Sending a thank you/feedback PM after session... appreciated or creepy?

Hi, I am just wondering if it is typical/appreciated to send a provider a thank you PM after a fun session. Also, would it be good to include some feedback (I loved this, maybe this could be a tad better, etc.)?

Thanks!

If its been enjoyable I'll send a little sumpthin'. But...until you've seen each other a few times I doubt they remember who we are. Particularly if you offer criticism.... just my thoughts.

I always thank my providers for sharing themselves with me. Never had anyone complain.

In my limited time here, I've felt compelled to send a brief PM to thank the provider for the session, but probably wouldn't go so far as to provide pointers.

A simple thank you is enough and appreciated.

I love then and I try to send them myself....Also I like.feedback...without it How can I possibly improve?

I send thank you notes as well....As for the constructive feedback? I think the gentlemanly thing to do is to ask for what you like/want during the session. Especially if it's your first meeting. If she's on her game, she will look for those subtle clues, change in body temp or color, specific sounds, and such......those tell tale signs you are turned on and enjoying yourself.. Or in the second session suggest things you want done differently. Doing it in a note, seems kind of cold, and will ultimately keep you from getting what you want during your session.. It's a win for everyone if you speak up. After all, we want you to enjoy yourself and make that next appointment.

"This time, can you whip my ass just before I cum?"

On theother hand...I always send a "thank you note" to my gents after our date.....true southern manners in my book!

I always send a "thank you note", but once I was beaten to it ...

As for pointers, I prefer to do that in person.

I agree. I think speaking up beforehand is best. Afterall, we are PROVIDERS! Don't be shy; say what you like. I really like it when..... Do you mind if we....This should be done after screening for everyone 's safety. Taking that extra step can be the difference in an average session and a mind blowing date that can turner into ATF territory.

I would want to know, constructively, if there was something I could have done better or Just guide me when we are together. Even better! And if ya wanna say thank you....do it!! If you feel that compelled, she probably tried hard and would appreciate it

Thanks everyone!

On the thank you, I just wanted to make sure it doesn't come off as stalkerish or anything lol.

On the feedback, I was mainly just wondering how providers continue to improve since they aren't supposed to read the ROS in our reviews. But ya, I agree that talking about it by PM afterward seems a bit awkward.

It sounds like sticking to a nice thank you is the way to go.

I always send a... SHORT... Thank You note.

Thanks everyone!

On the thank you, I just wanted to make sure it doesn't come off as stalkerish or anything lol.

On the feedback, I was mainly just wondering how providers continue to improve since they aren't supposed to read the ROS in our reviews. But ya, I agree that talking about it by PM afterward seems a bit awkward.

It sounds like sticking to a nice thank you is the way to go. Originally Posted by AfterDarkIFeel

I always send a... SHORT... Thank You note. Originally Posted by dog soldier 4

Thank you for what? You paid for it. If the pussy was free, then a "thank you" would be in order....

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If I had a good time with a girl who is visiting from another city, and I had email/text her asking her beforehand to visit, then I usually send a thanks for visiting text.

Be a Gentleman. Always say Thank You. When you meet again then give some pointers of what you would like to improve and never ask for bbfs. Stay safe and clean.