Texting on the way to an appt.

Thanck you Shala84, you pretty much prove my point. So you were texting a guy while he was on his way over to meet you and wadded up his rig in an accidentally?
Point:text messaging while driving is dangerous and stupid.


What, did he not have your address?

And just out of curiosity, how exactly is text messaging any safer for you as a provider than conversing on the phone in an actual conversation?

Please. I am genuinely interested in hearing the reasoning behind this logic.

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

texting is not always a safe option. Cell phone service providers capture all your text messages. I don't know if they read them. But they can be obtained by a court order.

He wasnt texting for my addy, if your driving you should already have that, once I ok you I give my addy he was just driving and texting me then I got the call he got in an accident. I mean its practically a "Well Duh" thing to text and drive, obviously its not safe but its not safe to drink and drive either and people still do it, they wont stop no matter what someone says so, and here you dont have to be on phone to get rear ended (lol no pun intended) People just drive crazy and to close to one another.

Thanck you Shala84, you pretty much prove my point. So you were texting a guy while he was on his way over to meet you and wadded up his rig in an accidentally?
Point:text messaging while driving is dangerous and stupid.


What, did he not have your address?

And just out of curiosity, how exactly is text messaging any safer for you as a provider than conversing on the phone in an actual conversation?

Please. I am genuinely interested in hearing the reasoning behind this logic.

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

He wasnt texting for my addy, if your driving you should already have that, once I ok you I give my addy he was just driving and texting me then I got the call he got in an accident. I mean its practically a "Well Duh" thing to text and drive, Originally Posted by shayla84

Again, dear, I just have to ask. In a previous post you said that you didn't feel comfortable talking on the phone...that you needed that time to get ready...and eye-liner...etc., etc...

How does text-messaging make it any easier to accomplish these things as opposed to a really brief, really quick, phone conversation lasting less than two minutes?

And if it is a "Well Duh" thing to be doing, why continue the text-conversation? and more importantly, why answer that call and not one from one before an accidentally? LoL!

I'm just saying that text-messaging is really annoying whenever you really need to talk to someone. And if that someone happens to be someone you're expecting to visit, and be on-time, chances are, your ignoring that phone call is adding even more stress to that caller by so doing.

A person can have an address and GPS guidance doesn't always work the way it's supposed to. Often times it does, but without fail, Murphy and his Law come into the picture and screws even the best laid plans-up. GPS included. When that happens, it's just far easier and far less stressful to simply answer the phone and avoid all he unnecessary stress and hassle.

And you never did answer this one...

And just out of curiosity, how exactly is text messaging any safer for you as a provider than conversing on the phone in an actual conversation?

Please. I am genuinely interested in hearing the reasoning behind this logic.

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And just out of curiosity, how exactly is text messaging any safer for you as a provider than conversing on the phone in an actual conversation?
Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

I'm interested to know the answer to that question, too.

Personally, the only times I prefer texting to taking phone calls is when I don't want to be stuck in a phone conversation right at that moment. Texting gives me the liberty of replying at a later time and thinking things through a little better.....

This texting BULL SHIT certainly isn't safe and for the most part is because a provider is to fucking stupid and cheap to get a hobby phone. They hide behind google voice and it has delays and at times DOES NOT WORK.

what happened to screening? Didn't you screen the hobbyist? Lets use SKF as a handy example... he has been around since 2009 and has 27 reviews and I'm guessing might even have P411. Why in the wide world of sports do you need to HIDE your number from this guy? I mean your about to have your ass taped by the guy but your not sure if he can be trusted? Let's NOT forget that you can BLOCK your number. Seems pretty easy doesn't it? Personally I think "ALL" hobbyists should boycott "ALL" providers that won't talk on the phone even just for a minute to avoid complications. That's my rule and YES hobbyist can have rules too.

Holy shit SL, that reply was absolutely freaking beautiful! It damned near brought a tear to my eye it was so beautiful.

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Texting provides a small amount of plausible deniability that a voice call does not. "It wasn't me!" I call this the "To Catch a Predator" defense...someone was pinking me and text from my phone, IM'd from my screen name, etc. "It wasn't me!"

However, by this point, in the above examples, it shouldn't matter. And nothing incriminating should be discussed on the phone or via text...

Just answer the phone people and talk for a minute or two. I think the real problem is that many people want to chat chat chat when you pick up the phone...

Texting provides a small amount of plausible deniability that a voice call does not. "It wasn't me!" I call this the "To Catch a Predator" defense...someone was pinking me and text from my phone, IM'd from my screen name, etc. "It wasn't me!"

However, by this point, in the above examples, it shouldn't matter. And nothing incriminating should be discussed on the phone or via text...

Just answer the phone people and talk for a minute or two. I think the real problem is that many people want to chat chat chat when you pick up the phone... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Please be honest.... why would a person want to exchange 30-50 text messages to get a session scheduled over a period of an hour to a day when it can be done in a 1-2 minute call? Not withstanding... if I'm going to be flirting with my best material I sure as shit don't want bubba to get all hot and bothered!

SL Session Scheduling 101

SL: WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: Ramada Inn at the Vagina Triangle who does 11:00 am sound!

But no.........

SL: WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: Hi

SL: WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: do you want in call or out call?

SL: INCALL! WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: How long do you want to schedule 1/2 or hour?

SL: I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: How about 11:00?

SL: Sounds great! Where?

Provider: 290 & 35

SL: What hotel?

Provider: Text me when you get close. And pick me up an energy drink, condoms two packs of smokes.

Provider: Are you still coming?

Provider: Are you close?

