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I see where you're coming from. Your posts are always well thought out and courteous. that is why I hope you answer this post.

I think we can all agree that there are many more NCNS than there are providers having legitimate emergencies. The ERs would be full on Friday night, lol.

We guys realize this is a business. Our natural inclination is to think a NCNS is a result of overbooking to maximize revenue or NCNS with us because there is a fatter wallet that is taking our time. There may also be times when the provider gets gun shy on a guy after she has screened, but before she meets him.

So here is my question, What percentage on general NCNSs by providers will you estimate are because a regular wants that time who had tipped well in the past or another guy who offers a premium for fast access? If this happened for you, I assume you would make arrangements to reschedule and communicate with the cancelled guy ASAP, but unfortunately, I think you are the minority on that. Many providers just blow off the guy they are cancelling on for a bigger pay day. The reality is that if these rude providers are really good at their craft and/or really hot, they likely never suffer any consequences to their income from blowing guys off

OK, bcpl, just to be sure that I understand the point that you seem to so desperately be trying to make.....If a lady has made an appointment with you and she happens to be involved in a traffic accident where she sustains an injury, or her child has an accident and breaks a bone, and she is unable to make the appointment and doesn't notify you prior to the appointed time, you are going to be pissed that you didn't get your pussy delivered on time??? You know, most people have real lives and sometimes, shit just happens. I know that this probably doesn't apply to you, down there in mom's basement, but most of these ladies have commitments (RL jobs, children, caring for family members, etc.) that may surface at an inopportune time. As long as they handle their business in a professional manner and offer an explanation within a reasonable period of time, perhaps even doing something extra in order to "make it right", I don't believe that they should be condemned for the occasional unforeseen event. Of course, I fully understand that your needs, wants and desires supercede everyone elses. I also understand that I'm probably wasting my time communicating with you.

I had last minute cancellations before and that is fine. As long as you let me know before, we can give it a second try..

I never had an NCNS so far, but if I did I would just move on to the next provider. No point in trying to make up for it because there are other providers who appreciate my business. However, I would not write a review about it.

I had last minute cancellations before and that is fine. As long as you let me know before, we can give it a second try..

I never had an NCNS so far, but if I did I would just move on to the next provider. No point in trying to make up for it because there are other providers who appreciate my business. However, I would not write a review about it. Originally Posted by bluegrana

nothing is wrong with canceling before the appointment, I hope the reason for canceling is nothing serious.

I think the member should report that it was canceled, there is nothing wrong with telling other members what happened, same as you would if you had the session

I havent seen posts by providers saying they have been accused of a NSNC and they had a legit reason. But I have seen lots of NCNS reported and requests to know what providers have a high rate of NCNS

ok reply with idiotic replies, as usual

Sometimes it is nobody's business.

OK, bcpl, just to be sure that I understand the point that you seem to so desperately be trying to make.....If a lady has made an appointment with you and she happens to be involved in a traffic accident where she sustains an injury, or her child has an accident and breaks a bone, and she is unable to make the appointment and doesn't notify you prior to the appointed time, you are going to be pissed that you didn't get your pussy delivered on time??? You know, most people have real lives and sometimes, shit just happens. I know that this probably doesn't apply to you, down there in mom's basement, but most of these ladies have commitments (RL jobs, children, caring for family members, etc.) that may surface at an inopportune time. As long as they handle their business in a professional manner and offer an explanation within a reasonable period of time, perhaps even doing something extra in order to "make it right", I don't believe that they should be condemned for the occasional unforeseen event. Of course, I fully understand that your needs, wants and desires supercede everyone elses. I also understand that I'm probably wasting my time communicating with you. Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

I had no idea making appointments and then keeping them is so hard
sheesh
but yeah, stuff happens, I know that, so? is that a reason to not tell others that it happened?
no,
we are all here to exchange info about information

when shit happens, legit or not, that is information that other guys would want to know about.

