Providers that ARE NOT reference friendly

I agree every girl I have meet on here I try using them as a reference when I try to see another lady they call an say bad things about the lady I'm trying to see or try an make a better deal SMH

If a girl tells me she didn't see a guy that is always information I'll relay back to him. There isn't a way for me to prove it either way so it'd have to be the guys making the list. Originally Posted by LunarFae

When i was a newbie i had tbis happening a girl i gave in reference said she never saw me. There is no way she forgot about me. I had seen her 5 times, im a serial repeater... the girl that received that non reference told me. I saw the 2 second girl, and never more saw tbe first one.
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This reminds me of my strip club days! I thought escorts weren't so petty. Us girls almost never meet each other.

I agree every girl I have meet on here I try using them as a reference when I try to see another lady they call an say bad things about the lady I'm trying to see or try an make a better deal SMH Originally Posted by Cumflywithme42

Dang Luna...I thought ALL dancers piled into a car after their shift to smoke and talk shit lol about their lame ass customers.

I would think my regulars would be glad to ref me....hoping they might get rid of me to someone else :-(

Hahahaha you poor thing I'm sure your regulars appreciate you.

Dancers act very friendly on the floor but at least where I worked were so mean behind closed doors. Or nice one day and talking badly about you the next. Which is why I prefer working alone now

Dang Luna...I thought ALL dancers piled into a car after their shift to smoke and talk shit lol about their lame ass customers.

I would think my regulars would be glad to ref me....hoping they might get rid of me to someone else :-( Originally Posted by Tsmokies

It's happened to me with several girls I really wanted to see. The girl would say my references didn't remember me and that would be it. Then I was turned on to Google Voice by DallasBella and so far so good - I had been using a burner number that goes away after 30 days. Stupidly I thought they'd have some record on eccie, but after reading this thread, maybe they just didn't want to give the reference.

Annoying.

I doubt those who refuse references would post such in their showcase.

I personally would never see a provider I knew would not give references. That says something about her and how she really feels about other providers and what she does. If you look down on other providers or on your clients I would rather not waste my time on you.

It might be a good selling point for you ladies that are reliable to provide references when asked to post in your showcase that you do provide references. It would move you up on the to do list of many of the hobbyists because to me it says something positive about your classiness.

Just put a mark next to the ones that are reliable at providing references.

Elisabeth Whispers
Taylor Sims (occasionally)
LustyBustyGina38FF
Tara Evans
Nina the Dicknapper
Lena Duvall
MOCHAakaMOCHA
KaitlynDior
DallasRain
Selena51
JamieDallas
SpinnerCindy
VIP Mya Michelle
Sierra Sinclair
DallasBella
Alaine
KayleeHotChick(FBSM only)
London-James
AlkuringStacy
Nicole Cox
Eva Damita
Zorah Matta
Cayden Caramel

You do have the right to be haters and not give out references, I don't get it but it's your right.

If you are one of these girls why don't you put it on your profile and in each and every one of your ads and let your clients know this BEFORE they book with you. Guys see girls (especially newbie friendly ones) to gain references to see OTHER girls.

It would save all (CLIENTS AND PROVIDERS) of us a bunch of time if you did.

Thanks Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Agree - this happened to me this week

And don't you love the irony of a hooker calling someone looser? I know the whole kegel exercise thing but leave it to Tara to misspell a 5th grade word.

Edit: On topic, I provide references. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Leave it to y'all to follow me around on every single post and bring up my name. Dam it's crazy yall must think about me 24 7 and I just love it

Why does every thread have to be about Tara? Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Cause you dumb assess make it that way. You wake up and and start with Tara Tara Tara it's really pathetic and I feel sorry for yall

If you PM me over ECCIE, I'll respond back quickly.

I agree every girl I have meet on here I try using them as a reference when I try to see another lady they call an say bad things about the lady I'm trying to see or try an make a better deal SMH Originally Posted by Cumflywithme42

I have not yet had a provider I used as a reference reach out to me offering a special deal or talk smack about the provider I was trying to see. I have had a few tell me someone reached out to them and they gave them a positive reference for me, but nothing to sabotage anything.

Guess that says a lot about the professionalism of the ladies I've been seeing/using as references.

Dancers act very friendly on the floor but at least where I worked were so mean behind closed doors. Or nice one day and talking badly about you the next. Which is why I prefer working alone now Originally Posted by LunarFae

Many of the girls here are no different.

So there is an emerging trend of intentionally refraining from giving and receiving references because of possible safety risks it can pose to exchange that kind of information with strangers. I'm still sorting through my feels about such policies, but if it is clearly stated on a companion's website that she opts out of the reference system or only provides references to people she knows, then I respect the transparency.

That said, I am deeply irked when a provider receives references when it is beneficial to her and refuses to give them or let her clients know not to expect her to do so.

My personal practice is to respond to reference requests in lightning speed or within hours at the longest.