Tori, I wouldn't sweat it too much, although I do agree it is mean.
Folks here are just an extension of society and the media at large. They conflate anyone associated with an escort, whether its a driver, phone screener, web site developer, photographer, boyfriend husband...with a pimp. When the reality is pimps barely exist at all. Even self proclaimed pimps are usually wannabes with over inflated egos and it's really the lady calling the shots.
It's too bad because when the real pimp shows up and is not wanted all the crying wolf makes it tough to tell.
Originally Posted by trojantide
Well said! I normally don't sweat anything on here, I've bitten my tongue a lot over the past few months just to avoid getting involved in the drama. I hate drama. I didn't like or agree with someone referring to me as a bbw in a review but I let it slide, figured wth to each their own opinions etc. But where I draw the line is questioning my safety.
I stand corrected. If any girl is dumb enough (or desperate enough) to see someone like him after the past few days, then i doubt they're the type of person i could stomach being alone in a room with for an hour.
But maybe that's just me.
Originally Posted by Doove
Far from dumb and far from desperate. Yes I've seen XY in the past, yes we still chat every now and again, but haven't "been together" in months.
You can be "friends" with someone and not agree with everything they do and say. I will say that XY is not in real life what he is here, and he may be mad at me for saying this or not honestly idc anymore, but he cannot even deny that I have told him many times in the past that I don't agree with everything he posts, I've told him he can be too dramatic, I've told him he takes it too far, and he knows that. But that's his choice NOT mine. It's really no one's business here why I continue talking to him, but I'll throw it out there, he's interesting. Yes he's an asshole, but an interesting one, funny, and very knowledgeable.
I'm done defending myself here. Guys can choose to see me or not see me at their discretion though I feel I've never done anything to warrant question regarding my safety. You (And I say you in general not just you Doove) can choose not to see me based on my appearance, performance, menu, rate whatever those are preferences I don't take offense to...but yes I do take offense to questions regarding safety when I go out of the way exhausting myself to stay safe. I've turned down guys if I felt I wasn't safe, I'm not desperate I'm not feeding a habit I can live without the $$$ my safety isn't worth it. I enjoy the money yes, but it doesn't dictate how or why I do this, I do this because I have fun and I enjoy it. I don't have GPS, I'm fine admitting I'm not for everyone, some will love seeing me love my menu whatever and some will prefer another girl and that's fine to each their own, I don't judge anyone. And just as I don't judge anyone, hmm maybe I'm naïve for expecting that same respect.