GFE and what It is REALLY about

Why in the world would anyone want a girlfriend experience? All of my girlfriends tortured and tormented me leaving me with blue balls.

Samantha, maybe I did not write clearly. But I gave you a compliment. I looked at your website and your prices are in line with cheaper rates because you do not do those things. You are reinforcing my point, thank you. My point is when you have a lesser service or product charge cheaper rates. That is smart business and I commend you for it. Also, I even states "I do not advocate for any woman doing anything she is not comfortable with." Did you read my post entirely?

Now the pretending part is just bullshit. We as men all know you are pretending when in session, we further know you have to state that "no way not you, you service is true and you adore me even though you just met me, we connect, I am special yo you." Please, we all know that Space Mountain is not really a rocket taking us into outer space but we enjoy the ride anyway. No need to feel sad for us. I seriously doubt you turn men away due to fact you just did not connect with him, you connected enough to take his money the first time and if your service is stellar as you say, I am sure he had an orgasm. When women write that shit, I tend to think of soap products that are always "new and improved" that's as meaningless as writing GFE, lol. I like the men I see, please... I guess it works or soap cpanies would stop doing it, idk. I feel sad for the men that actually believe they are adored here, lol.

Well, thank you for the compliment. You were correct...I was validating my point.

Maybe most ladies pretend...I don't. The day I do is the day I quit. I have already retired from a previous name because I hated what I was doing then, and I took a hiatus to get perspective on what I really wanted to do and with who I wanted to do it with. I have turned down a lot of previous clients because I didn't click with them, and I continue to turn away a good number. I wish them well, but a lot of them aren't for me. I am much happier, don't pretend to be something I am not, and I am really enjoying what I do. Heck, this is fun! My focus is massage, and I let the guys know that I like more that the other package is available. I like that I choose who I GFE with. If you notice though, I don't call it GFE though because of all the controversy around the name.

I am an escort, you pay for my "time and companionship". ;-)

xoxo,

Samantha Sheppard

I agree on BB it should not be an expectation, and yes the provider can set her do's and dont's but on this issue I feel should just be NO. Now BBBJ is something I enjoy, and would be expected for a session. That said it is up to me to make sure it is on the menu, and also up to me if I want some GFE I need to be a good BF. That includes washing myself, making sure my mini me is fresh and ready, show respect and affection. As long we we both communicate and get on the same page, passionate embraces, kisses, and orgasms will come. And come.

In what universe is providing A MORE personal , usually over an hour long, somewhat emotionally involved session LESS WORK.

I disagree a real GFE a girl who is truly allowing the personal , genuine connection and getting to really know her date, possibly spending hours w him or even if its just one hour the gfe provider providing real companionship and an EXPERIENCE is doing way more work especially mentally than the one whos just bending over or dropping to her knees and then not allowing a non rushed experience.

GFE, and Fetish companions work far harder than you can imagine. Mental work is still work.

be well! Originally Posted by seductivestorm

The guy says he prefers multi hour or overnight sessions. These are easier in the fact that you are not doing sex the whole time. He's paying for you to be a " girlfriend" I.E ACT. He wants conversation. This is way easier than fucking. You act the part and he's happy. I don't care what you do if it makes him happy but to say his way is more manly and your way is more personal is blsht. If it wasn't the truth you would " TALK " to him for free. It's a paid contract and nothing more to you but he is delusional if he thinks that your really into him or his GFE needs

Thanks OP, interesting thread.

When I think about GFs, it's true that these sorts of things come to mind:

Girlfriend experience is a very PERSONAL experience, it entails a warmth, a connection between the client and the provider. Its conversation, possibly dinner, breakfast ( possibly) , it involves more foreplay , more intimate touch,(DATY may or may not be allowed, often it is) It is usually non rush, there are still time constraints but you are made to feel totally unaware. Originally Posted by seductivestorm

Yes. But it's also true that all of my GFs have invariably been like this:

Most of the guys here have had girlfriends. So....we know what it is like to have an open-minded girlfriend when neither one of us wants the girl to get pregnant. This means French Kissing, uncovered oral on him and her, and covered full vaginal sex. Originally Posted by Yorick459

It's not surprising there's confusion then. I agree that the terms we use should have meaning so as to avoid misunderstandings, but GFE is and forever will be subjective and open to individual interpretation. Whoever coined the term could have had the OP's definition in mind, but there's no hobby police and this game is what the players make it. For me personally, it's a combination.

