hobby discussions during session

I have had 2 recent sessions with great providers who ruined or lessened my enjoyment of the session by talking about "drama" going on in their lives from being in the hobby.

This is a "Catch 22" for me because I do want to be safe and I believe information is always good to have, but on the other hand, talking about a feud with another provider who outed you or who got arrested before we are intimate is a real deal killer for me.

I am so thankful that old guys like me can have sex with beautiful young women. I enjoy the hobby and without it, would be very lonely with either blue balls or corporal tunnel. I try very hard to be a gentleman and enjoy making a personal connection with a provider. But ladies, I do want to know what is going on with you and others in the hobby and I appreciate any information that will help me be safe, but lets wait until after we have had sex. Putting thoughts in my head about drama or LE activity before is just a boner killer. I want to be thinking about how tasty you are and how you look with my cock in your mouth before we start, not going through my phone log in my mind to try to remember if I ever called the provider you told me just got busted.

Not saying I don't want to hear your story, like I said all information is good, let's just wait until we are finished to talk about anything that deals with the dangers of the hobby or the craziness of another provider.

+100 You are right that dose suck babe. I to have made the mistake of doing the same thing. I know its your time and you guys don't need that talk during your session.

Talk about anything else during the get comfortable convo, which can lead to GFE.
With an exception for safety items (which should be rare, or non- existent) that directly impact the two folks that are dating.
My 2 pennies.

I totally get what you are saying. I would prefer to have no talk about others in the hobby. More times than not the rumors running around are not true or even close to the truth. Then one leaves from the session repeating the rumor, and so on.... Not cool.

And it totally ruins the mood. Let's just talk about how good we are going to feel in the next few minutes.

That is why long BBBJ'S are nice.

I have had 2 recent sessions with great providers who ruined or lessened my enjoyment of the session by talking about "drama" going on in their lives from being in the hobby.

Not saying I don't want to hear your story, like I said all information is good, let's just wait until we are finished to talk about anything that deals with the dangers of the hobby or the craziness of another provider. Originally Posted by Mizzou82

I certainly agree with your opinion...I'm curious though as to whether or not you are going to write reviews and since you have been around awhile, has this never happened before?

I certainly agree with your opinion...I'm curious though as to whether or not you are going to write reviews and since you have been around awhile, has this never happened before? Originally Posted by malwoody

I have had 2 recent sessions with great providers who ruined or lessened my enjoyment of the session by talking about "drama" going on in their lives from being in the hobby.
This is a "Catch 22" for me Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Let's see....you start a thread about two providers talking out of school..and you must feel strongly about it otherwise why the "ruined" or Lessened" comments? I ask a simple question about reviews and now you seek to hide your response from anyone who does not have PA by yet again misusing the private tags. What's up with that? Didn't you bring up the topic in a coed forum? What are you hiding? and why start the thread to begin with if you want to keep things secret?

One more time in public, are any reviews forthcomming or have any been written? Simple yes or no will suffice...

I used the "private" tag because the discussion concerned information that should be and will be in the ROS section of a review. I also used "private" simply because I felt like it. Why is it such a concern to you? I have read several threads today in various boards that have private messages. Why don't you cut and paste your off topic comments to every one of my "private" posts and paste them under each of those? Also, why don't you give a little thought to what you are commenting on instead of scanning the forums for a target and blindly criticizing every post??

I realize that you require simplicity to achieve understanding so I will make it simple. Find another target. I have never had any animosity toward you and I don't deserve yours

I used the "private" tag because the discussion concerned information that should be and will be in the ROS section of a review. So why don't you give a little thought to what you are commenting on instead of scanning the forums for a target and blindly criticizing every post??

I realize that you require simplicity to achieve understanding so I will make it simple. Find another target Originally Posted by Mizzou82

I never said anything about the "ROS"...I asked a very, very simple question because after all this Douche Bag requires "simplicity to achieve understanding"..

I was just wondering one more time if there was a review written or if one was to be forthcoming and a simple yes or no would have sufficed...

What is so hard about the question and why would you need private tags to say yes or no?

Still confused but hey have a nice evening...

.... Find another target .... Originally Posted by Mizzou82

I was going to stay out of this one, but you have me excited to join in. Buckle you seat belt, another douche bag has arrived to have fun with you!

I never said anything about the "ROS"...I asked a very, very simple question because after all this Douche Bag requires "simplicity to achieve understanding"..

I was just wondering one more time if there was a review written or if one was to be forthcoming and a simple yes or no would have sufficed...

What is so hard about the question and why would you need private tags to say yes or no?

Still confused but hey have a nice evening... Originally Posted by malwoody

Thanks MW, I will have a good evening. Rest assured that no review will appear on this issue as it has turned into some type of drama. I am not going to draw attention to myself or the provider.

As I said on another thread, I am done.

I have had 2 recent sessions with great providers who ruined or lessened my enjoyment of the session by talking about "drama" going on in their lives from being in the hobby.
This is a "Catch 22" Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Thanks MW, I will have a good evening. Rest assured that no review will appear on this issue as it has turned into some type of drama. I am not going to draw attention to myself or the provider. Originally Posted by Mizzou82

Like I said, I agree with you about the "ruined or lessened" ...I was just wondering if there were to be reviews or if any had been written? Since you said there would be "no review"....I am going to assume that there has been one review already written...was it the last one you wrote with the resounding "yes"....?

As far as the "drama"....
Methinks you started that about the same time you posted this thread..

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