Common Courtesy Please

Hobbyist when you are going to be late to a session or have to
reschedule please give your provider a courtesy call and let her know.
If you no show a provider more than once,
(especially if you scheduled your appointment for in the middle of the night)
you really can not be mad when she will not schedule a appointment with you again.
No matter how many references you have or who your references are.

I have had a gentlemen (Name: Mar**is Number:50*-612-3*41)
Who has called and scheduled a 4:00a.m outcall and a few days later a 4:45a.m incall.
He has very well known ECCIE provider references and quite a few of them.
When he scheduled the 4:00a.m outcall
he told me he would would be getting home from work around 3:00a.m
and would text me and let me know when to head his way.
and asked what area I was located in so see how long it would take me to get there.
I responded but never herd from him again that night.
When he scheduled the incall he said that he was getting off work at 4:00a.m
and he would let me know after he got showered and was on his way.
After I realized he was a no show I went to sleep because i was leaving town the next day.
I woke up around 10 the next morning with a text that was sent at 6:10a.m asking if i was still awake.
That same evening he texted again asking to see me,
I told him that i had left town that morning but that i would be back in town soon.
When i got back in town tonight he called to schedule yet another
appointment when i questioned him about the no shows he got very upset
and rude with me and told me that i was the one that no showed him.... really?

I always try to be kind and polite to everyone... but i had sat up till 5:00a.m twice,
for this gentlemen not to show... and was not going to do it again .
If he would have called and said he would be late or called and
rescheduled/canceled i would have been more than happy to see him tonight.

Out of respect for your provider if you cant make the scheduled time...
please just let her know

Sorry this happened to you! It can be annoying, I know personally from the guy you are speaking of.

Thanks for sharing. I would have responded earlier, I just saw this!!!

I actually had a date with him the other night, you did not miss out on anything. He doesn't even have all the money when you show up and starts looking around everywhere for it. ( this is the key to the trick )

The man works at a bar so his play time isn't going to be early, I got lucky, but didn't!
He tried to see me for several days during my stay this trip, all of the times were between 2am and 5am. I personally go to bed so I couldn't meet up with him and I told him I would meet with him Sunday if he could make it any earlier, so he did. We agreed for 6pm but did not meet until after 10:30pm.

When I arrived, he seemed nice but real nervous and a little weird. He offered me a drink after I asked him for my donation and I accepted the Coconut Rum to stay occupied while he looked for the money, odd because he had some on the table already and I knew it was short.. I counted " what is now my money " and it was only 195. A few 1s, I pushed the 1's to the side and took the 100, 20's and the 5's. He started looking in the couch, the bedroom the bathroom and finally I said, what did you lose my donation and that there was only 195 laying down... he was like you are kidding me, I was like Umm No are you kidding me? He then calls his friend girl and she was asleep and she asked how was his night with his girlfriend, I guess I was playing the girlfriend role. I was there to do just that, and he claims he lost the money in her back seat. He had her on speaker phone. She said she would look for the 2 hundreds in the morning. I finally was like okay, time to get this party started and basically get the heck out of there. I wasn't getting good feelings by this point and was pissed I even left my hotel for his b/s.

I ended up staying for a bit since there was money and I was there... I would say I was there about 20 more minutes after all his looking around for my money. He kept telling me he would make it right and told me the address to the bar that he works at. He sent me the address to his job thru text while I was still there. Asked me to wait till after 4pm and come by his job to get the rest. I left his house, went back to my hotel... did the the usual, shower and checked my accounts and went to sleep.

I got a text from him at 3:34AM " I have that for you... if " ~ If what? That is what I was thinking!!

Once I woke up I called and texted him, he did not answer my calls or texts, I knew he wouldn't but it was worth the try.

I didn't feel like I would get the change he owes me, and didn't. I later found out a few days after from his other references that he shorted the girl out of 250 he had 120 dollars, she also said she will no longer be seeing him again.

You didn't miss out on much, other than time and sleep!

Respect goes along way for the gents and ladies as we all have lives to live and time is money!


Miss Dreams

Wow. I've seen him once, but I didn't experience any problems like that. In fact, everything went well.

I'm not discounting your stories at all...that was just my personal experience.

Sorry y'all went through that!

Odd, he didn't list you as a reference.

Hmmm...Obviously has learned some new tricks from playing! They suck !

I could have left but I gave him a chance out of respect that it could have been a mistake since he had been drinking.

He had his chance... never again!

Miss Dreams

That is odd, considering that I was one of the first Eccie providers to see him. He only had one reference that I could use – MonicaKitten.

I've contacted him, asking him what is up with this… And if he can't provide a feasible explanation, and offer to rectify this, then I will no longer provide him with a reference.

Despite our differences, I do not agree with a client shortchanging a provider – any provider.

This guy is a joke!! Says he OWNS that bar, then says he's a manager (this is a nice place), I think he's the damn dishwasher. He doesn't even have a car, that's why he does outcall.

He did the no call thing the first time w me too, then acts like it's your fault, saw me, then another no call, so he's on my uandns list!!

...so he's on my uandns list!! Originally Posted by Theforbiddenfruit

Your what list??

Hmmm. It's starting to sound like the fact that I had a good date with this guy was merely a stroke of luck. 🍀

Your what list??

Hmmm. It's starting to sound like the fact that I had a good date with this guy was merely a stroke of luck. 🍀 Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Sounds that way. Maybe you should buy some lottery tickets or head to the casino.

Oopsy, was this thread supposed to be in Coed? It is believed that such should be in a different area, yes?

Anyhow, thank you for the information Kendall and of course, thanks to all the other Ladies that added input, therein. We must look out for another, after all.


Love & Light,

Mary Magdalene
"A commitment to excellence in bringing forth an unprecedented quality of life to others at all times."-MM

Looking back at my texts and doing a number search, turns out I dodged a bullet with this guy. He wanted an outcall and wouldn't give me an address to go to. Just said Maumelle take the I-430 exit. I asked him again for the address and he never responded back. I ended up servicing another guy and forgot all about him. This was back in June though

I've also seen him..,. First time was ok then after that
he only had part of my donation and tried to pay me
with a Verizon pad that looked broke!!! I told him no so then he
called his friend taxi driver and borrowed some $$ never
seen him again. If I do get a call for a refrence on
him I always warn the provider about how he is!!!! Big time waister

Sounds like his effort to save a few bucks has cost him his ability to see safe, top notch providers.

Fascinating and disturbing that he's managed to pull such crap on so many girls.

Mary Magdalene - I put this in coed because it would not be deemed an "alert" because he has caused no harm to me or anyone else, hes just a time waster... and i didn't put it in the provider forum because I wanted the hobbyist to be able to read the post and responses to just re-imply how important it is to let your provider know when you cant make your scheduled appointment time. NCNS seems to happen quiet a bit when I'm here in LR and has happened with ECCIE hobbyist.

Thank all of you ladies for your responses...