Being A Gentlemen...

Sips tea... Originally Posted by Champagne Brown

HeH

They stop being respectful ladies when they started sucking dick for money. Just like I stop being a gentleman and became I degenerate when i became the one who paid them.

This is an interesting thread, it's a topic that seems to be simmering and reaches a flashpoint every so often. This isn't about the moral virtues of the hobby, it's just simple human communication. The stigma of the hobby still clouds people judgement so they think it's ok to be abusive, especially when driving a keyboard. Basic civility and good manners cost nothing, but can mean a lot. Anyone remember the Golden Rule? Life's too short to be a hater and karma is a bitch (with a chainsaw). I guess that's a lot of words just to agree with MaineBlames sentiment.

Chamomile isn't a tea...just sayin'...

The prez elect says it's ok...he even gave an example...you just grab them by the pussy...
Edit: not my words,...you can fact check it..lol

Simply put, life is going to be a bitch. Get handed lemons, you can either whine, or you can make lemonade.

Treat a lady like a bitch, even after you've supposedly treated her like a queen, then expect that same bitch to retaliate. Just because you're being a gentleman to start doesn't mean you can be an ass without discussing it with her. I know this is the hobby. As a consumer, I'd hope a hobbyist would want a provider to be prepared.

The difference in that particular case would be whether she leaves the situation, or destructively extracts satisfaction. A lady should only Tahoe so much BS.

Kisses,
VP

Simply put, life is going to be a bitch. Get handed lemons, you can either whine, or you can make lemonade. Originally Posted by Veronica Peach

In short, she is saying that all women are conniving manipulators that know how to hide from the light and keep men in the dark.

Being a true gentlemen is a dying art, not just in the hobby but in the rw as well.

That being said though, I meet with many awesome gents in the hobby that are sweet, respectful, and know how to treat a lady right.

As is usual with these things, the asshats tend to be the loudest.

But seriously though, in the rw it even seems like (alot) of men have forgotten simple chivalry. It's not even about man vs woman, it's just common decency and treating your fellow human beings with respect.

Again though, that being said, there are a lot of crazy dudes in the hobby; as a provider, one comes to expect that here and accept is as all part and parcel of the biz.

Well said VH.

Well said VH. Originally Posted by BIGSEXY7852

Thx.

But seriously though, in the rw it even seems like (alot) of men have forgotten simple chivalry. It's not even about man vs woman, it's just common decency and treating your fellow human beings with respect. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston

So women deserve to have doors held open for them and to get on and off elevators first just because of their gender? That's common decency and respect?

So women deserve to have doors held open for them and to get on and off elevators first just because of their gender? That's common decency and respect? Originally Posted by Wakeup

the short answer is absolutely. I'm happy to do so and i always get a kick out the genuine smile they give in return...especially strangers. I also learned when I was a teen that a peripheral benefit of opening doors, allowing a woman to go first, and pulling out chairs is that you get to look at their ass in the process. i always wonder if they think I'm being sincere or getting a quick peek.

So women deserve to have doors held open for them and to get on and off elevators first just because of their gender? That's common decency and respect? Originally Posted by Wakeup

When did I say that? If you continue reading, you'll see that I said it's not even about man vs woman really, but something we should all do for each other, plain and simple. If that means holding doors for women, etc, to some guys, then great. You can show common courtesy and respect for everyone in many different small ways.

And not showing "common courtesy" is disrespect?

HeH Originally Posted by maineblame

These days im liking it with flaxseed, it's different though..

Glad to see you are still around though, you are truly a gentlemen, and some don't deserve to be graced in your presence... Let them do them being petty petty..