Ladies, with all the talk of NCNS and lost phones, miscommunication from both sides and etcettra, i'd like to get your viewpoint on how many times do you think a hobbyist should 'reach out' to a provider before he needs to take the hint or accept she just isn't around?
Example, if a provider doesn't have an ad that week, but from previous reviews has a phone number, Showcase PM, email address, website, P411, etc, is the Hobbyist supposed to send one message per method, wait until there is an ad with clear directions or?
I ask because I've personally had the experience of sending a PM, only to be told when we finally meet 'oh i don't check that' or texting a number to find out it's been changed, or an email address but 'she's forgotten to reply that day or didn't notice yours'. I say this because I've heard or read about these experiences from successful providers i've repeated with or it's told thats the case.
I can only wonder what it's like if someone is getting the cold shoulder?
Guys, do you have an unwritten policy you follow that the ladies might want to know about?