What is your opinion on ThreADs here is mine

Lately I have not posted based on who has started Thread or in a lot of cases who adds to the Thread. Originally Posted by travelerman

There ya go! THAT is the result we look for!

I find it kinda aggravating. My happy eccie community is definitely not the same. The wonderful community here actually had a small part with me even moving here, just topped off how great everything else was for me in SA. I use to love Eccie, here lately I dont waste as much time online at all.

You get your ads placed though right?

I always use it to check my references, thats it now. Its gone from amusing to aggravating in a week.

And people try to tell us we can't get that result!

Ive had the guys that everyone's having trouble with on ignore for weeks, I must say that fixed it quickly for me!

But not for others that can't resist seeing how we deal with it..... See... We IGNORE that you ignore us because YOU are not the intended audience.....

However Sadly many of my actual friends are hiding now, lol no one even wants to play here!

Wait! That's the part we are coming back to create..... They can't hide till we tell them it's OK to go hide now..... SHEESH.... Everyone wants to get ahead of the program,

I love this site and all you guys and girls, but if no one's noticed Ive been slowing down and not contributing as much, and will continue to do so.

excellent..... you haven't even figured out WHY you get the attention you do although dozens of people state it in an average month.... Why is that? Oh wait... Maybe because you are NOT on here to interact,..... Just to advertise....


I love what I do, but honestly all the drama here kinda just reminded me how fucking creepy this business is, time to remember what the heck I was even doing here and put my personal firewall back up pronto. I was going to the Christmas Social, but lately Im just trying to see if I can convince myself to even go. They have tons of parties everywhere this time of year, many great one linked to charities, trying to convince myself I should waste an hour or so of my life listening to people talk about a fucking forum being moved when I could gee I dont know, help hungry kids or something. Way too much going on in our world for me to waste anymore time or thought with this.

That's sweet..... They waste time talking about this at Socials? ahhhhh.... I feel special now...

Cant say Ive read any recent threads, only because there's so much crap in coed lately, would'nt know where to start.

Wow.... well... honestly there is very little effort on our parts lately as we a re both busy with other things..... AFTER Christmas though I think you will see no less than 2 pages of our material... a Good 50 threads of top notch stuff to complain about!

Im definitely not going anywere at all, I still enjoy posting and contributing with some things I read and feel passionate about and will always, however my days of actually surfing this site for fun, are long over and have been! Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

Cool......

Are ya keeping Score SL? Here is another one...


Oh... Wait.....

Does saying I don't care enough to get involved MEAN they are getting involved? I never get that part right....

The reason I put up this thread was to bring it to light and from the early votes so far it seems like most don't care if ladies put up threADs and most even like them so please ladies don't let a few feeble minded individuals spoil your fun and I say post away with whatever is on your mind Originally Posted by a10bomb

But the reality of the situation is that it will not matter what MOST people think.... Only what a few of us do...... they fold easily and close up shop and go away..... We demonstrated that in San Antonio last month....

We will be back with a purpose to display more before the end of the year....

I'm continuously surprised and saddened by the animosity some (not most) of the men here show ladies who express their views or have an opinion. It's disappointing.

Is that a fair statement? Do you feel that all opinions are challenged adn women that express them disrespected or is there any pattern to which ones are challenged and why?

I've been insulted, threatened, questioned and told to leave because I don't belong on this board. I hate to admit it, but my gut reaction is "no wonder he has to pay for sex...

Some men pay for sex.... others pay for the right to have nothing to do with a girl AFTER the sex..... There is a difference

what woman would sleep with him for free." And that thought, my own thought, upsets me because I truly believe this is a great fun hobby for many open minded people.

Just my .02...and I'm not even sure it's worth that...

xoxo,
LMx

I've also been called a "Grammar Nazi" but that might be true... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

hmmmmm.... I'll look at that

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It's kind of like going hunting and having a dog that runs in and startles the birds and they all pop up..... then you can get your shot off....

Originally Posted by Whispers

That is the single best explanation of what goes on I have ever seen in writing. If only I could ignore the presence of the dog...

Originally Posted by LilMynx69
I'm continuously surprised and saddened by the animosity some (not most) of the men here show ladies who express their views or have an opinion. It's disappointing.

Is that a fair statement? Do you feel that all opinions are challenged adn women that express them disrespected or is there any pattern to which ones are challenged and why?

I've been insulted, threatened, questioned and told to leave because I don't belong on this board. I hate to admit it, but my gut reaction is "no wonder he has to pay for sex...

Some men pay for sex.... others pay for the right to have nothing to do with a girl AFTER the sex..... There is a difference

what woman would sleep with him for free." And that thought, my own thought, upsets me because I truly believe this is a great fun hobby for many open minded people.

Just my .02...and I'm not even sure it's worth that...

xoxo,
LMx

I've also been called a "Grammar Nazi" but that might be true...

hmmmmm.... I'll look at that Originally Posted by Whispers

Of course my statement is fair because I qualified it with "some" and it is a small amount. And I am well aware of the different reasons someone might pay for sex. Trust me, I am. And I appreciate them, that's not a wholly male viewpoint...

That doesn't change my opinion. I'm not talking about guys who engage in actual debate and have valid questions and objections. I welcome that. Even when it's too blunt and direct for others. Not everyone believes in diplomacy e way I do...thats ok.

I'm talking about the purely personal attacks that have nothing to do with topics or the on topic attacks that are so off base, that any careful reader thinks....wtf???