Stop starting threads saying guys are all wrong or is that part of the GFE experience; telling the man how wrong he is? Originally Posted by gentlemantoo

This is part of the "wife experience," which I've yet to see any provider advertise or any guy seeking. As HL Mencken said "A man may be a fool and not know it, but not if he is married." I don't miss the wife experience.

This is a business guys, and it is our body to do as we wish.
This is a business, ladies; and it is our money to spend as we wish.

Happy Hobbying!!!
Originally Posted by ck1942

Truth and wisdom right here. I do this my way, on my time, on my dime, and I respect others doing the same. I have not ever, nor will I ever, suggest to or argue with a provider about how to conduct her sessions, or what to ask for her time. I just read the ads and reviews and go see ladies with compatible views.

So that is indeed the issue... Look again at what you stated above -- you are trying to define away the 'girlfriend' part of GFE

Many guys want a (hobby world) 'GF' experience. That is what they are looking for and what they expect. If you don't offer that -- that's fine.

Just offer what you offer, but don't call it GFE - because it isn't.


Maybe call it SIPE (safe intimate provider experience)... that would be more accurate and there's nothing wrong with that. Originally Posted by Skittlez

I 100% agree with skittlez it's not GFE if you do not kiss or do bbbj that's the way it's always been. If you don't provide that. That's your business but your not GFE and that's what makes guys upset it's false advertising. Plain and simple You would never suck your boyfriends dick with a plastic bag on it!

The guy says he prefers multi hour or overnight sessions. These are easier in the fact that you are not doing sex the whole time. He's paying for you to be a " girlfriend" I.E ACT. He wants conversation. This is way easier than fucking. You act the part and he's happy
Originally Posted by burkalini

I'm sorry but that's sooo Wrong.... lmao 😂 talking to clients is not easier than fucking, which is why most ladies don't do it. To talk to a client and hold an intellectual conversation you must actually have intelligence. Any halfwit can bump the monkeys it takes a lady with class to be able to hold a conversation With intelligent gentlemen.

It's funny how most guys think PSE is more "work" than GFE.

At the end of day, if my appointments were all hot, sweaty, screaming, dirty PSE encounters I'm ready to conquer the world immediately after I'm finished with my work day. If my appointments were GFE?...I need to decompress and take some time alone to myself. The physical is easy. The emotional is rewarding but draining.

...and before you call bullshit my most recent review was with a guy I saw only once YEARS ago and we reconnected so well partly because I remembered how sweet and genuine he was with me last time. I could immediately be in the right place mentally and emotionally the moment I laid eyes on him again. I don't keep notes on clients. I remember them and the time we share because I give a damn.

It's funny how most guys think PSE is more "work" than GFE.

At the end of day, if my appointments were all hot, sweaty, screaming, dirty PSE encounters I'm ready to conquer the world immediately after I'm finished with my work day. If my appointments were GFE?...I need to decompress and take some time alone to myself. The physical is easy. The emotional is rewarding but draining.

...and before you call bullshit my most recent review was with a guy I saw only once YEARS ago and we reconnected so well partly because I remembered how sweet and genuine he was with me last time. I could immediately be in the right place mentally and emotionally the moment I laid eyes on him again. I don't keep notes on clients. I remember them and the time we share because I give a damn. Originally Posted by SA Angel

When I truly think the lady and I have connected as friends or a great working arrangements is after her busy day when she needs to decompress relax and just jell out she texts me just to relax knowing that I am there if for nothing else but listen, laugh,have a cold drink or morning coffee.
Anyone can do the wild monkey..
I do prefer a bbbj and daty I love light kisses... All the rest covered for both of our safety sakes..

I 100% agree with skittlez it's not GFE if you do not kiss or do bbbj that's the way it's always been. If you don't provide that. That's your business but your not GFE and that's what makes guys upset it's false advertising. Plain and simple You would never suck your boyfriends dick with a plastic bag on it! Originally Posted by Sexyhunnypot

Glad to see someone gets it.