I had no idea it was so hard to keep appointments that people make, hell, I don't even have a valid drivers license, cause I work at night and havent gotten to renew it yet...yet I don't freak out about getting pulled over or anything...but your mom did say I was special

Sometimes it is nobody's business. Originally Posted by noleftturn

not in this case

Yeah, bcpl, I'm sure you are special. I'm guessing you rode the "special" bus to school.

noleftturn was correct; sometimes it is nobody's business. If a lady had a valid reason for the ncns, and communicated within a reasonable period of time and offered something to make the situation right, why would you want to damage her reputation and, potentially, hurt her business? Just because of your "right" to know everything that happens? Sometimes these situations are best handled between the two people involved and as long as they are both satisfied with the eventual outcome, why should you need to know any of the details??

Coz he's nosy and got nothing better to do

Don't feed the troll. Put him on ignore and maybe he'll starve and go away.

I see where you're coming from. Your posts are always well thought out and courteous. that is why I hope you answer this post.

I think we can all agree that there are many more NCNS than there are providers having legitimate emergencies. The ERs would be full on Friday night, lol.

We guys realize this is a business. Our natural inclination is to think a NCNS is a result of overbooking to maximize revenue or NCNS with us because there is a fatter wallet that is taking our time. There may also be times when the provider gets gun shy on a guy after she has screened, but before she meets him.

So here is my question, What percentage on general NCNSs by providers will you estimate are because a regular wants that time who had tipped well in the past or another guy who offers a premium for fast access? If this happened for you, I assume you would make arrangements to reschedule and communicate with the cancelled guy ASAP, but unfortunately, I think you are the minority on that. Many providers just blow off the guy they are cancelling on for a bigger pay day. The reality is that if these rude providers are really good at their craft and/or really hot, they likely never suffer any consequences to their income from blowing guys off Originally Posted by Mizzou82

I cringe to answer but honesty is my fault. A good 75-82% of NCNS's are inclined towards forgetfulness, overbooking, becoming gun shy, or general sudden lack of desire to go out. In my youth I profess I was less than focused on respecting the time and effort gentlemen went through to see me. Once I realized the extent, funds and effort however I made sure to put forth the same effort if not more to be on time (or early) and avoid at all costs the NCNS

Honestly they will suffer. As they get older they will often realize that the gentlemen they so easily blew off could have been long term engagements that would have been both loyal and generous. Time cures all woes. Eventually they will not be so young nor so bold to dismiss a gentleman without warning or cause.

I do believe these NCNS should be reported especially when they come repeatedly. Nothing irks me more than a NCNS on either side of the coin. Save perhaps those that abuse generosity. However I do very much like playing the devils advocate.

OH and I never, EVER forgo a set date with one gentleman because another offers to provide more finances. I would see it as completely disrespectful to the gentleman who set the date with me in the first place and may have spent months saving up to afford my rate.

Coz he's nosy and got nothing better to do Originally Posted by bluegrana

Nah, I just like facts
showing up or not, shows facts

legit excuse or not, I just want facts

people around here with nothing better to do try to get attention by trying to throw a personal attack.
sad,but that's society for you, I watch society all the time doing dumb things on youtube or not being able to get into kollege.
lol
keep at it boyz

Yeah, bcpl, I'm sure you are special. I'm guessing you rode the "special" bus to school.

noleftturn was correct; sometimes it is nobody's business. If a lady had a valid reason for the ncns, and communicated within a reasonable period of time and offered something to make the situation right, why would you want to damage her reputation and, potentially, hurt her business? Just because of your "right" to know everything that happens? Sometimes these situations are best handled between the two people involved and as long as they are both satisfied with the eventual outcome, why should you need to know any of the details?? Originally Posted by stimulatethemind

Cause he gets his rocks off with his power and control trip.

Nah, I just like facts
showing up or not, shows facts

legit excuse or not, I just want facts

people around here with nothing better to do try to get attention by trying to throw a personal attack.
sad,but that's society for you, I watch society all the time doing dumb things on youtube or not being able to get into kollege.
lol
keep at it boyz Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

We all like facts, but sometimes people who are INVOLVED in the situation don't want to share certain info with the public for various reasons. There is nothing wrong with that in my opinion.

My biggest concern with NCNS is the breakdown in communication. 'Is everybody safe?' is not always readily answered.
I don't ask for excuses but if a lady offers a reason, even days later, I'm game for a listen.
Chances are the severed lines of communication can be mended. That's because I don't count any bridge burned since at one point I wanted to see her for reasons which generally overcome the frustration of NCNS.
So have fun out there, and be safe!