Double standard

I’m currently in talks with this girl interested in seeing her but she’s expecting me to send her my drivers license or a picture of my work badge or my link Wikipedia I asked her to do the same for me for my safety. I’ve seen it on Facebook this week multiple arrest in Harris County Montgomery County and even Beaumont over 60 men have been arrested for solicitation of prostitution just this week between the three. I think it’s just as important as the men request personal information on the women as the women do for the men. We need to do something to protect ourselves. Also, I told this woman I wasn’t sending her my personal information that we were not a good fit I told her I have references, but she said she needs my personal information to make sure that she’s verifying the right person. What are your thoughts on this?
I’m currently in talks with this girl interested in seeing her but she’s expecting me to send her my drivers license or a picture of my work badge or my link Wikipedia I asked her to do the same for me for my safety. I’ve seen it on Facebook this week multiple arrest in Harris County Montgomery County and even Beaumont over 60 men have been arrested for solicitation of prostitution just this week between the three. I think it’s just as important as the men request personal information on the women as the women do for the men. We need to do something to protect ourselves. Also, I told this woman I wasn’t sending her my personal information that we were not a good fit I told her I have references, but she said she needs my personal information to make sure that she’s verifying the right person. What are your thoughts on this? Originally Posted by Funnyshit
1) never send id or personal info
2) don’t send deposit
3) find another girl that won’t want either
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
1) never send id or personal info
2) don’t send deposit
3) find another girl that won’t want either Originally Posted by Hawtanhandsome
+1
No need for further discussions when they request something you're not comfortable with, just respectfully decline; move on & look for someone else.
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  • 11-21-2025, 01:55 PM
I told this woman I wasn’t sending her my personal information that we were not a good fit I told her I have references, but she said she needs my personal information to make sure that she’s verifying the right person. What are your thoughts on this? Originally Posted by Funnyshit

No worries, just give out your personal address & let any provider come over.
Last I checked, most upscale women have their own place and men are going to her... That means he will have her personal address. But let's do it your way & all the providers can save some money
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No worries, just give out your personal address & let any provider come over.
Last I checked, most upscale women have their own place and men are going to her... That means he will have her personal address. But let's do it your way & all the providers can save some money
Originally Posted by Busty
Exactly

These guys crack me up!
Unique_Carpenter's Avatar
No most providers have an in call location. They don’t let people come to their house. And Cendell since you’re so cracked up why don’t you share your real name and personal information? send me your drivers license. People like you crack me up expecting me to give you all my personal shit so you can wreck my life. You think i should provide you all of my personal information but yet you hide your face in your ads . I’ve seen your ad on tryst link two or three pictures bare minimum and then none of them showing your face. Why don’t you start showing your face since you’re so cracked up about me not wanting to give my personal information
The last time a provider asked me to send a deposit, I refused, and she went bat shit crazy, blowing up my number with continuous text messages.

Luckily I had a burner phone and just shut the phone down. The next time I opened my phone I had 71 texts from her.
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
^@Funnyshit
Relax Bruh!!
Take the dog for a calming walk to the lake.
Everyone is entitled to run their business as they see fit, just like you're entitled to choose who to do business with.
I stand by my response to op. In my humble opinion discretion and safety are more important. Don’t give out personal info, id, work.
Use a texting app or hobby phone.
Don’t send deposit as that is traceable.
I mean no disrespect to any providers or how they conduct their business. I respectfully pass if any of those items are required by a lady.
One of The reasons why some of these ladies ask for these items is because some guys do provide it even without the lady asking. So I have been told by some providers.
I have also had some providers they don’t want the real id or name and tell me why would a guy do that.
Be smart but do it respectfully. This forum and others like it exist because of these ladies and they deserve respect.
LustyBustyGina38FF's Avatar
Just know who you are visiting with should be high your Research of a Establish provider not some fly by night who only in it for a day or so !!.. Should never have any issues at all. deposit or not
No most providers have an in call location. They don’t let people come to their house. And Cendell since you’re so cracked up why don’t you share your real name and personal information? send me your drivers license. People like you crack me up expecting me to give you all my personal shit so you can wreck my life. You think i should provide you all of my personal information but yet you hide your face in your ads . I’ve seen your ad on tryst link two or three pictures bare minimum and then none of them showing your face. Why don’t you start showing your face since you’re so cracked up about me not wanting to give my personal information Originally Posted by Funnyshit
Ditto! I knew a couple of ladies where their "Incall" was either one of those extended stay motels that cost about 350 a week but has a kitchen & living room area. Or they would get a room at some ______ Inn motel with the room expense being part of your donation & they used 3-4 of these at random.

Could either be a set up? sure but it is safe because neither of you know where the other lives.
Seline's Avatar
This seems to be coming up a lot lately. When you don’t feel comfortable, just move on & don’t let it get to you. It sucks, but that’s what some ladies request.
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The Subtle Art Of Moving On...
A LOST Art
The Subtle Art Of Moving On...
A LOST Art Originally Posted by Italia DiBella
Bella, You have a typo by your avatar. I believe the correction is Sexual artist.