How do you decided if you are a MILF???

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OK, I am doing some traveling (Chicago, Houston, Dallas, DC & Vegas) for work over the next couple of months and intend to make up for what has been a dismal year in the hobby, most time spent in SCs hunting SC girls...

Anyway, as i was doing my research I found a lot of ads that had MILF either in the title or in the ad itself. This included CL, BP and here on ECCIE. Many of the girls were 19 to 22.

So one question for the ladies. How do you decide to put MILF in your ad?

One question for the gents. What do you consider a MILF?


For me, MILF is mid to late 30s, mature, distinguished with a wild side. Sexually open and has a knowledge of what they want. Looks like the mom of the teenager next door....is not the teenager next door.

For me, 19-22, is a young cookie that I use to build my ego, every once in a while.

Thoughts?
Maybe netman and Wicked Milf can help you with this one. They cleared some of my confusion, and even though I am not a Mother, I'm worming to the label...
I can understand the confusion. I have had kids the entire time I have been in the hobby, but I never started labeling myself a MILF until my mid-thirties were creeping up, and I just couldn't pull off being a hot young spinner anymore.

Does anyone know if there is an actual age to qualify for MILF? I had kids when I was late teens, but never considered using the label for myself until I felt it was becoming obvious that I wasn't "young" anymore.

Good food for thought!
funnyboy's Avatar
Analisa,

Thank you for your response. (Great pics by the way!) Your point is exactly what I am talking about, you don't want to be considered a MILF, yet 20 year olds are putting it in their ads. That is my confusion. I by no means am the ad police, just a question I have from those who call themselves MILFs. Why?
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First of all, the acronym itself suggests someone else need designate you as such. It isn't something you self designate.

As for the allure, I think it was originally a younger man's fantasy about an unattainable older woman like a friend's (of the same age) Mom. I don't think the fact that a good looking woman has popped out a kid necessarily makes her a MILF.

On this board we don't talk about sexual activity of those that are not of legal age, but I'll suggest many of the MILF fantasies are held by those that haven't reached a legal age.

I don't know many 20-somethings that talk about how they'd like to do their best friends Mom, but in high school we all talked about hot Moms (or teachers).

That said I don't know why the term is so prevelant in advertising. "Cougar" on the other hand seems more desirable.
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When does a MILF become a Cougar?
  • Aguy
  • 09-01-2010, 06:57 PM
I think it's just a question of view point. If she is being chased by guys young enough to be her son she is a MILF. If she is chasing guys young enough to be her son then she is a cougar.
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As a guy, here is my criteria for a MILF. A woman (of any age) who I know has at least one child, and I find the woman attractive enough to want to fuck her. I'll give you an example. First off I'm in my 40s, so my age has no play in the equation. Now, this example is of a civie girl (not a provider). I routinely pick up and drop off my kids at school. Well, a few years back, there was this one mother who's child happened to be in the same class as my child. This mother couldn't have been more than 23 or 24 years old. She was hot-- one of the hottest girls I have seen. She was definitely MILF material even at that young of an age.
If you watch Milf Hunters it might clarify a few things!

I have been called a MILF many times, and here are my thoughts on it....

Older (30's +)
Mature
Sexual
Been around the block a few times
Have the stretch marks to prove it!

She is the average surburban mother who you see at the grocery store, school events, wal-mart, ect. in which you lust after because of her still bangin body under her middle class clothes.

This is my opnion...Urband Dictionary says...

MILF
"Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck"
mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. Just cuz their moms doesn't mean that they don't need a spark in their love life. If they've ever breastfed,they have really responsive nipples and a core of erectile tissue in their breasts. The ones in good shape have worked at regaining control over their vaginas (Kegel exercises).MILFs are usually real careful about birth control, they know accidents happen but they take responsible steps. They want to fuck with abandon, with no romantic complications for their under-19 family.
A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.

For the attractive and sexual mothers under the age of 30, they are refered to as 'Yummy Mummy'

Analisa,
popular opinion has it that if you are not a mother, then you are neither one. I wonder what they were basing it on if your not a mother. Perhaps the fact that you've got yourself a tight little body THEY would like to fuck!
The formula for a Cougar is simple, take the womans age, devide it by 2, then add 7. That is the age of the oldest guy she will hook up with. That means a 30 year will go go for anyone 18 to 22. A 50 year old can "prey" on guys from 18 to 32. I say 18 because that is the legal age in most States.

Now, I guess any Woman who has a kid can call herself a MILF, but let's get real. We are talking about Women who are 30+, for most of us, closer to 40 is better, and who still maintains that physical look that we all recognize as sexually attractive. That allure of a woman who is 40 years old, but projects massive amounts of sexuality is something that intrigues many men, not just teen age boys.
DallasRain's Avatar
I used to be a MILF....but now I am a GILF------wooohoooo I graduated!!!
{and am still young enough to be a MILF too}lol!
yes id like to fuck tiffany
If you watch Milf Hunters it might clarify a few things!

I have been called a MILF many times, and here are my thoughts on it....

Older (30's +)
Mature
Sexual
Been around the block a few times
Have the stretch marks to prove it!

She is the average surburban mother who you see at the grocery store, school events, wal-mart, ect. in which you lust after because of her still bangin body under her middle class clothes.

This is my opnion...Urband Dictionary says...

MILF
"Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck"
mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. Just cuz their moms doesn't mean that they don't need a spark in their love life. If they've ever breastfed,they have really responsive nipples and a core of erectile tissue in their breasts. The ones in good shape have worked at regaining control over their vaginas (Kegel exercises).MILFs are usually real careful about birth control, they know accidents happen but they take responsible steps. They want to fuck with abandon, with no romantic complications for their under-19 family.
A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.

For the attractive and sexual mothers under the age of 30, they are refered to as 'Yummy Mummy'

Analisa,
popular opinion has it that if you are not a mother, then you are neither one. I wonder what they were basing it on if your not a mother. Perhaps the fact that you've got yourself a tight little body THEY would like to fuck! Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums
as a wimfbid that would be woman i have to fuck before i die
I used to be a MILF....but now I am a GILF------wooohoooo I graduated!!!
{and am still young enough to be a MILF too}lol! Originally Posted by DallasRain
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lol--petite--you make my day so "frisky"!!!!
*SOuThErNSwEeTHeArT*'s Avatar
I guess it all really depends, I mean, technically as soon as you are a mother and still hot enough for someone to want to fuck you, would classify you as a milf. The meaning is mom I'd like to fuck, not mom I'd like to fuck over thirty or so. Lol although I have been called a milf before, I am perfectly fine still being seen as a pretty young spinner milf will not be in my ads, at least not anytime soon.