A provider can be a suagr baby. Most SDs don't want a provider as one though.the way some of you talk proves that tricks can't be sugar daddies just like providers can't be sugar babies.
You can stop providing and be exclusive and taken care of if you want. That is fine. Call yourself a sugar baby and be done with it. Then return to providing until the next guy comes along.
Question asked: Being a sugar daddy means that all her needs are taking care of?
Answer: She may be confused on what her needs are. Providers think about the money aspect 99% of the time.
Needs of a sugar baby: A sugar baby I am looking for is young, wants to thrive and learn and needs help in doing so. The girls I seek (This takes a long time to find and screening for one is time consuming) Notice I say I look for. I don't have one come up to me. It's like asking for a hand out. I don't go to sites like SA or sugarbabyforme etc.. Those are not the girls i am looking for.
My sugar baby:
Mine has a full time job and she works. That is not a redundant statement.
When I met her at 18 years old she had nothing. She lived with Mom and stepdad, she had no drivers licence, no car and no savings. She had no plans and no dreams. She was working a job where she could excel but was there a year and went no place.
How we met:
I would go to the store and buy things. Condoms, little things and maybe pick up bread. I would see her. She was beautiful yet no one could see it. She spoke very soft and was shy. I would see her a couple times a week.
What happened next:
After talking with her and making excuses of I couldn't find something in the store to talk to her more and get to know her better we crossed a magazine section and she pointed to one with a picture of Bon Jovi on the cover. "You look just like him" she said. I said I was an old man now and chuckled and she said you are pretty damn hot for an old man and her face went red. I handed her my business card and asked her to text me when she got out of work.
The text:
thirty minutes after I left she said she was out of work. I asked her if she could meet me for dinner. She said yes but it would have to be close to her home as she didn't have a car. I picked her up.
She now has a car, an apartment, a cute border collie, a drivers licence, she made head of her department and got a raise, she is up for another promotion just this week. I don't give her an allowance and I spent about $40.00 last week on our weekend. We have been together for a little over a year now.
Providers want $4000 a month, money is all you look at. It is what drives you or you wouldn't be looking for the Hollywood sugar daddy. You wouldn't be a provider. You look at the right now and not the future. This is your failure. This is where you fuck up and this is what you will look back on and hate yourself for.
What a sugar baby needs and wants are two different things.
I could walk away from her right now and she would be fine. In the last year I taught her more than some SD that gave her $4000 a month.
What I told her when we met...
You are a bird that fell out of a tree. You keep looking at the nest wondering how to get back in. My sweetheart, you don't need the nest, you need to learn how to fly. That, I can help you with.
Four months into our relationship she took off and she loves flying.
I am a sugar daddy.
I am proud to call myself that.
The relationship prior was a girl I was with for three years. She went from Ghetto home to going to Berkeley. She didn't get $4000 a month either.
You want to be a sugar baby?
Lost the fucking hooker attitude and want to fly. Originally Posted by Gotyour6


i don't want any woman too stupid to take care of herself, and i know more smart providers who do this part time than some store clerk having to screw some old man for years on end just to get a lousy apartment. thats not freedom it's desperation. sorry brother, but you have not seen the right providers. you know..the ones that don't need you. you prey and yes you are a predator, on young, naive women who let you walk all over them for a few bucks only to get your fucking rocks off. at least a hooker knows you are a piece of shit going in, and there are no delusions. you are not a sugar daddy. you are a trick wanna be pimp.