Ever thought maybe you have strep throat? I spent 6 hours in an ER with one of the worst cases of strep throat the ER doc had seen. I couldn't swallow and I had a fever. They kept me that long because they had to give me an IV to build my liquids back up because I was severely dehydrated.
Also, when in doubt.....consult the CDC website or webMD for info on STD's and such.
http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/stdfact-gonorrhea.htm
If you truly believe that you have an STD that you received from a provider who has reviews on the board and posts on here......its your duty to warn people once you have it confirmed.
Have you tried to contact the lady in question? Talk to her to see what she says.