Perfect reply for the Provider. She gets more money from you and has to do less work. All GFE is an ACT. They are not our girlfriends. If you spend more time and money on them they are happy in that they make more MONEY. Get off your I'm a man blsht. Your just a guy who PAYS more than most. This is a business transaction. No more no less. I love it when things go well and I enjoy the experience but don't think your superior to a guy that says this is what I like and this is what I will pay. Your white knight blsht attitude just means your not getting it in the real world.
Originally Posted by burkalini

I'm a white knight because I have a different opinion than you and I agree with somebody who happens to have the opposite genitalia as me?

I'm going to make an ass of myself like you and make some assumptions... I'm going to assume that you have mother issues. Perhaps even incestuous.

Of course I'm paying more. Believe It or Not There are individuals who don't kick rocks over money. It's my money and if I want to pay more for what I believe is the best quality and the best experience just like women pay more for a Michael Kors,instead of a purse from Walmart * that serves the same purpose, I'm going to do that.

You seem heart broken about luxury items... And that luxury items do have a market! That's you feeling inferior. I'm not making it out like I'm better than anybody. I cant help that I prefer a Michael Kors quality experience over another bag from the flea market. And I am using this purse example as it appears there's a kitten between your legs per your reaction to my post

I'm sorry but that's sooo Wrong.... lmao �� talking to clients is not easier than fucking, which is why most ladies don't do it. To talk to a client and hold an intellectual conversation you must actually have intelligence. Any halfwit can bump the monkeys it takes a lady with class to be able to hold a conversation With intelligent gentlemen. Originally Posted by Sexyhunnypot

So you talk to him for free then? I love it when providers try to distinguish themselves by saying how intelligent they are and how they truly give GFE. First of all the GFE experience is not a paid situation. It includes disagreements. It's the illusion you sell. Whoever is the best carnival barker can demand the most money. Don't get me wrong I have had good conversations before with a provider. Normally though it's when there is time left on the clock and another go isn't going to happen. One hour is plenty of time. On occasion it's too much time. I'm sure that's the thought from both the provider and the HOBBYIST. ( used that term for the white knight). I think providers are great. They do give things that sometimes the wife or girlfriend don't give. If you need conversation then do that with the wife or girlfriend. If they won't do that then get a new one as it won't work out anyway. Just don't give me the crap about intelligent conversation. The only thing intelligent about it is you are getting paid for it. Cudos for that.

Glad to see someone gets it. Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I have been a real life wife and a girlfriend ... and at the end of the day... i do NOT tongue kiss my personal life lovers either but our sex is fantastic

Nor did we rush into uncovered anything. BTW My current and I have been together 8 yrs. Condoms stopped after 3 years in.

I was certainly his girlfriend the entire time.

I am glad that the majority of the men I have dealt with and the other ladies understand that it is NOT the checklist.

It is THE overall experience.

If he leaves here feeling like I treated him like a king, even with covered acts, and he feels like I cuddled him , spent real genuine time with him regardless of how we handled it.. and his loneliness and lack or feeling loved or cared about is gone and he leaves happy .. then it was GFE.. and my reviews from THAT other site I will not mention before I delisted said in the words of a couple.

" at no time did I feel Storm was anything less than a girlfriend experience".

Take Care.

So you talk to him for free then? I love it when providers try to distinguish themselves by saying how intelligent they are and how they truly give GFE. First of all the GFE experience is not a paid situation. It includes disagreements. It's the illusion you sell. Whoever is the best carnival barker can demand the most money. Don't get me wrong I have had good conversations before with a provider. Normally though it's when there is time left on the clock and another go isn't going to happen. One hour is plenty of time. On occasion it's too much time. I'm sure that's the thought from both the provider and the SLOBBYIST. ( used that term for the white knight). I think providers are great. They do give things that sometimes the wife or girlfriend don't give. If you need conversation then do that with the wife or girlfriend. If they won't do that then get a new one as it won't work out anyway. Just don't give me the crap about intelligent conversation. The only thing intelligent about it is you are getting paid for it. Kudos for that.
Originally Posted by burkalini

FTFY