Is This Really How PF411/ECCIE Members Treat People Out Here In S.A.???

Hi,

I am not trying to stir up trouble but I am wondering....

Why is that when a well reviewed and has a ton of ok on PF411 hobby guy, why do they no show and give you the most problems.

I am in S.A. I made plan to see this guy at 2pm he had a ton of ok and lots of reviews( I know we cant say names here so email if you like this info) but he has no showed me, will not anwser my phone or text. Its now 3pm and I cancel appointment just to see this guy since he seemed like a great guy.... I dont think its fair or right for someone to do this to someone when I am not even from here...

WOW is this the way every girl get treated here in S.A.??

XXOXO, Miss Melissa

Sorry you had to deal with such crap. Unfortunately, it's an all-too-common occurrence for both providers and hobbyists and not just here in SA. After all, how difficult is it to make a phone call to cancel? You're much too cute to have this happen to you.

Now after I reported him to PF411 and he got warning points he PM in 2 mins telling me he lost his phone..

Now that is good one....

Thanks Altbier this happen to me everytime I am out of town when I am flate broke and no way to get home after I payed my phone bill and some other bills and payed for this room for the night... It never fails I all ways seem to have bad luck...

Actually I believe you can name him by eccie handle , just can't out entire phone number on the boards . But if it was p411 only you can't because it's his ID .

Totally unacceptable behavior why bother to schedule time if you don't plan on keeping the appointment. Hope you don't encounter others, like this knucklehead.

That's just wrong. Don't know why some people (both providers and clients) can't be more respectful of others time. Fortunately I have never had to deal with a NCNS either way, and hopefully never will... I hope the rest of your stay yields better results...

My understanding is the same as RR, that you can out him by his handle only.

Sorry you had to deal with such crap. Unfortunately, it's an all-too-common occurrence for both providers and hobbyists and not just here in SA. After all, how difficult is it to make a phone call to cancel? You're much too cute to have this happen to you. Originally Posted by Altbier

Well said Altbier................Its not just an SA problem, it happens everywhere. Don't throw us all under the bus sweetie, there are some good guys here.

Oh I know Joe Buck there is a few good guys out there....

Thanks everyone I am not going to let that spoil my fun here in S.A. its no problem.. I am having way to much fun sitting here at the bar having a drink....

... I am having way to much fun sitting here at the bar having a drink.... Originally Posted by MissMelissa

and what bar is this at?

and what bar is this at? Originally Posted by MoneyManMatt

LOL My thoughts exactly. Gonna be heading out soon for my normal Friday night bar hopping... part work mostly fun...

Sorry to read about your no show. It happens to us all on both sides of the fence. At least in San Antonio in the ISO forum there is a thread for posting last minute openings that would allow you to let us know you are available today, tonight, or right now. Could help with the financials. I am former ASPD, current Eccie and 411 member and have never no showed an appointment. I try real hard to make sure if I set an appointment that there is a 99% chance I can make it and if situations change I try to call as far ahead as possible to let the lady know. It is called common courtesy.

This won't add anything positive to your experience, but I feel your pain. I was ncns x2 by same provider within a weeks time

Sorry that happened to you sweetheart, some people just plain 'ole suck (and not in a good way, hehe). But as some of the gentlemen have stated, don't let that guy ruin it for the rest of them. We have some mighty fine gents here in SA who know how to treat you right. I wish you the best of luck in making your stay here worthwhile hon.

Are we all forgetting about guy "A" MissMelissa cancelled on just to see guy "B" who NCNS on her?

I wonder how he felt? (Guy A)

Maybe he was given ample notice but he must feel like chopped liver by now or maybe is laughing his ass off.

Who knows? As they say karma is a biatch...

SF

Ive had a guy tell me he NCNS because he had to go to the hospital after a massive starbucks.....hmmm the shit yall come up with. I didn't want to pry anymore because what if he DID go to the hospital lol either way it happens to us all provider and hobbyist.

hope the rest of ur trip goes well!