Shy of some of my kinks

Danielle what you need is a trusted and verified hobbyist that it is agreed upon up front that you have never seen that it will happen at a random time and he will obviously where protection and give you your donation (unless your willing to waive donation if he does a good enough job) and of course the biggie is you will have to tell him where you live. So in summation. He must know where you live, and you must not know what he looks like. It will take a lot of trust but I'm are some of your provider friends have that you trust enough have a regular they wouldn't mind loaning out. Ginger Doll maybe... I don't think I would do it myself since I'm a pretty good "actor" and I'm afraid I'd get fucking shot or stabbed before I could say stop its me Ninja!! You seem kind of like a badass so I'd be scared.

I will take a freebie for having such a well thought out and great idea lol j/k

Also set rules upfront that you trust him to follow but keep them to a minimum and you might actually believe it's really happening

Danielle what you need is a trusted and verified hobbyist that it is agreed upon up front that you have never seen that it will happen at a random time and he will obviously where protection and give you your donation (unless your willing to waive donation if he does a good enough job) and of course the biggie is you will have to tell him where you live. So in summation. He must know where you live, and you must not know what he looks like. It will take a lot of trust but I'm are some of your provider friends have that you trust enough have a regular they wouldn't mind loaning out. Ginger Doll maybe... I don't think I would do it myself since I'm a pretty good "actor" and I'm afraid I'd get fucking shot or stabbed before I could say stop its me Ninja!! You seem kind of like a badass so I'd be scared.

I will take a freebie for having such a well thought out and great idea lol j/k

Also set rules upfront that you trust him to follow but keep them to a minimum and you might actually believe it's really happening Originally Posted by Imsecretlyaninja

Lol I'll cover the main points:

1. I don't allow anyone to know where I live, it took me a year to tell my mother where I lived. So this little adventure would happen in my hotel room. I could leave the card key in a hiding spot and the willing gentlemen would just wonder right in

2. If it's agreed upon before hand and you have access to my room then I can only assume that you are the guy I was expecting

3. I am a badass but I'm also quite submissive if you press the right buttons

4. I don't do freebies unless you buy me new boobs...

If I read a little deeper what you want is really aggressive rough sex? If you know when and where it's going to happen it kind of removes the "rape" aspect of the fantasy doesn't it
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And I wouldn't want a freebie there's a reason I pay for it lol

If I read a little deeper what you want is really aggressive rough sex? If you know when and where it's going to happen it kind of removes the "rape" aspect of the fantasy doesn't it
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And I wouldn't want a freebie there's a reason I pay for it lol Originally Posted by Imsecretlyaninja

Maybe so, but unless the guy agrees to kidnapping me from a bar or off the street (which would require him to watch me) then a hotel room with a hidden key will have to work. I would know the "where" just not the "when". I could be dead sleep when he comes in or he could be waiting for me outside the bathroom door when I'm in the shower

Please come to okc. I have a dark plan for you.

Maybe so, but unless the guy agrees to kidnapping me from a bar or off the street (which would require him to watch me) then a hotel room with a hidden key will have to work. I would know the "where" just not the "when". I could be dead sleep when he comes in or he could be waiting for me outside the bathroom door when I'm in the shower Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Here's an idea... Let him know what hotel you are at and tell the front desk a password to give someone a key (would they do that?). Hell ok getting excited I want to make this happen for you lol. I'm like a kinky wedding planner lol. Either way Danielle I hope you can make your fantasy come true!!

I say meet who you choose for brunch. Write a list of things you wish to do with the details or compare lists. Hand the key and block off a certain amount of time. This is not going to be a one hour thing so it's best to agree to a donation amount and then let variables happen.
If it were up to me I would look at fulfilling several scenarios over different days.

Sounds like the beginning of some fantastic, hot and beautiful fantasies that could come true. Love you've taken the first step! Just remember to take another an another.... It turned me on just reading your posting.

Danielle, you will find plenty of folks who share your fetish/kinks! They are out there... TRUST ME! I have tried many, many different kinks and fetishes and discovered just how many I was into myself. Just by being open to them and finding a few open-minded, versatile individuals who had different kinks themselves who I knew would be slow to judge. I began providing all types of fetish services before I began mainly escorting.. everything from strap-on play, to adult baby/mommy play, to a "workout" fetish. There are all kinds of people in this world, and our human nature drives us to want to make preconceived judgements about unknown things- but that's life. The key is getting to a point of release from other's opinion and freedom into your own thought. We often don't like what we can't immediately understand- but if many folks could get past this initial neglect of openness we would learn and probably be open to a lot more.

