UTR Providers

Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
Okay so I am going to put this out there. I am more then happy to help a provider that goes UTR that I know and respect.
Otherwise this is my thoughts:
Why in hell would I send clients to someone that has no reviews and has not went through the hell all of us go through advertising, screening and putting ourselves out there. I'm not giving any girl that doesn't want to do the work we all must do any clients.
I wish I could have stayed utr and let someone else do the work for me so I wouldn't have lost everything I worked so hard for.
She needs to advertise and screen like the rest of us and gain some respect with us other providers if she wants help.
My 2cents
Hey Y, while you're at it.....could you float me a couple hundred bucks? I want to see her, too, and I'm a little short this week.

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Seriously...I agree with you. If I understand the UTR model correctly, her referrals should be coming from trusted existing clients.....not other ladies.


Okay so I am going to put this out there. I am more then happy to help a provider that goes UTR that I know and respect.
Otherwise this is my thoughts:
Why in hell would I send clients to someone that has no reviews and has not went through the hell all of us go through advertising, screening and putting ourselves out there. I'm not giving any girl that doesn't want to do the work we all must do any clients.
I wish I could have stayed utr and let someone else do the work for me so I wouldn't have lost everything I worked so hard for.
She needs to advertise and screen like the rest of us and gain some respect with us other providers if she wants help.
My 2cents Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y
ABSOLUTlELY mama!! I can’t stand when guys ask me to help their ‘friend” that they met on CL who needs some “help” ummmmm……NO.

And i think every woman should have to break into the community the same exact way as we all did. Reputation and reviews and repeat…….

NO more helping……
I can certainly see where you ladies come from. It is one thing for you ladies to help a friend out, but a stranger? Outside of giving them advise on how to screen properly, that is about all I would do if wore High Heels and looked good in them.

mmmmmmmm I wonder what can of worms I opened up with that last statement.
With a little research, they could buy the handbook and figure it out for themselves. It's easy reading, has some fascinating tips, and entire chapters devoted to topics like "Safety comes first" and "Who is your market and how to capture it."
Redwolf's Avatar
Okay so I am going to put this out there. I am more then happy to help a provider that goes UTR that I know and respect.
Otherwise this is my thoughts:
Why in hell would I send clients to someone that has no reviews and has not went through the hell all of us go through advertising, screening and putting ourselves out there. I'm not giving any girl that doesn't want to do the work we all must do any clients.
I wish I could have stayed utr and let someone else do the work for me so I wouldn't have lost everything I worked so hard for.
She needs to advertise and screen like the rest of us and gain some respect with us other providers if she wants help.
My 2cents Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y
Are you talking about someone in particular or giving a general hypothetical situation? If someone in particular, who?

Thank you.
Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
No one in particular. Just get asked a lot to do this. I'm not a agency, pimp or madam. If they want to stay UTR they need to find one of these to help them and pay them for doing it.
John Bull's Avatar
Are you talking about someone in particular or giving a general hypothetical situation? If someone in particular, who?

Thank you. Originally Posted by Redwolf
Let's not get into the who, where etc. I don't want to have to edit it out.
Amen sista!
Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
We all take chances when we get in this biz that is part of being in it. If you are not willing to take the risks then find another job. Don't expect us girls that have taken the risks and still take the risks to make it so you don't have too. Its like any biz, you have to advertise and sell your product to get business. Do you think Mc Donalds is going to spend their time and money getting business and then send it to Burger King because Burger King doesn't want to spend their time and money. Don't think so!
mbinlincoln's Avatar
I think McDonald's and Burger King both suck. I'm a much bigger fan of tacos. Oh wait, I don't think that was the point. We get what you're saying.....it's exactly why my mechanic's boss doesn't want my mechanic doing his side work in the shop that his boss pays for. Wait, not sure if that fits either.

At any rate, we get it, and I don't blame you.

And yes Redwolf, this is about no one in particular.
MOCHAakaMOCHA's Avatar
Advertising all over the place would sort of kill being "UTR" but unless she HAD some reviews or internet presence before going UTR then I'd be definitely apprehensive about helping (especially sending over clients I couldn't see).
giabella's Avatar
I agree Ms Y...man she's sexy and smart what a combo!
Remember when escorts.com was in effect? That's where a lot of us got started in the independent realm, and each provider that wants to be successful at being safe and having fun in this hobby should do their due diligence and research themselves, especially if they're UTR or 'low volume'.
I would never give an 'ok' or send clients to a presumably unknown provider simply for safety sake. Besides, the best providers around are the ones on this board so why go anywhere else, eh?
Ms.Lady Y's Avatar
I agree Ms Y...man she's sexy and smart what a combo!
Remember when escorts.com was in effect? That's where a lot of us got started in the independent realm, and each provider that wants to be successful at being safe and having fun in this hobby should do their due diligence and research themselves, especially if they're UTR or 'low volume'.
I would never give an 'ok' or send clients to a presumably unknown provider simply for safety sake. Besides, the best providers around are the ones on this board so why go anywhere else, eh? Originally Posted by giabella
Hi honey,
Where you been. I agree 110% the best providers around are right here!
12blue4u's Avatar
Yea and some are still using those same escort.com photos but i will not name names.