I would give it time. My guess is they are still integrating the new format with the old format. Bits and pieces are still on the way I am sure. Originally Posted by EastTexasGrownI agree. If it takes a little time to make sure the site can exist within the constraints of our misguided legal system I’m ok with that. Like some have said this is better than no Eccie at all. Thanks to everyone who has put time and effort into getting this back up and continuing to work to get all the state forums back up. And thanks to everyone that posts ads and reviews or should I say encounter reports because that’s what makes this site valuable to each of us.
I missed lurking in the forums lol. I don't post much but love seeing what's going on and getting a feel for everyone's personality. I don't mind the new format but I don't understand why activities can be mentioned in reviews but not showcases, and I'm not sure how to work with the exclusion of donation info. I don't feel comfortable messaging about it especially with all the new accounts. Originally Posted by Tera ParisI am very glad that Eccie is back up. I am sure it was a lot of work going over all the BS that has been posted over the years. Just be thankful that eccie still accepts new members, they have enough members to stop accepting new members. As others have mentioned: the information that you seek, are available on P and other sites.
I missed lurking in the forums lol. I don't post much but love seeing what's going on and getting a feel for everyone's personality. I don't mind the new format but I don't understand why activities can be mentioned in reviews but not showcases, and I'm not sure how to work with the exclusion of donation info. I don't feel comfortable messaging about it especially with all the new accounts. Originally Posted by Tera ParisI would “like” this post 30 times if I could. I’ve always avoided talking about donations, but now that is more or less impossible.
I would “like” this post 30 times if I could. I’ve always avoided talking about donations, but now that is more or less impossible.Jim, you're 100% on the same page as I am! Thanks to some friendly members on here, I've heard about another avenue I can pursue, which is great and why I like this site. Even though I have more info in P, not everyone has an account and can access that information. The provider who talked to you that way was out of line. I know I'm more than the average bear, so I try to ask delicately what someone's budget is but I feel awful when I have to say I'm out of their range and hope it doesn't sound insulting.
Tera is the perfect example of why as well. She looks incredible, she’s articulate, and she seems to be of a similar mind to me. Normally I’d be visiting her page to see if we’re compatible from a donation perspective. That isn’t an option now, which occasionally means someone like Tera would never hear from me because I don’t want to come across as haggling or rude.
Why not even reach out? Things get taken the wrong way too easily. I had the pleasure of getting bitched out recently for saying “I apologize, it looks like you’re not in my range right now. I will be in touch if that changes though. Your selfies are beautiful.” Somehow the lady took that as me telling her that her prices were too high and that she needs to change how she markets herself. Fun times. Originally Posted by jimballs12
I missed lurking in the forums lol. I don't post much but love seeing what's going on and getting a feel for everyone's personality. I don't mind the new format but I don't understand why activities can be mentioned in reviews but not showcases, and I'm not sure how to work with the exclusion of donation info. I don't feel comfortable messaging about it especially with all the new accounts. Originally Posted by Tera ParisI don't post much in the Sandbox but those tits.....
I missed lurking in the forums lol. I don't post much but love seeing what's going on and getting a feel for everyone's personality. I don't mind the new format but I don't understand why activities can be mentioned in reviews but not showcases, and I'm not sure how to work with the exclusion of donation info. I don't feel comfortable messaging about it especially with all the new accounts. Originally Posted by Tera Parisholy smokes tera...do you ever come to dallas??
Jim, you're 100% on the same page as I am! Thanks to some friendly members on here, I've heard about another avenue I can pursue, which is great and why I like this site. Even though I have more info in P, not everyone has an account and can access that information. The provider who talked to you that way was out of line. I know I'm more than the average bear, so I try to ask delicately what someone's budget is but I feel awful when I have to say I'm out of their range and hope it doesn't sound insulting.
Edited to add- thank you so much for your complimentary impression of me, I do hope you'll reach out ;-) Originally Posted by Tera Paris