Taking CBT to the next level. A/Hardy Haberman's book.

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A couple of years ago, I was told of the book "Family Jewels" by Hardy Haberman.

He is a Dallas leatherman who is known for being one of the best and most knowledgeable about this topic. And although I've actually attended one of his classes during a past Beyond Vanilla conference, I'm looking for some more ideas.

As I'm rereading his book to get inspired, I thought that many of the members here would have some fresh thoughts.

I want ideas that go past the clothespins and binding a cock and balls. I think that often, we find a few things that work really well with a client and then we get stuck on those same activities.

I'm trying to up my game.

I have a twitch and I'm going to look for some bamboo skewers. Not to use to puncture any place that is sensitive, although that might be an idea, but to use to squeeze the balls and twist them between the two pieces.

Also, those skewers might be good to hit with. Like mini canes.

I've thought of purchasing an egg cutter, the one that is used to pierce and slice off the shell of an egg before eating it. That should be interesting.

Maybe a mouse trap? Ouch!

Any ideas would be helpful. Again, just trying to take things up a notch for someone special to me.

Thanks,
Elisabeth
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  • LNK
  • 08-07-2013, 12:44 PM
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
This is more what I was speaking of:
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ouch!!!!!
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  • LNK
  • 08-07-2013, 06:25 PM
This is more what I was speaking of: Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers
I got that, it just made me think of the egg slicer(s). Which could be just another toy in the box. For $5, why not have a couple?

Using a hair elastic to hold the handles together would allow other activities while still keeping the pressure on.
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EW, & Others:

I think there are two distinct, but related, aspects to this subject. [I speak as a pain slut.] First, and most important, how finely can the administration of pain be calibrated? At the top of the best suffering I've enjoyed was when DDMcGee simply squeezed my balls as we sat directly opposite each other. [I was attending to her as well.] The other element is visual [maybe oral as well, depending on what's being done.] Watching stuff being done to you, or the anticipation, or a cool looking item (e.g., flogger) is a turn on for me, and for others as well I'm sure.
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
ouch!!!!! Originally Posted by The Slut
Sometimes, it's just the thought of something like that which is so effective.

It's not like I would try to push it closed. Hard.
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Very interesting... the egg slicer with wires would cut skin very easily I think. The pinch type (which I have never seen) would potentially have more interesting consequences in play...
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Very interesting... the egg slicer with wires would cut skin very easily I think. The pinch type (which I have never seen) would potentially have more interesting consequences in play... Originally Posted by houston_switch
The scissors (pinch type) is something that was suggested in Haberman's book under pervertables. I have never thought of it myself, either. And I consider myself fairly creative!
*GoddessDallas*'s Avatar
Elisabeth...
I am the BEST there is at CBT and have DECADES of experience.
You would NOT allow me to put my CBT pictures up here on Another Realm.
Now, you are putting your own up, and asking for ideas.
This is an obvious WTF moment.

What are the RULES now?
ElisabethWhispers's Avatar
Elisabeth...
I am the BEST there is at CBT and have DECADES of experience.
You would NOT allow me to put my CBT pictures up here on Another Realm.
Now, you are putting your own up, and asking for ideas.
This is an obvious WTF moment.

What are the RULES now? Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*
I only remove pictures that feature private parts of the anatomy. In other words, we cannot show pictures of a cock in rope, etc. It is the cock picture that is not allowed. The rope is alright.

The pictures that I used do follow the guidelines that Eccie set up. But if you would like to report me to an admin or to the other moderator in this section (spacemtn), I wouldn't have an issue with it at all.

As far as the other? Starting topics have always been encouraged. Not sure what you're suggesting. If you have an issue of what I do or do not do, I would suggest addressing me in a PM.

Thanks.
Elisabeth
would you PM me some pics that you were going post here?
*GoddessDallas*'s Avatar
NuBuzz2010...I can't find a contact on you.
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would you PM me some pics that you were going post here? Originally Posted by nubuzz2010
PM sent.
The Slut's Avatar
The book is a very interesting read for anyone wanting to experience this play.