The trip from Omaha to Norfolk usually takes me about 90 minutes. Just call me speed racer.
My suggestion would be, make a night of it for yourself Huskerfan. Come to Omaha, spend some time here......do some "man shopping," have dinner and then meet up with the lady of your choice. You either drive back or spend the night.
I can't speak for other ladies, but it would probably end up costing you much more than you're willing to pay to have a lady come out to Norfolk from Omaha. The driving is a lot of downtime.