Vouching

I'm pretty certain this issue has been addressed before... but I'd like to take a second to stress the importance of girls vouching for their clients.

I've sent out multiple requests to a few girls, one in particular sent back the client a "Only if you promise to see me" pm when he asked her to respond to mine... and then still hasn't responded to that OR a new one that I have.

Ladies, if you don't want to be bothered with vouches, then please at least let the other provider know. Then I'll know for sure to not contact you again.

There is going to start being some pissed off gents because I will be letting them know if I haven't heard back from you.

This is an important thing for all of our safety. I am more than willing to give ok's for guys I've seen. But you don't own your clients... let them explore their options.

Now let's have some SAFE fun!

Personally I don't think that providers should be allowed to refuse giving references, it's part of the job in which you are very well payed. The ones that refuse, use your references to schedule their appointments. You ladies should stick together and figure out a way to outcast the ones who refuse!

Well, I agree sort of. I will be letting gents know who is not responding and I'm keeping my own notes too. I understand business might be slow, but you can't hold on to a client. He's gonna wanna sniff this flower over here, and that flower over there too.

Let's work together ladies is all I'm saying! We need to be safe and that is one of the main things we do to verify a new client.

Out of respect for the Ladies on here and my Gentleman friends that see me I make it a point to always respond and in a VERY FAST manner

Out of respect for the Ladies on here and my Gentleman friends that see me I make it a point to always respond and in a VERY FAST manner Originally Posted by CashmereLove

Thank you Cashmere

I never understood being stingy with vouches. If a man wanted to be in a committed relationship with a female then why would he hobby to begin with?

There have been numerous times when a guy will give me a lady as a reference and I ask either on here or text and crickets. Sucks since we should be here to help each other out.
But I'm also not gonna lie if the guy has NCNS'd me or if it's been a while.
I feel the guys that use me as a ref is one that will come back to see me again and if I don't give the ref then I could lose them altogether.

From a guys point of view, If you didn't give me a reference, I would not do repeat business. I get that you expect to see that client again sometime. But hobbyist outnumber providers hundreds to one in SA, or just about any city. No reason to be territorial.

I had a guy use me as a reference that I had seen him like two years ago lol. I do not mind being used as a reference I always tell my clients to have the provider text or call me because I dance at night and busy with my school stuff it works out fine. But I agree we should stick together and keep each other safe.

I recently had a gentleman provide 6 references and I only got one response... Thank you Miss Meagan! That is absolutely pathetic odds. I may not always get right back as we all have lives outside of the hobby but I always make an effort to answer when asked to give a voucher. For me it is simply a matter of the old golden rule. I wish more providers felt this way too. Great thread Tracy!

That is why I use p411. Never have to use references.

travelerman has a point, but I don't use p411 anylonger, so my only option is for the whole vouching system. the P411 OK's is a great idea, maybe eccie should incorporate something like this.

Yea, p411 has helped a lot. As far as I know, only really had a few not Respond when I used them as a reference. I usually contact them and tell them I used them as reference, maybe that helps. I've had a few say that it was ok, because I had some reviews here. I also prefer providers that also p411. Makes me feel safer.

Will say like previous comments. If a provider doesn't give reference for here or no response oto ok request on p411 or date-check, etc., I rethink if I was see that provider again. Because I usually ask if provider wants reviews or ok requests before I make requests. Understand some don't get back to me or don't go on those sites. It goes both ways.

Hi tracy. Good thread, but not surprising since I know you have a beautiful mind as well body.

I've had this issue with 4 other providers. They never replied to vouch requests but I would see them logging in and posting ads. The client would get frustrated with me because I couldn't verify them. It's irritating because I always try to respond quickly to any and all vouch requests as quickly as possible. Providers like that won't last long in the hobby anyways. Their greed and selfishness will eventually show through and they will only get cruddy clients or none at all.

That is why I use p411. Never have to use references. Originally Posted by travelerman

P411 is great because of that.