This why screening is so important

Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
http://worldnewsviews.com/2013/07/10...-anaheim-home/

This is so sad. She was in her home and her sons found her.
Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
Girls please please make sure you screen. Guy if you don't like being screened maybe this will help you understand why it is important to use!
Its life or death.
DallasRain's Avatar
good post!

sad indeed....screen careful & stay safe!
John Bull's Avatar
It's always a balance, isn't it? The need for safety on the one hand and security on the other.
Stay safe ladies and do what you feel you must.
Long time listener first time caller so to speak / first (and probably last) post. I never thought I would want to post on here, or even take the risk in doing so, but I do read the threads in cities I travel to for business and I tend to do so voraciously (and then wipe my cache - ha). So after lurking this place for a few years - how is this thread not considered an outing? Even though the lady passed away, the link to her real name here is an outing, as the board has said so many times over when something like this has come up in other threads. Without meaning to intentionally troll - this outing and the fact it was let stand by a self-professed 'old time mod' speaks volumes about the character of everyone in the thread - one would be hard pressed to come to any other conclusion.
oldmanoftheroad's Avatar
Long time listener first time caller so to speak / first (and probably last) post. I never thought I would want to post on here, or even take the risk in doing so, but I do read the threads in cities I travel to for business and I tend to do so voraciously (and then wipe my cache - ha). So after lurking this place for a few years - how is this thread not considered an outing? Even though the lady passed away, the link to her real name here is an outing, as the board has said so many times over when something like this has come up in other threads. Without meaning to intentionally troll - this outing and the fact it was let stand by a self-professed 'old time mod' speaks volumes about the character of everyone in the thread - one would be hard pressed to come to any other conclusion. Originally Posted by Gumbie
But "outing" this person is not an issue since she is deceased, right?
Her family didn't hide what she did and I think trying to "hide" information at this point is both reckless and pointless...and maybe most of all... "USELESS"!

However, I'm a newb as well and maybe I just don't understand this post at all?? If I'm out of line here, my apologies...

I will end with this... the most important thing we can all do, no matter who you are with, no matter where you are, no matter for what sort of action... If you feel like you need to leave, walk away or remove yourself from a place of harm, trouble or violence, do so as soon as possible! Better to explain an absence than not be able to later...

That seems a little erie.. I sure hope I never need to heed that advice, EVER!!

Be safe everyone!!
John Bull's Avatar
The poster joined yesterday which makes one wonder about his so-called reading of Eccie for years. And, he has one post. This one! Now what does he have on his mind, one wonders? Perhaps if he goes back and reads the story again, he might answer his own question.
Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
The post was never intended as a "outing", it was intended to so the seriousness of screening for everyone!
This is not all roses, it can be life and death!
12blue4u's Avatar
It is very tragic event but I am not sure how you can screen for an obviously unbalanced person. It does not sound like she was in the extras business so not sure how you can screen for this. If you have a legit massage business do you screen your clients? I am not sure what the solution is.
giabella's Avatar
Unfortunately even properly screening a client cannot guarantee a psycho won't end up at your door. So tragic. Stay safe ladies and gents!
mbinlincoln's Avatar
Unfortunately even properly screening a client cannot guarantee a psycho won't end up at your door. So tragic. Stay safe ladies and gents! Originally Posted by giabella
Yes, that's true because I have shown up at your door!!!
You know the best thing a psycho could hope for is being caught by the police before we caught up to him. Man I pity the fool who would assault one of our Nebraska ladies. Seriously.