Provider: I'm still getting ready give me 10 minutes.

Provider: Are you still there?

Provider: I'm running late, I had to go get something to eat... give me 10 minutes.

Provider: Did you get the condoms?

Provider: Are you still there?

SL: Yeah I just woke up... I'm still in the parking lot!

Provider: Ok give me 5 minutes and I'll text you the room number.

SL: OK?

Provider: Are you still there?

SL: Yes!

Provider: Did you get my smokes and energy drink?

SL: Yes!

Provider: they are cleaning my room give me 10 minutes.

Provider: Are you still there?

SL: YES!

Provider: You sure you have the condoms?

SL: Yes!

Provider: Room 321

SL: OK...

Provider: Where are you?

SL: I went to buy condoms!

Provider: Ok... text me when you get back.

Disclaimer: Depiction of actual events may have been slightly dramatized.

I was not raised on a GD gameboy!

I don't drive and text. I'll pull over and park. I had one instance where, after having to stop over 5 times, I sent a final text saying that unless she called me the date would be off! That was when I still had a clamshell phone. That alone took me 4-5 minutes to send out.

Even with my new phones I won't text and drive.


The only letter my digits get involved with is an "O".

I ALWAYS text and drive. No choice. Chick's won't answer their phones. LoL!

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maybe she texted instead of calling because the maid was standing outside the door of her incall, and she would rather not be overheard speaking an invitation on the phone? could it bee? Originally Posted by crystalkitty

Not bloody likely. Every time the guy calls? If the maid's watching you that closely, what's going to happen when the appointment starts?

If he phones you and you can't answer, you aren't going to answer immediately, anyway. Take 30 seconds to get somewhere private and call him back. Or text him, "the maid's here, I'll call you back in a minute." If he's wants to text you the question or info, he can. Turn on the TV and step into the bathroom. Or answer the phone and tell him you'll call him back in a minute.

Come on folks, get real.

If you're on the way to see her, and she's about to spend a half hour or an hour with you, and she won't talk on the phone to give you directions, it's probably because her pimp doesn't want you to talk directly to her.

It's one thing if she doesn't want to answer her phone and chat at random times, but if it's 10-30 minutes before show time, give me a break.

As for it being inconvenient to talk, it's only inconvenient if you're not alone. Can you really text "Come to the Slidon Inn and text me for the room number," more easily than you can say it? Can you send and receive texts with one hand while not looking at the phone like you can talk? Can you then receive and send several texts getting the correct address, clarifying that the entrance is on the main street side, etc., and have it be less inconvenient than a single phone call?

Don't forget that you're asking the guy to text and drive. And that it may take multiple texts to get all the details straight. And that the texts are recorded, either online, or in the phone itself. And that the guy is the one paying the bills.

As for ending up talking to the wife, if he's on the way over to the appointment, if the wife answers the phone, you're in trouble already. Also, the wife has got the phone, don't you think all those texts are going to clue her in? Or that you could be texting with the wife, not guy? Do you really want to text the angry wife your incall location and have her show up at your door?

Even if you're not just before the appointment, if he's just phoned you, the wife excuse doesn't work. If you text him back, don't you think wifey can send you texts about "when can we get together again?" And then work up to more and more revealing answers?

It's especially important to answer the phone right when I get there. I want to know that the maid or annoying neighbors aren't there. I also want to know you haven't had some sort of last minute interruption. I also don't want to have to wait for you to answer a text if I'm having trouble finding the room, etc. When I'm in transit from the car to the room, you owe your customer a voice guidance. And for that matter, let me phone you instead of knocking. That way, I know I have the right room, and you know it's me at the door.

OK, maybe you're not pimped, but if you never answer the phone while the guy is in transit to the appointment, you really need to work on your TCB.

I hate to break it to ya, but the "my phone got hacked/stolen" defense is about as useful in court as the "but he told me he wasn't a cop" defense. On the flip side, all phone service carriers now permanently store every text you send or receive. The only surefire way around this is to text from a Google Voice number over a wi-fi network. It's anyone's guess whether the phone companies store SMS sent by Google Voice over your phone's 3G or 4G data plan, but it's technically easy if they decide to. Assuming the carrier didn't simply block it, you could use an encrypted SMS app and all they'd store would be the gibberish of the cyphertext, but all your clients would need the same app installed to read your texts and what works on Andriod doesn't always work on iOS. Besides, I'm probably not alone in being unwilling to play spy games to reach an incall.

Ultimately, I think many providers are simply more confident texting than talking on the phone because it feels more at arm's length and impersonal... and some are managed and would rather you not know it.

A person can have an address and GPS guidance doesn't always work the way it's supposed to. Often times it does, but without fail, Murphy and his Law come into the picture and screws even the best laid plans-up. GPS included. Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Perhaps SL's Hoogering 101 needs to incorporate a monger orienteering module, with a final exam like boot camp. We drop you in the Vagina Triangle and you must find the pussy without using your phone's flash light or text functions.

I am not saying I wont talk on the phone, I said its easier, I dont have to hold phone up to ear and texts faster to me. If I have already given my addy then there should be no reason to call me. Some guys like to talk until they get to your incall and well I dont like talking on phones, I text EVERYONE, my mother, brothers, friends and well EVERYONE.

And not to mention its a preference, just like some guys rather text or pm and not call.
Some of you guys seem to think your the only ones that are allowed to have preferences and thats not the case.

As I have said OVER and OVER again, if your driving to me you will already have my addy , all I ask is when you get there you text for room number or what have you. There are reasons that I do that for my safety.