HELP!!!! I'm not here to be offensive to anyone!

I didnt past that part of your comment lol

you guys just keep pulling me in!!! lol Originally Posted by Mia2015

And it seems you're doing the same to us. Lol

When the hook falls for the paying customer, I believe it's any of a few possible scenarios:

- the hook is pretending and wants to maintain the illusion so the mentally weak customer derives some sort of woebegone satisfaction that goes beyond getting his nut

-the hook has daddy issues or some other psychologically paralyzing condition

-the hook lacks social skills and is unable to find a partner via conventional avenues and utilizes hooking the way normal people use more typical methods of finding a suitable mate

I'm sure there are others.

lol I really did enjoyed my convo with you FINE Gent's and you as well Miss Ryder!!! I will play more with you boy's tomorrow!!!!!

When the hook falls for the paying customer, I believe it's any of a few possible scenarios:

- the hook is pretending and wants to maintain the illusion so the mentally weak customer derives some sort of woebegone satisfaction that goes beyond getting his nut

-the hook has daddy issues or some other psychologically paralyzing condition

-the hook lacks social skills and is unable to find a partner via conventional avenues and utilizes hooking the way normal people use more typical methods of finding a suitable mate

I'm sure there are others. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Mia Mia Mia....kudos for an intriguing thread clearly many are enjoying the topic, the chatter, the flirting. Very fun...and yet nicely revealing in a simple way.

Clearly not a LOVE site, aye. But connections come in many forms. one CAN love a being for who they are in their life...even if not a specific model of relationship (couple). We all have people we really appreciate and we know make our lives better (due to intamacy, hanging out, having each other back...and yes, for being a person who shares fucking with us and perhaps some cuddling).

Can the more extreme "changes" you mention (falling "in love") happen? I believe it can...but for every real occurrence of that, there is some more than a few hundred occurrences where that ain't the case.

But more importantly, when should we get married?

But more importantly, when should we get married? Originally Posted by newd

after readin yer ...post ...it sounds like itll be a couple ...chicks ...tryin the knot

...jimmie jesus ridin a walrus ...it be gettin fruity round here

Hookers will always be a hooker no matter how much you fall in love with them. Johns will always be a John.

Simple.

No one falls in love with a hooker. and no hooker falls in love with a John.

lol I really did enjoyed my convo with you FINE Gent's and you as well Miss Ryder!!! I will play more with you boy's tomorrow!!!!! Originally Posted by Mia2015

Interesting and thought tweaking thread Mia,good job.Read your last (only) review and notice you dont allow cim, so cancel the wedding plans,lol

Feelings happen and expressing them is fine. If they're not reciprocated just don't be butt hurt (or let any one know) for very long less you make yourself look like a loser.

I'm a hedonistic primal pansexual polygamous switch. There are poly/swinger/open/pack relationships out there everywhere, it's doable. There are escorts with husbands that hobby. I have solid friendships and deep connections with some of my regulars especially ones i find on dating sites and convert/guide them to the alt lifestyle we call the hobby. Do i love them? No. A connection and intense lust makes the "transaction" more rewarding for both parties. A rose by any other name is still a rose "paying for my room when I'm in your town" is the same as "giving me a donation towards my time". Like Ryder said, knowing where to draw the line is important.

I think the better question this post raises is whether any eccie member or provider has ever attempted to kill themselves while reading a six page page thread.

A rose by any other name is still a rose " Originally Posted by Lexxxy

an a ...airship ...by any other name ...be a ...blimp ...or a zeppelin

...plastic man dreams of ...flyin a zeppelin

especially ones i find on dating sites and convert/guide them to the alt lifestyle we call the hobby. . Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Translate:

When I post myself on a date site an when contacted I tell them I charge so much per hour.

Clearly not a LOVE site, aye. But connections come in many forms. one CAN love a being for who they are in their life...even if not a specific model of relationship (couple). We all have people we really appreciate and we know make our lives better (due to intamacy, hanging out, having each other back...and yes, for being a person who shares fucking with us and perhaps some cuddling). Originally Posted by newd

Very well said : ) Xoxoxoxoxo