I think I am rather good judge and can quite easily differentiate between the men here who have confrontational board personas but truly love women and all they have to offer as opposed to the small minority who are misogynistic pigs. Unfortunately, there's a few more pigs than I think there should be.

What I really don't understand is why the more of the guys, the ones who other people view as "board bully's" but fit into my confrontational category, don't call out the guys who truly don't like women. Is it a fear of being called a White Knight? That's what baffles me.

For the record, Whispers, never in the past 10+ years have I thought you paid for sex because it was the only way you could get it. I might be bitchy, but I'm not stupid. ;-)

Cool......

Are ya keeping Score SL? Here is another one...


Oh... Wait.....

Does saying I don't care enough to get involved MEAN they are getting involved? I never get that part right.... Originally Posted by Whispers

Whispers & Still Looking show up in San Antonio. Mokoa (Gabby) addresses the community...

That is the single best explanation of what goes on I have ever seen in writing. If only I could ignore the presence of the dog... Originally Posted by Rover14

I have admitted more than once that amidst what is informative is a lot of entertainment!

For the record, Whispers, never in the past 10+ years have I thought you paid for sex because it was the only way you could get it. I might be bitchy, but I'm not stupid. ;-) Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Bitchy is OK... and often fun....


In regards to calling out other guys that seem to simply be asses......

I tend to do that on occasion but like many others I may not be paying attention to what some have to say because I've read enough and decided there is no substance there.

But the reality of the situation is that it will not matter what MOST people think.... Only what a few of us do...... they fold easily and close up shop and go away..... We demonstrated that in San Antonio last month....

We will be back with a purpose to display more before the end of the year.... Originally Posted by Whispers

I have to agree with you there. The vocal minority always trumps the silent majority.

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Originally Posted by Whispers
Cool......

Are ya keeping Score SL? Here is another one...


Oh... Wait.....

Does saying I don't care enough to get involved MEAN they are getting involved? I never get that part right....

Whispers & Still Looking show up in San Antonio. Mokoa (Gabby) addresses the community...

The master calls and SL comes a running.

Cool......

Does saying I don't care enough to get involved MEAN they are getting involved? I never get that part right....
Originally Posted by Whispers

Not surprising...

But the reality of the situation is that it will not matter what MOST people think.... Only what a few of us do...... they fold easily and close up shop and go away..... We demonstrated that in San Antonio last month....

We will be back with a purpose to display more before the end of the year.... Originally Posted by Whispers

To what purpose? To try and antagonize people or just get your post counts, views and replies up?

Bitchy is OK... and often fun....


In regards to calling out other guys that seem to simply be asses......

I tend to do that on occasion but like many others I may not be paying attention to what some have to say because I've read enough and decided there is no substance there. Originally Posted by Whispers

Just as you decide there is no substance to what some say, I believe a lot of people here have decided the things you post have little or no substance either and aren't paying attention to you.

At first I was a little perturbed/agitated by most of your posts and just ignored most of them, but reading some of what you have written has made me realize no one should be angry with you, instead they should pity you as I now do.

It seems that the only reason you and your simple minded trolls go from place to place and try and "fix" other places is because you have no life. I know you go on about how women are all over you at strip clubs and the like, but there is little fulfillment in that. I guess you weren't hugged enough as a child and need to get attention from somewhere, even if it's as you call it, a "hooker board". My God almost 9,000 posts? I'm sure with the kind of persona you display here, you probably don't have many TRUE friends, just people you use and that use you. Truly pathetic... You might try focusing your energy on yourself and how to become more socially acceptable in the real world.

I followed the witch hunt you did on 19trees in Austin for a while, but when you couldn't bring forth one person to back up your accusations, I lost interest and felt as many others seemed to that you had an ax to grind with him. I don't care one way or the other, it's just an example of how you come in with baseless accusations and no proof. If you aren't just seeking attention and really trying to right wrongs, why not just send your "proof" to the admins that you are so close with instead of causing useless drama? Oh that's right, the admins want the drama for the revenue it creates.

Well, there is nothing I or anyone else can do to stop you and your trolls from creating whatever drama you wish to bring, just remember, hopefully many people won't be getting mad at you all, they will instead pity you all and feel sorry for you that this is all the life you have.

One final note, I've seen you say that SL and others are "their own man" or something similar. If that's the case, why do you have to bring them in to cause drama. SL has posted here before now and then but didn't do so with gusto until you came in as well. Just like the rest of them... Truly pathetic that they follow you around like the pied piper... Hmm Maybe they are on your payroll. Whatever is is, it's really sad and I do feel very sorry for you and your lot in life.

The master calls and SL comes a running. Originally Posted by gooose

This reminds me of you Goosed

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I followed the witch hunt you did on 19trees in Austin for a while, but when you couldn't bring forth one person to back up your accusations, I lost interest and felt as many others seemed to that you had an ax to grind with him.
.... Originally Posted by darter

I followed that incident also.

Guess they were part of the silent masses also.

And as I stated earlier, if they can't speak up, so be it.

But the reality of the situation is that it will not matter what MOST people think.... Only what a few of us do...... they fold easily and close up shop and go away..... We demonstrated that in San Antonio last month....

We will be back with a purpose to display more before the end of the year.... Originally Posted by Whispers

Bitchy is OK... and often fun....


In regards to calling out other guys that seem to simply be asses......

I tend to do that on occasion but like many others I may not be paying attention to what some have to say because I've read enough and decided there is no substance there. Originally Posted by Whispers

Also for the record, I have seen you call out a guy for being an ass. It's your "followers" and "wannabes" I have a problem with, but that not your fault or concern.

xoxo,
LMx