Staying overtime on a session: theft or robbery?

Good responses Big and Camille. Like I said, I knew the answer and would never thought asking for the refund.

Sometimes it is not done on purpose, you can have so much fun that time flies. Best way to deal with it is to tip Originally Posted by anita

I say something like "I need to finish soon because my time is nearly gone," and they quickly reassure me that's it's OK to stay because they're enjoying themselves and they're not expecting anyone else. Originally Posted by Mature210

If it's not by the ladies own choice is just annoying Originally Posted by SA Angel

+1

I think if you are concerned about time make sure to book at least one hour. If you can go any longer than that with any of these gorgeous ladies you deserve a medal! Lol

If it's not by the ladies own choice is just annoying.

I am generous.....but after 55 minutes of straight playtime during an hour session and you repeatedly stop me from moving so you don't finish? F*** off. At the hour mark of the beginning of bcd action I am totally going to stop touching you and leave the room. It's one thing if junior is shy....it's another if you stop yourself from coming on purpose so you can try to go over. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Does that really happen? 55 min of straight stop and go fucking? That means there was no intro, just straight to fucking. I'm two pump chump. I'll be lucky if I go straight for more that 10 min without stopping lol

Does that really happen? 55 min of straight stop and go fucking? That means there was no intro, just straight to fucking. I'm two pump chump. I'll be lucky if I go straight for more that 10 min without stopping lol Originally Posted by Peter Gozinya

Lmao PG! +1 I haven't had MSOG since I was in high school on top of that. I'm always afraid I'd be stuck with 30-40 min left and no fuel left in the tank!

Does that really happen? 55 min of straight stop and go fucking? That means there was no intro, just straight to fucking. I'm two pump chump. I'll be lucky if I go straight for more that 10 min without stopping lol Originally Posted by Peter Gozinya

Yes, it happens. I got injured, and lost some feeling. I have a wheelie guy on my car plates. sometimes it takes me longer, sometimes not. Sometimes I leave a session unsatisfied, Sometimes I fake it. My injury left me a stud, or truly handicapped, take you pick

This discussion seems unfocused because there are many reasons a session might go over.

SA Angel’s incident report about the client who intentionally prolonged the session is clearly out of bounds. Likewise any client who wants to hang around for the rest of the evening. I don't think anyone would argue that this kind of behavior is OK. Clearly, the provider should give him a gentle indication it’s time to finish up, then a less gentle one, and then a very stern one - and if three warnings of increasing intensity don't get the point across, then he's entitled a slap in the balls and a shove out the door, tossing his clothes behind him.


Nerdy 123’s mention of his disability/superpower is a different story – I’m in a similar situation in that some of my meds decrease sensitivity. As a client, I don’t book quick visits or even half-hour sessions – but an hour should be sufficient. But even so, I expect providers have more experience at this than I do, and they should manage the session and control the tempo – slowing down or switching if things seem to moving too quickly toward the finish line, or intensifying and focusing if time is running short.

My sense is that’s the difference between a QV and an hour session – a good provider should be able to step on the gas and get there quickly or take a more scenic route depending on the length of the session the client has purchased. So unless the client is misbehaving, it’s the responsibility of the provider to manage the activities so that they reach the destination in the time allotted.

But to me, there’s a bigger issue here … I would suggest that reviewers should NOT mention if a session happened to includes extra time.

I sense that the words “went over” are meant as a compliment, indicating the girl is not a clock-watcher, enjoys her work, and doesn’t mind putting in a little extra time to get the job done. But the drawback is that it creates an expectation for new clients that they will get more time than they pay for, and that they don’t have to pay for a longer session because the provider will let them run over. This attracts cheapskates who want an hour but will only pay for 30 minutes, or want 90+ minutes but will only pay for an hour.

To me, doing something unusual – whether it’s extra time or an activity that isn’t on the menu – is a favor that a customer should be discreet about, rather than telling the world so that others will expect it as a matter of course. A good client should be discreet when he gets something extra – rather than announcing it to the world and saddling the provider with a bunch of chiselers who don’t appreciate the providers enough to give fair pay for fair work.

Is that considered robbery or just theft?
Originally Posted by tpepsi

Well, robbery generally is theft with the use or threat of force. Guess that narrows down the question a bit.

Very interesting topic. To avoid the problem, I usually schedule 60 or 90 minutes. If I go over, I would obviously be embarrassed, apologize and tip generously.

A very practical issue: How do you know where you are in the allotted time, if there is no clock in the room and you are tangled up in your hot activities. The most annoying thing is an iphone alarm going off to indicate the last 10 minutes.

I really like it if there is a large display digital clock unassuming on the night stand so I can peek every now and then where I am to not go over. However, frequently there is no clock in the room I guess not to distract from the GFE.

How do others know where they are if there is no clock? Do you wear a wristwatch to check (I would have to wear reading glasses in addition....).

Input appreciated!