Gifts

I'm sure you have given the wife gifts. Originally Posted by heinz5710

Nope, not once. She won't let me give her gifts even if I wanted to.

As to why. I know why. You give her gifts just so she'll keep you. Originally Posted by heinz5710

See above...

I think your handle is appropriate. WAKEUP! I still think you are bitter that you went so long without. I went through that phase as well but I didn't come out hating women or thinking of all of them as whores. There is a good side to you but if I were a provider and reading your posts no amount of money would put you on the client list. Originally Posted by heinz5710

I don't think you realize, living in your own little fantasy hobby world, how this thing of ours works. See, I've got money...and whores LOVE money...so I get fucked all the time. You'd be amazed how often the "Wakeup" handle gets the free pussy offers from hookers just because they want to say they fucked me...it's crazy sometimes...

This is someone who appears to need their wife to fight their battles for them: Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

Far from it baby...far from it. So what do you say, you want a shot at the title?

I made this comment on a stripper board and got my ass chewed by a dancer.

"The first rule when giving gifts, always include the receipt. It makes it easier for them to return for cash to give to their boyfriend."

Not sure if it would apply to providers.

As a guy, the "Legend in my own mind" part of me would like to think that she will remember me as the guy who fucked her into complete ecstasy. But in this little hobby we're in, that's probably almost as rare as unicorns, the tooth fairy, or free pussy.

A well-considered gift, regardless of the price, can help her remember who you are a month or a year later. "Oh, he's the guy that gave me..."

Just my opinion, folks.

Far from it baby...far from it. So what do you say, you want a shot at the title? Originally Posted by Wakeuр

What title would I be taking a shot at?

I don't get any extra because I get something for the lady or give her some extra cash. I will say this. Most women do NOT consider most men idiots. Most men do not consider all women who give some pleasure to them whores. Then there is WAKEUP and those who think as he does. I think he is a minority but I haven't taken any polls. Kindness from either sex is appreciated even if it is not said. When you demean others, you really don't think much of yourself. Now I don't want to be the pot calling the kettle black. My age and the medicines I'm on don't make me the best BFE anymore. Even so, I get treated very well. Does it happen because they think I'm easy? If I am easy, then let it be so. Giving to others is still something I can do. I don't regret the few extra dollars spent. Like I said before, attitude means everything. Sure I only have a lover for an hour or two but I choose my providers wisely. I think I can tell when a lady just spreads her legs and wants me out and when a lady enjoys my company. I'm sure I have been with some desperate women, but mostly I have been with some wonderful people who enjoy being a woman! Originally Posted by heinz5710

Very nicely spoken!

Hobby and non-hobby. Use your discretion when buying gifts, but don't buy them because you feel it's expected or you think you'll get something extra.
You want something extra....PAY for it. Otherwise it's an awkward moment in any business transaction!

I am not sure why hobbyists give gifts or how they choose the gifts they give. I thought it was about being thoughtful. I thought they were thoughtful no matter what was given and never considered treating them differently than I do my non-gift giving guys. However, I do remember them and their thoughtfulness with a smile every time I wear or see their gift. I do not question or judge their motives. I value their thoughtfulness and generosity. Some of the gifts are to enhance their own experience, ie., sexy lingerie and some seem just a thoughtful gesture. No matter, it is a nice thing and always a pleasant surprise. I am not a "PollyAnna" or an "Eeyore" it's just my 2 cents.

I love small thoughtful gifts on occasion, although never expected! Chocolate, panties, toys, jewlery, wine to share, etc. Big or small it's the thought that counts. Subconsciously it makes me feel like my happiness is important to them too.

gifts are NEVER necessary...but ARE greatly appreciated!

I had a few guys give me p411 points as gifts...that was so awesome!
P411 charges us 10 points every visiting city we put our profile in....or $10

{so for us traveling gals who use alot of cities that is so very helpful|


I just wanna give a shout out to the great guys here on eccie!!

What title would I be taking a shot at? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

Not SB, that requires you act somewhat like a wife. You obviously think you want to fight with mine. Go ahead!

Wait...SB's are supposed to act like wives??? So you want your SB to quit fucking you, run up your credit card bills, wreck your car pulling into the garage, get fat after pumping out two of your kids, and then take half your shit when they leave?

To each their own I guess...

:facepalm: You REALLY need to get out of the hobby dude...you have no idea about the rules around here...

There must be some confusion.

Here was the question...

Far from it baby...far from it. So what do you say, you want a shot at the title? Originally Posted by Wakeuр

And I replied to Wakeup's post seeking additional details...

What title would I be taking a shot at? Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

I apologize for any confusion Heinz, my question was for Wakeup.

Honestly, when I saw your post earlier Heinz, for a minute there I thought you had two handles. Heinz5710 and Wakeup. To clear up any potential confusion, my question was for Wakeup.

:facepalm:

no gifts


that cash is going towards seeing her another time or applied to next in line

this is about ME

ill throw in some advice...dont take any wood nickels

Well I am new to this and have a lot to learn so far.I have seen only one provider, but have seen her twice,back to back days.On the first meet no gift,but the next meet I gave her one of my handmade necklaces that would have sold for 100.00,which BTW was the cost of the visit both times.Now I did this not because I expected extra but because I knew she liked jewelry and I wanted to and because I enjoyed her company.I will bring a small gift to each provider I have an encounter with and if I really enjoy her company then it may be a better gift on any return visit,that's just who I am and what I want to do.If it makes you feel good to make the provider smile,then why not.The smile on a beautiful woman's face is the best thing you could possibly get in return,IMO.