I have found that the best way to find out if others do truly understand and share my desires is just to put it out there, and I've always been pleasantly surprised at how many others there were. I have found that what helps as well to help the other person understand exactly what your fetish is and why you want it is to explain what it does for you psychologically.

I used to think I just liked being choked a little, hair pulled a little, etc.. but it was really the dominant attitude that did it. I realized this when I encountered some who did these things but did not have a truly "dominant" attitude but one of disdain towards women and self-seeking. There was a big difference and I could now differentiate between what I wanted. I used to think I was weird for having certain fetishes, such as playing a dominant mommy role. The reason why I enjoy this roleplay, I discovered, is that I truly enjoy taking care of and nurturing someone. So once I understood the whys and could relay them to others more, I could find out more about what I exactly liked and find the right match with someone. The fetish world is super fun, and life is meant to be explored! I wish more people would be more open with their sexuality and discover the fun in it.

U need to have someone experienced with a sub. They are probably not going to pay for it. This is your fantasy not his. "Safe" word or words need to be discussed before hand. Good luck.

Please come to okc. I have a dark plan for you. Originally Posted by HugLottery

I'll be there in January. Dates will be spammed...I mean POSTED in the Oklahoma section and my signature.

Here's an idea... Let him know what hotel you are at and tell the front desk a password to give someone a key (would they do that?). Hell ok getting excited I want to make this happen for you lol. I'm like a kinky wedding planner lol. Either way Danielle I hope you can make your fantasy come true!! Originally Posted by Imsecretlyaninja

I'm not sure if they do that since it could be a security risk...IDK I never tried. I could hide an extra key in the fitness center under the stack of towels or something. Once I get all the details worked out, hiding the key or getting it into the hands of the client shouldn't be too hard.

I say meet who you choose for brunch. Write a list of things you wish to do with the details or compare lists. Hand the key and block off a certain amount of time. This is not going to be a one hour thing so it's best to agree to a donation amount and then let variables happen.
If it were up to me I would look at fulfilling several scenarios over different days. Originally Posted by ugotme10

That could work. I would need to set off a block of time which is why I was thinking about late at night or at the end of the day or something. That way he doesn't walk in while I'm busy working with another client and scare the hell out of everyone lol. Would make a great video though.

Sounds like the beginning of some fantastic, hot and beautiful fantasies that could come true. Love you've taken the first step! Just remember to take another an another.... It turned me on just reading your posting. Originally Posted by marksmith13033

U need to have someone experienced with a sub. They are probably not going to pay for it. This is your fantasy not his. "Safe" word or words need to be discussed before hand. Good luck. Originally Posted by 12blue4u

I've dealt with "experienced doms" and ended up hating every moment of it. I've had a better experiences with curious men looking to explore fetishes, role play, rough sex, and something other than vanilla sex

I'll be there in January. Dates will be spammed...I mean POSTED in the Oklahoma section and my signature.

I'm not sure if they do that since it could be a security risk...IDK I never tried. I could hide an extra key in the fitness center under the stack of towels or something. Once I get all the details worked out, hiding the key or getting it into the hands of the client shouldn't be too hard.

That could work. I would need to set off a block of time which is why I was thinking about late at night or at the end of the day or something. That way he doesn't walk in while I'm busy working with another client and scare the hell out of everyone lol. Would make a great video though.


Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

That works well, just let the gentleman know that you will clear your calendar and just wait for the unexpected. Maybe when your in the shower, or taking a real nap.
I do see you being restrained so either a safe word or hand signal will be needed.

That works well, just let the gentleman know that you will clear your calendar and just wait for the unexpected. Maybe when your in the shower, or taking a real nap.
I do see you being restrained so either a safe word or hand signal will be needed. Originally Posted by ugotme10

I like being restrained and I tend to be a somewhat heavy sleeper. This could be a pretty amazing adventure

Minor detail if in hotel: be sure to keep noise down so as not to create an alarm to adjacent rooms or staff.