that stay in the area on a more or less permanent basis are the largely un-reviewed providers on backpage. my experience in contacting them has proven to be frustrating at best. it’s not clear if the ads are honest, and it's difficult to find out because calls don't get returned. and, what few girls i have spoken with from bp don't seem to get the concept of pre-booking more than an hour in advance. if i have to travel 100 miles to get to lubbock for an engagement, that's just not gonna work.
hopefully this is just a newbie frustration. i'd be interested to hear what the veterans think.