Disrespectful Providers

I . I believe the whole point of having this site is communicate effectively and clearly and not being disrespectful and secure means of meeting a provider.
. Originally Posted by INDIAN

You thought that's what we're here for? TFF

Ladies you nailed it. Reviews tell you our menus. Discussing menus is a tricky legal problem so I personally don't care to discuss those things before I've referenced you. Op perhaps this was the problem.

This thread has taught me two things:

The English language is obviously a muther fucker.

From the OP it sounds as if the provider contacted him first. I say all bets are off if this is the case.

This thread has taught me two things:

The English language is obviously a muther fucker.

From the OP it sounds as if the provider contacted him first. I say all bets are off if this is the case. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

I had reread the OP post again to be clear. From what I could decipher the OP initiated the pm with his preferred activities. Looks to me he was lazy and was trying to avoid to doing minimal research on the lady Most ladies wont respond with an attitude unless the initial pm was rude or disrespectful in their eyes. Regardless OP move on

If the reviews tell you what she does and does not do, nor does her webpage (very important to research) then there is a time and place to ask. The time is BEFORE you give her the donation and the place is once you and her are in a room alone.

Now, if she has all her info on a website / profile / etc and you do not research, then she has a right to get in your face about it.

But, if that information is not out there either in reviews, website or profile.. how does one know what she does?

- Ladies, do not alter the menu AFTER you have received the donation. Even if the session was very good, if it was me and you change the menu (say from your posted BBBJ to CBJ or you only do 3 positions) then the review will reflect that info.. if a review is even posted.

If the reviews tell you what she does and does not do, nor does her webpage (very important to research) then there is a time and place to ask. The time is BEFORE you give her the donation and the place is once you and her are in a room alone.

Now, if she has all her info on a website / profile / etc and you do not research, then she has a right to get in your face about it.

But, if that information is not out there either in reviews, website or profile.. how does one know what she does?

- Ladies, do not alter the menu AFTER you have received the donation. Even if the session was very good, if it was me and you change the menu (say from your posted BBBJ to CBJ or you only do 3 positions) then the review will reflect that info.. if a review is even posted. Originally Posted by Mr. GPop

we do not have to give you bbj if we dont feel comfortable with it, you pay for an escorts time not someone you make do things they do not want to. its all about how the individual makes the provider feel. there are things ill let someone do that i don't feel comfortable doing with the next, and that's just life.

+1

Mentioning menu or rates prior to screening (or at all) is disrespectful. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

I agree with you Lily but tell the man before you get the money from him. You have the right to change your mind and I will argue with anyone who says otherwise.

But if it is posted on your website etc.. that you do _________ add a note like "depends on situation" or YMMV - this way the guy knows its a possibility.

But if you take the $$$ then tell them you do not do _______ and that was one of the main reasons he was there to see you, he has the RIGHT to a full refund so he can turn around and leave.

Time wasted? Sure. both yours and his, yours for the prep work for the session, his for scheduling during the day when he could be earning money, driving over there etc.. so its a 2 way street.

All I am saying is as long as something you do is not set in concrete, then post that its a "depending on the situation /YMMV" deal.. I doubt it will slow down clients any.. but it will lessen the expectations of them some so that they know that they will get good service and maybe something more if things are clicking / going good.

I would rather see a lady who has an "optional" menu of things she may or may not do depending on the mood at time of session, how the session is going etc.. that to EXPECT her menu to be carved in stone.

Research her reviews, website, and p411 menu. Everything she offers should be listed in all of these places.

I do not discuss activities before screening. If you wonder "does she do bbbj" look at her reviews and read a few. I'm sure it will be talked about there. There is no reason to ask about a providers menu before you get screened. After you are screened then it's acceptable to ask questions about activities.

Im the one he contacted & it cleary states NO EXPLICIT TALK in my showcase... I don't understand why guys discuss activitys just make an appointment & thats it.. If you do your research you will know what I offer & don't & Know Im a smartass... Ask something stupid get a stupid response simple.... Grrrrr

This thread has taught me two things:

The English language is obviously a muther fucker.

From the OP it sounds as if the provider contacted him first. I say all bets are off if this is the case. Originally Posted by oilfieldscum

He contacted me

......just make an appointment....
...... Originally Posted by Dorthy_Monroe

.....or NOT.

I'll take not.

I agree Dorothy.. he should have researched....

his fault, not yours

Reviews tell you our menus. Originally Posted by Sonya

Enough reviews get challenged on activities to reinforce the reality that what is included in reviews posted on here are just fantasies.

For instance, Dorothy has excellent oral skills, and while she is so engaged she's not being a "smart ass" at all.

Dorothy is that "too explicit"?

Without a doubt reviews can be embellished for kudos from the boys. But you can safely say if bbbj is mentioned in every review then chances are I bbbj. Js