What is the objective to lying in Hobby World....?

That's true but what about the whoretards that go through extreme measures to "capture" RW info like camping out in the bushes etc.... ? Originally Posted by TryWeakly

Or the RW information can just be "bought" apparently.

Some fucktards need more therapy

Yes, I stopped seeing as a client/provider to just straight friends and only texted. I have that sort of relationship with few, not many. So, he tells me weeks ago that he no longer has a GF. Ok, fine,,,whatever. But then I wake up this morning to a text from so-called SO / wife asking how I know him blah blah blah. And noticed a text just before hers from him...asking me to forgive him that he lied. WTF!!

I DON'T GET IT! Originally Posted by Luvs2Purrr

He might not have been seeing someone when he and you were hooking up.. but now he has an S.O. who either he showed the messages to or they got a hold of his phone and looked. That or he told her.

As for men lying, even the single ones will give a false name etc. The smart guys will still lie but when they get a GF, they purge their phone of any contact #'s for providers etc... unless they have a separate phone for the hobby then they will lock it up some place where the S.O. won't find it

.... unless they have a separate phone for the hobby then they will lock it up some place where the S.O. won't find it Originally Posted by Lincoln.F.Stern

...which they purge before the "lock it up," because SHE WILL!

If "we" aren't LYING, why do we have fake names as screen names with passwords?

While I haven’t posted on this site for a couple of years, this post deserved an answer that was more on target and an accurate answer to the OP’s question. The story I have is based on someone I know who let his guard down with a provider, and it had nothing to do with “scoring free Hooktard” goodies as some others have written.

The story goes like this:

Guy meets a new provider who he fancied. Within the first 10 minutes of talking to the girl during the initial "getting to know each other", she asked the guy if he was married. Of course, he told her no he wasn’t because her question was stepping over the boundary that exists for a reason. His mistake was seeing her after their first time together since he was married at the time. He continued in seeing her and things went to the point a few months later she told him she was in love with him and that he did not have to pay her any longer. The provider made it clear she wanted to continue to see him in the RW.

The short of the story is lying on a guy’s side is just part of the P4P game just like it is for the girls to not reveal their real names or their RW identity. Both parties, in this case, made multiple mistakes which led to her, and a cohort, lying to others in the P4P realm about his actions. That culminated in their actions, along with the complicity of others in the administration of the other site, in outing him to a lot of folks.

Who those parties are will not be revealed since the guy has been out of the P4P realm for many years, while one of the girls that outed him is still in this game and the other has retreated somewhere unknown. This story is the primary reason why I am the Watchman on the Wall for my friend. I will note that if any guy reveals his RW information to a provider or agency, he is a fool.

This story may also be one of the reasons why the owners of this site made sure to strictly enforce the outing guideline for both providers and guys given what occurred on the another site. Originally Posted by PhantomofTheOpera

He might not have been seeing someone when he and you were hooking up.. but now he has an S.O. who either he showed the messages to or they got a hold of his phone and looked. That or he told her.

As for men lying, even the single ones will give a false name etc. The smart guys will still lie but when they get a GF, they purge their phone of any contact #'s for providers etc... unless they have a separate phone for the hobby then they will lock it up some place where the S.O. won't find it Originally Posted by Lincoln.F.Stern

Close, but definitely NOT the situation at all since the "whole picture" is not laid out to make sure for privacy. But here's a timeline....so-to-speak.

*met over year ago after lots of emailing
*I knew he was in a relationship
*p4p was involved several times throughout a year time.
*"I" stopped all contact for several months due to rw feelings
*months later we start chatting ONLY "friends"
*"he" then told me how life is stressful and no longer has gf
*timeline from last entry......approx 4 weeks from today or so.
*Still chatting only as friends, up until last week....when.......
*"He" texts saying he is sorry for not telling me he was really in a relationship and would explain later......after mid night said date at beginning.
*So-called....wife texts around 6am asking how I know him and saw text messages.

So, since I knew from the beginning that he had someone, but then tells me they broke up but in reality they didn't. Just doesn't make sense why lie about "breaking up"?

Can I come out of the corner yet? Originally Posted by TryWeakly

Do you deserve to?

LOL.... nice thread, by the way. Business must be slow. Originally Posted by TryWeakly

Thank you, FTFY......
I don't start threADs!
I only start thread of questions I might want an answer from a larger group, that is hobby related. Think about it.......who else can you talk about hobby related questions / issues / problems with....other than talking about those things with other people in the hobby....RIGHT?
NOW......if it turns out that it becomes a threAD..... ijs

He dumped your ass! Get over it!

Hello Bi-otch! Originally Posted by Luvs2Purrr

You're close but still off, It's QUEEN BITCH!
Name calling is so elementary.

I usually don't get on the site on the weekends......but just for you MM....I made the exception because I woke up ready to piss someone off. It might as well be you darlin' .... Originally Posted by Luvs2Purrr

What a silly notion you have if you think calling me biotch would upset me. You'll need to up your game to get me flustered.

Just doesn't make sense why lie about "breaking up"?

I don't start threADs!
I only start thread of questions I might want an answer from a larger group, that is hobby related. Think about it.......who else can you talk about hobby related questions / issues / problems with....other than talking about those things with other people in the hobby....RIGHT?
NOW......if it turns out that it becomes a threAD..... ijs Originally Posted by Luvs2Purrr

What makes no sense is why you would pose a common sense question that most people learned the answer to in grade school. It's simple...PEOPLE LIE! Think about it! Nobody in the hobby cares that some trick lied to you and we're not the folks to discuss your personal feelings with in the first place. So WRONG.

Do us all a favor and stick to hobby related topics, those threAD's are more effective and tend to make you look better.

Damn, Macy just gave me a hard on.

The other one, not so much

Cat fight....

No cat fight. She's just mad because she didn't like my answer.

Just call me the common sense crusader.

...which they purge before the "lock it up," because SHE WILL!

If "we" aren't LYING, why do we have fake names as screen names with passwords? Originally Posted by LexusLover

if your not lying your not trying........Ben Franklin 1793..............

He's not that into you......ijs

^ thanks JohnnyComeLately .... slackin

OH, I DEFINITELY COULD CARE LESS ABOUT YOUR ANSWER......ijs

TW......No cat fight here.
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