Interesting thread.
I wouldn't have thought so many ladies would be offended by this guy's request although they clearly are. I guess I'm glad that isn't one of my fantasies or fetishes.
I don't know why Lily's prospective client thinks a good night's sleep has some kind of magical restorative powers with pussy but if that is what gets him off why not go with it?
Aren't you ladies into fantasy fulfillment and if that's his fantasy why not give it to him or like CD said charge him extra for a fetish?
I don't think he was implying you aren't clean or making any inquiries into or judgements about your personal life. That was just part of his fantasy. I would have thought no reason to be mad or annoyed although now I know some ladies are offended by the request.
However just like any fantasy or fetish request if you don't want to do it the gentleman should be respectful of your choices. Your body. Your rules.
But once you advised him of your decision and or irritation he should have respected it and the namecalling and threats should get him banned if you can prove it to the mods, at least until he can register under a new handle.
Like Rodney King said "can we all get along?"