So many questions...too many!

I've been hobbying a long time. Most of that time I was what I'd call a dabbler...tasting the forbidden once in a while, sometimes with a provider, sometimes as a FWB. I was naive, as most dabblers are...I think. About three years ago I began hobbying in earnest. Things changed at home about two years before that...and I became commited to p4p. I've grown older (but not old) in the arms of younger women. I have not, however, grown wiser. The longer I hobby the more questions I have. Some are serious...some are anything but serious...most are stupid. Here's few...just to get things started.

Why the hell do I hobby? I'm a tight ass SOB when it comes to money and I've NEVER had trouble getting laid.

Why would anyone ever pay for a CBJ from a reputable provider?

Gymnastics aside - Is there any position that even comes close to missionary...really?

What kind of a God enabled women to have multiple, frequent, ongoing, unstoppable orgasms while I can only manage three in a day if I'm lucky (and someone's hand - probably mine - is going to be damned tired).

Fucking without kissing....REALLY?

If intimacy leads to sex, sex to deeper intimacy, and deeper intimacy to love...aren't we fooling ourselves about this being a NSA party when it comes to regulars and ATFs?

Everything that's enjoyable in this life comes with a hidden cost...Uh oh...I wonder what I'm in for?

Do I prefer black or white stockings?

Why do I like a provider to wear stockings...when the first I want to do is get her out of them.

Why am I so turned on by girl-girl action when I'm homophobic? (Guess I'm a sociopsychosexual dysfunctional human being...YEAH!!!! Welcome to MY world)

If I "pay them to leave" afterwards...(NSA)...why do I always feel a little let down when I or they walk out the door after a good session?

Who the hell coined the phrase "hobby"?

Where did Lauren Flare, Sassy, Charlie, and most recently Kendra Kayy go?

What's the purpose of pubic hair?

Anal sex...ok, the idea of it is...well...shitty...and I certainly wouldn't want anyone with my size cock...or one larger...or smaller, putting it up my ass. So why the hell do I like it so much when I get invited to go there by a provider?

If it's not about the sex, then why the hell is it all about the sex?
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I'm exhausted...and none the wiser...and still growing older...and in need of a younger woman's arms (if you're just a little younger than dirt, ladies...you qualify).



Anyone else have questions or answers? Nevermind the answers...they're opinions and like assholes, they mostly stink. Besides, the questions are a lot more fun!

Come on over H and I'll show you Why!

Its going to take awhile so I just might throw in a couple of hours for nothing..

As with everything in life, it all comes down to either your mamma held you too much or not enough as a child. Once you clear that hurdle it is smooth sailing.

Come on over H and I'll show you Why!

Its going to take awhile so I just might throw in a couple of hours for nothing.. Originally Posted by Sabrababy

"Y" is such a deep issue/entity...it will take a lifetime...but I'll happily accept the couple of hours.lol

CBJ - What choo say about my mama?! JK. Ain't it the truth! LMAO

[QUOTE=Bigh1955;1051742992]"Y" is such a deep issue/entity...it will take a lifetime...but I'll happily accept the couple of hours.lol

Ok, I guess you better just plan on staying the night. I got coffee...lol

"What's the purpose of pubic hair?"

Well, I always thought it was a good way to floss.

Thank you!

Great post Bigh! I could have written it myself, but I am not as eloquent as you.

Especially liked you comments about mish and kissing. So true.

Andy Rooney sent me a PM from the other side - at the risk of making a private statement public - Andy asked me to add one more question. I always loved his segments on 60 minutes, so here it is...

"What is it about the "frequent flier" mentality that causes us to forget how to do math? The "frequent fliers" all say they prefer half-hour appointments so they can have more play time. Okay, so my 3rd grade teacher, Miss Smithers, taught me it goes something like this...if a hhr is $150 and an hr is $225, then 2hrs of hhr appointments is 4X$150=$600, and 2hrs of hr appts is 2X$225=$450. Right? Maybe the "frequent flier" guys should step up and just be really good tippers. They might appreciate the difference. That last part was all mine, Miss Smithers had nothing to do with it."

Andy's PM went on to say that "on the otherside there is no such thing as sex, but you can get all the pussy you want for free. Mostly it walks around on all fours and drinks milk from a bowl...Have fun while you can!"

I'll miss Andy. Maybe someday Paul Harvey will check in.

For all of my deceased friends...This is BigH...Goodnight!

Ok you guys, this is a coed discussion. You writing in private is not far to us!!! Go to the mens site and do that. Uhggggggg lol

Marcus, we women need the right to be able to write privately too. So the women can see and the men can't!!!!!!

lol

I'm torn here. It's a perk for contributing to the site...financially or content wise. But I can also see where it can be seen as rude.
I used to think I'd love to see what the ladies are writing in their private forums. Now I'm not so sure I want to see whats being said. Its probably really insulting, and I'm better off not knowing, or it would bore me to tears.

I suspect that most of the private stuff posted would bore the ladies.

That said....I agree it seems unfair that the guys can "giggle, whisper, and point" while the ladies cannot.