Ok. I get a PM from Kate today bitching that I'm blasting her … which I am. She's complaining that she can never respond to my comments, so here's your chance Kate. If you want to make things right, this is your opportunity.
You have NCNS'd several guys here when you first got started and went by NightmareSally—I was one. I've seen you two times, both last Dec (17th & 24th) and even left a nice Christmas tip to which you texted me saying I left too much (great gesture on your part) and I replied with "Merry Christmas" simply because I wanted to see you again.
Then it happened. I scheduled with you for Jan. 21st and texted you asking for a confirmation before leaving my house, as it's a long 30 drive one way to see you. You replied with CONFIRMED! So I got ready and left. After I arrived you never replied, after several texts and thirty min. of waiting, I left. At that point I decided to start warning guys of your antics.
I realize it is now 10 months later and that people do and can change. But until today the only thing you have ever said to me either in public or private is "sheesh" in reply to my first warning post. http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=66...ghlight=sheesh
You've had plenty of opportunity to respond either through PM or in this forum but you have not done so. Now you are bitching that I won't leave you alone. Well, Kate put your big girl panties on and live with it.
And lest anyone think I'm making this stuff up … read 'em for yourself:
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=651384&highlight=
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=644916
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...nightmaresally
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...nightmaresally
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...nightmaresally
Now, if you want to take ownership of this and make it up (even though I told you in response to your PM that I would never see you again), then I'll give you one last opportunity. As you said to me, you NCNS'd Monk and now you have a great professional relationship. I'm willing to put this aside but it will require you doing what's right, not just making some changes and hope you past will disappear, for I will continue to bring up your past if you don't. The balls in your court.
So per your claims in PM:
Yes I'm blasting you.
Yes it's been primarily in the review section where you can't respond.
Guilty as charged. That does not mean you cannot offer a retort to my comments right here. You could have started your own post right here to defend yourself 10 months ago but you didn't. There's only one way to make it right and that's to repay me for the time you cost me. Either pay up or live with your reputation.