Married Men in The Hobby / Men in a Committed Relationship that Seek Providers.

My thoughts are if married men didn't hobby, there would be lots of starving hookers. Originally Posted by TinMan

To me, talking about people personal relationships on a hooker board is strange.

I'm going with my first statement business and none of.

My thoughts are if married men didn't hobby, there would be lots of starving hookers. Originally Posted by TinMan

Well said!

I don't mind seeing married men in the hobby, I'm doing their wife a favor if she's decided she's done putting out. She's getting everything she wants plus she doesn't have to fuck him. It's a win-win situation!

Awesome Nina, not married so I can't comment other than I have never cheated on a girlfriend or wife. Originally Posted by ManSlut

I thought the same thing. I actually lost my virginity to a provider at the age at 25(Beverly Fisher in denver). Throughout college I was a bookworm and didn’t have time to date. I saw about 10-15 ladies before I met my wife. I always thought I’d never cheat on a girlfriend or wife, so I decided hang up the cape and stay loyal.

Well, that lasted until about the third year into the marriage. She had a hysterometry and everything(it wasn’t great before then) changed. I happened to be on a business trip and decided to jump back in and I’ve been in ever since. I’m now into my 7’th year of my marriage and it's now been over 4 years since my wife and I where sexual.

I have had two sugar babies and one of them lasted nearly a year, but lately I have gone back to seeing providers. I’ve now seen around 25-30 ladies since i've been married. I can honestly say since being married, i've had more sex with other women than I have with my wife. She has no idea. To friends, family and the world, people look at me as perfect example of what loyal husband should be.

As for the ring, I always leave it on. It starts looking suspicious if all of a sudden I don’t have it on or forget to put it back on. I haven’t met anyone that it bothered and I believe my wife thinks(incorrectly) it make me unavailable.

As for money, both actually. We have a joint account. I offer to make runs to walmart, cvs and places like that and she never notices the extra $20-$40 cash back I always get on each visit.

As for my wife, I do lover her and while I miss being with her, seeing other ladies allows me to satisfy my desires without sacrificing my marriage.

Talk about shooting yourself on the foot LOL but I'll play along for a bit, I fuck other women because I love different fuck faces, always had whores on the side 2-3 at a time when I had time to bs them like all men do, was younger and slimmer,

now I'm fat, older and tricking but still like side pussy, I don't have the freedom for side whores anymore so here I am navigating through the hobby

PS: I don't feel bad when I come home, it's only pussy Originally Posted by BLM69

No I didn't shoot myself in the foot, I'm just stating what is likely fact. It is what it is my friend.

It's the only way I'm able to get laid, and, rarely and with the right woman, feel something akin to intimacy.

I've always been very independent in every aspect of my life. I have many friends, social life, family, a nice home and many other hobbies outside of this. I like the financial freedom and I have many goals in my life and I have my plans to achieve them. A nice man may join me in the journey only if he can tolerate my alpha female personality and not stand in the way to achieve my goals. If he cannot tolerate, he doesn't have to date me...for I cannot be told what to do or not to do. :-) I love my life!! And the hobby really fits my personality. :-)

No I didn't shoot myself in the foot, I'm just stating what is likely fact. It is what it is my friend. Originally Posted by Golden Man

I was agreeing with your honest post and meant the op was shooting herself on the foot by starting this topic.

Lol I love the honesty. I suppose it all comes down to needs. Then of course time and money.. Originally Posted by Kimber Rose

I'm a honest guy baby, I tell it how it is and think I mentioned before that I love that ass you got there.

....As for my wife, I do love her and while I miss being with her, seeing other ladies allows me to satisfy my desires without sacrificing my marriage. Originally Posted by nightr

Pretty much says it all.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUsHKJAn-5Y

+ 100 to MILFY 2002 & Nightr pretty much covers it . And if there was no hobby divorce rate would be about 99 %

To me, talking about people personal relationships on a hooker board is strange.

I'm going with my first statement business and none of. Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

Yuuup! I totally agree, Kaylee. My sentiments exactly.

I don't mean to be crass, Nina....but your inquiry has been bantered about as often as Girls with NBA policies or Who gives the best BBBJ (do a little search & you'll find plenty of thoughts on Married Men & The Hobby).

The reasons are numerous and from where I stand, they pretty much are the same today as they've been for years (centuries prolly). Guy$ (married and single alike) have $omething women want....and women have a honey pot. Bam.

What made u seek something outside of your marriage?
wife stopped being sexual...she won't do anything anymore and doesn't want to discuss it
Do your S.O. know you in the hobby?
I have mentioned it as a joke, but she doesn't think I'm serious
Do you guys normally leave your ring in the car before seeing a provider?
I don't even take my ring with me
Why get married if your just going to cheat?
I wasn't expecting to cheat when I got married
Do you use your money or your S.O. money to pay a provider?
mine...I would never use hers
What lie works best when trying to sneak away from your S.O.?
I just say I'm going to hang out

Nina just demonstrated to the entire community that she has absolutely no idea how the hooker industry works. All moral considerations aside it is the married man that represents the vast majority of johns.

I will bite.

1. I am married.
2. Providers fulfill fantasies my SO is not so comfortable with. In this regard, it alliws me to separate the two and in my mind contributes to my marriages health.
3. She does not know about current activity, but knew about some past.
4. I never wore a wedding ring. It is not fir the reasons most would think. I rather not get into that though.

5. It is not cheating in my opinion. I am oaying for a service and have no vested interest in a relationship with a provider past business transactions.

6. I use my money after all the bills and onligations at home are covered.

7. It is established that certain days of the week i am going to go do what i have to. If i am able to fit play time into that, great. If not, priorities are priorities.